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steph

If You Only Knew...

About Me

I'm just an average asian gurl growing up, growing old day by day, trying to make it through this wacked up world. I've met a lotta people here and there...some good, some not so good. I've learned from each one...*shrug* and I guess they've learned from me. I'm laid back and mellow. Been through hell in back...but still...I'm pretty mellow. Made a few mistakes in my life...but hey...who doesn't? It's called " Live and Learn"...What have I learned?- Can't always please everybody and be happy with yourself at the same time- Gotta love yourself before you can love anybody else- If the situation you're in stinks, either get a clothes pin or get the heck out- Not everybody's gonna like you for who you are...and if they don't it's still okay.- It's never the end of the world...even if that boy doesn't like you anymore, or if someone won't forgive you...as long as you've learned and moved on.- It's useless to dwell over the past. What's done is done...set in stone...unchanging. Move on.- What's all the money in the world when you're not happy?- Don't be a push-over. If you believe in something, STICK WITH IT.There's so much more...That's why...if you only knew...

My Interests

CUUUTTE Dogs! Traveling, Snowboarding! Surfing! Music (i'm over the heavy metal/death metal phase), Computers (cool graphics, databasing, new software), Kids who actually behave (to me...fictional characters *LOL*, hands-on stuff (crocheting, bead jewelry, cooking, baking, BBQing) etc.etc....most of all SHOPPING (online AND at malls) :D!!!

I'd like to meet:

People...first and foremost...their pets? sure...I love dogs. I have 2 dogs (1 named Penny...from the Humane Society 2nd named Lucky cute Fufu dog and the sweetest thing, and birds? maybe...a fish...but definitely...I love meeting people who are mellow, understanding, open, honest, and the list goes on...nah...I just want to meet normal people...so before you go any further...ask yourself...are you normal?

Music:

Local music, classical...I LOVE cello solos, some of the trendy stuff...anything that relaxes me...A little Hapa, A little Enya, a little Guns and Roses, a little Aerosmith...I'm a musical person...not crazy....just musical....Oct-06: Jojo "Too Little Too Late"...April 2007 GOING TO THE GWEN STEFANI Concert in AUGUST! WHOOT WHOOT!-March 06: Lately, it's been Jack Johnson. His music is awesome...-May 06: I really love the song Bad Day, by Daniel Powter ;)

Movies:

LOTR, Troy, Enough, Mr. & Mrs. Smith, Gone in 60 Seconds, Pursuit of Happyness, Chinese Movies

Television:

I LOVE the series Grey's Anatomy, NipTuck, Smallville, CSI.For Fun? I watch cartoons and anime to fall asleep...that's the only semi-senseless thing that I don't have to concentrate to watch. *teehee*I LOVE cooking shows...minus Emeril Live...*shrug* dunno why.

Books:

Falling Leaves, Daughter of Heaven, The Eight, Crime and Punishment, Joy Luck Club, Hunger, Snow Flower and the Secret Fan, Cookbooks :D

Heroes:

People I've learned from: my family, Wilson, my friends, my peers, my mentors, John Bui, Obba,...Thank you for everything...

My Blog

Feast or Famine

After enduring over a year of famine, the feast has commenced. I've never been so busy, yet so happy, and never made so much, doing what I love!I'm well on my way toward my goal. My motto in real est...
Posted by steph on Fri, 27 Jul 2007 12:51:00 PST

One Thing Going For Me...

To this day, I honestly believe that the best thing going for me right now is my relationship with Wilson. When everything else around me challenges my sanity. He somehow has a way to ground me and br...
Posted by steph on Mon, 02 Apr 2007 01:04:00 PST

another year gone

Another year has come and gone. Have you done all that you'd hoped for? Another year means another chapter has come to a close. I have yet to see what I am capable of. I have made some mistakes in my ...
Posted by steph on Mon, 01 Jan 2007 09:11:00 PST

It's not the number of friends, but the quality of friends....

I've learned long time ago that it's not about the number of friends you have, but the quality of friends you have. It's about those who are willing to stick by you no matter what. I've had friends in...
Posted by steph on Mon, 21 Aug 2006 10:29:00 PST

I think I know what True Love is...

Someone once told me that True Love was when two people are able to feel passionately enough about things that happen and go on that they are able to fight with each other about issues...and still fi...
Posted by steph on Sun, 02 Apr 2006 06:17:00 PST

With Love...

Thanks hun, for everything that you do...all that you put up with...from me, my family. You're my knight in shining armor Video code provided by MusicVideoCodes.com...
Posted by steph on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Aloha Oe, Big Brother...

JOHN DUNG QUANG BUI, 29, of Honolulu, died March 13, 2005. Born in Saigon, Vietnam. Marketing director of World Financial Group. Survived by parents, Toan Bui and Huong Thach; brothers, Roland, Richar...
Posted by steph on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

a new year...a time to reflect

As the new year unravels,  I  can't help but to think of just how fast time flies.  Maybe it's my age, but I look around and somehow things seem to be slowing down.. Don't get me wrong, I'm so thankfu...
Posted by steph on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Where would I be without you?

I thank God everyday for the blessing me with the love and support from my friends, family, and my hunnie. I have to say that I've always run into times of trouble and times of need. Those who cared a...
Posted by steph on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST