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About Me

THE IDEA IS TO BE ABLE TO GET THROUGH IT ALL AND STILL COME OUT AHEADI'm putting forth the tedious effort to somewhat describe myself while wondering if anyone will put forth the effort to inquire. If you don't know me, I'm described as a multi-dimensional, perspicacious individual with the earned reputation of being profoundly precocious. I tend to be mercilessly forthright yet genuinely frank in my perspectives and beliefs. However, I rarely have any enemies and I hardly hold grudges. For the most part, I'm a pretty nice (somewhat nerdy) lady with an outstanding life.I can be fairly nice, really helpful, and very loyal. There are several times when I try to make everyone get along because of the different types of people in my life. Then, there are other times when I could give a shit. I consider myself as a true and loyal person. I generally say what I feel and stay true to my values. I don't have time for people in my life that are dishonest or I personally don't like. I am a devoted mother, sister, daughter, cousin, aunt, niece, homegirl, friend and I'm thankful for the people in my past and present that have always been honest and sincere. I am supportive and encouraging to the significant people in my life and in my heart...and I'll definately back them up. If you are a relative or friend of mine, you very well know this about me.I have professionally accomplished a great deal in my 28 years. I have been a VP and a Consultant for Fortune 500 companies, practiced in law, repossessed vehicles and also tracked down bail jumpers. Nonetheless, my greatest achievement is attaining the role of mom.I am a single mom of two boys and I'm holdin' it down on my own; its always just me and boys..."my little buddies". I have the best sons a mother could ever have, caring friends and family that support me no matter what. What more can a girl ask for?[LOVEMYFLASH][/LOVEMYFLASH]

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There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to like or eventually love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous!The most important thing in life is your family. There are days you love them, and others you don't. But, in the end, they're the people you always come home to. Sometimes it's the family you're born into and sometimes it's the one you make for yourself.View All Friends | View Blog | Add Comment

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What I have learned
thus far


In a world where celebrity equals talent, make believe is considered reality, it is most important to have real love, truth, and stability in life. Spend too much time looking at someone else's success and asking yourself what they have that you don't have, and you only shortchange yourself.

The best method is to work with who you are. Don't go looking for a style, find it in yourself. Style, of course, is not only the way you dress, but the way you act. You owe it to yourself to be yourself and see if other people can stand it. Forget the conventional wisdom that if you stick out you'll attract trouble. Those who try to be creative usually get away with more because people expect it of creative types and tolerate it.

We've all got to make a living. What's the point if you don't love your work? Because I am passionate about what I do, I've tried to be smart about it. I've paid attention to the lessons of tradition and kept my eyes on the new. I've celebrated my victories and made the best of my mistakes. I've solved problems with common sense instead of fancy, popular theories. I have always looked to the past, to people who'd already learned the lessons. I got what I had to know to survive from the street when no one had the luxuries of stability, security, and time to absorb and grow. Not only have I managed to survive, but I'm happy.

It's not always about the bottom line, but what's the bottom of your heart. Do something for the thrill of it all, not for the thrill of having it all. Accept who you are and use it to your advantage, especially if it's a negative perception.

with sincerity,
♥ e r i c a ♥



View ♥ e r i c a ♥'s
blogs & manifestos


♥ How old would you be if you didn’t know when you were born?
♥ are imperfections really just as beautiful?
♥ Suggested Downloading - Please Read =)
♥ unconditional & unconventional (7)
♥ fyi: you are and will always be the better part of me (7)
♥ love u, need u, miss u, want u (7)
♥ wet suit(e)
♥ in order to love...u must forgive (7)
♥ the way he looks (7)
♥ passionate desire and vulnerability (7)
♥ lustful longing...anticipation for 7

Paradoxical Commandments:
ANYWAY


People are unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered,
♥LOVE THEM ANYWAY♥
If you are kind, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives,
♥BE KIND ANYWAY♥
If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies,
♥SUCCEED ANYWAY♥
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
♥DO GOOD ANYWAY♥
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable,
♥BE HONEST AND FRANK ANYWAY♥
What you spent years building may be destroyed overnight,
♥BUILD ANYWAY♥
People really need help but may attack you if you help them,
♥HELP PEOPLE ANYWAY♥
Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth,
♥GIVE THE WORLD THE BEST YOU’VE GOT ANYWAY♥
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
♥BE HAPPY ANYWAY♥

My Blog

How old would you be if you didnt know when you were born?

QUICK NOTE:  I will admit that I'm not a fan of horoscopes. In fact, I actually despise them along with other senseless methods of entertainment.  However, I received this today from a friend of mine;...
Posted by on Mon, 01 Jun 2009 19:01:00 GMT

are imperfections really just as beautiful?

PREFACE:  i will admit im a bit nuts sometimes and i'm not as perfect as you'll come to find out.  i piss people off without trying and i can't please everyone...and im not even going to try.  however...
Posted by on Sat, 25 Apr 2009 11:52:00 GMT

Suggested Downloading - Please Read =)

All, To all of those who enjoy the mixes on my page, please feel free to click on the link mentioned below, sample then download as many as you want.  So get these while you can, new ones will be post...
Posted by on Tue, 21 Apr 2009 15:12:00 GMT

unconditional & unconventional (7)

PREFACE:  After the long break after heart break...now there is a true man in my life (7).  A handsomely tall gentleman who is extremely kind.  I find myself immensely consumed by this truly talented ...
Posted by on Sat, 18 Apr 2009 17:33:00 GMT

fyi...you are and will always be the better part of me (7)

you're the air i breath, the scent i smell, you're the touch i feel,you're everything that's real.you're the better half,the stronger willed,you're the the beat of the heart,the more compelled.you're ...
Posted by on Tue, 14 Apr 2009 18:49:00 GMT

love u, need u, miss u, want u (7)

love u more than all the stars in the skylove u more as each moment passes us by. love u more with every breath i takelove u more with each promise we make. need u like a flower needs the rainneed u f...
Posted by on Tue, 14 Apr 2009 18:21:00 GMT

wet suit(e)

taking the plunge for free dive in memoryrecollecting broken shells from the depths.deconstructing feelings rooted in destiny,resurrecting spoke spells of conscious breath.digging through trenches...s...
Posted by on Thu, 09 Apr 2009 19:55:00 GMT

in order to love...u must forgive (7)

hopefully giving another chance will ease my mindbelieve what i say when this is im trying to findwishing that nothing can bother my heart againthe key to all of this is for US to be forgivenforgiving...
Posted by on Mon, 23 Mar 2009 12:02:00 GMT

the way he looks (7)

i love the way he looks at melooking for a reason to believe putting our faith into usin mutual anticipation of finding reliefi love the way he looks at meshedding light, then I can seethe power of an...
Posted by on Sun, 01 Mar 2009 22:10:00 GMT

passionate desire and vulnerability (7)

angel fallen from heaven his smile confronts me so my fears i want to let go but can my past i forgo? you have given me hope for a better tomorrow like an angel guiding me out of my sorrow. i ask you ...
Posted by on Sat, 21 Feb 2009 12:40:00 GMT