Have u ever felt like u have done everything conceivable to make a relationship work and there is nothing but drama anyway? Have u ever loved someone more than life itself, but they disvalue that love? Have u ever sacrificed something for another, only to have them not appreciate your generosity? All of us, as we all have feelings, have experienced something like this. Life is strange. So many people cross our paths during our predetermined amount of years on earth. Many of them will be in our life from day one to the final hour. Many will come into our lives later and hang in there until the very end. Then there are the "other ones." People who are only in our lives for a minute, a day, a week, a month, a year, or a few years. We cannot understand how the relationships with them can start out seemingly perfect and end in total madness. How can two people love each other, create children together, cohabitate, build a life together, a relationship or marriage expecting it to fail. No one gives of their heart and soul in exchange for being mistreated, either mentally or physically. Yet, anger happens. Abuse happens. Cheating happens. Death happens. While all of the above can be devastating, the truth of the matter is that old adage:"It is better to love and have lost than to never have loved at all." No matter what the circumstances, no matter what the outcome, love is what makes life worth living. Love is center of the universe. Love can move mountains. Love can also tear down walls. Love can also kill. Love is never painless. By Zane