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Just Visiting This Planet

if you smoke after sex, you're doing it too fast

About Me


I am here for the girls who understand that they aren't perfect and neither are the guys they're interested in !
I am here for the girls who flirt and laugh and worry and obsess over the slightest glance, whisper or touch because somehow they are able to keep alive that hope that maybe, just maybe this time he'll have understood !
I give a homage to the girls who laugh loud and often, who are comfortable in skirts and sweats and combat boots, who care more than they should for guys who don't even deserve their attention . . .
I respect the girls who you can take home to mom but won't because it's easier to sleep with some whore than foster a relationship . . .
I support the girls who have been led on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either true for the moment or never real to begin with . . .
I listen to the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and their heart and their bed only to discover he's just not ready, he's just not over her, he's just not looking to be tied down . . .
I help the girls who believe the excuses because it's easier to believe that it's not that he doesn't want you, it's that he doesn't want anyone.
I am here for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes shattered by someone too cavalier to have cared in the first place . . .
I accept the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech, for the nights when you've returned home alone, for the nights when you've seen from across the room him leaning a little too close, standing a little too near, or whispering a little too softly for the girl he's with to be a random hookup . . .
I understand the girls who have endured party after party in his presence finally having realized that it wasn't that he didn't want a relationship, it was he didn't want you !
I honor you for the night his dog died or his grandmother died or the night his little brother crashed his car and you held him, thinking that if you only comforted him just right, or said the right words, or rubbed his back the right way then perhaps he'd realize what it was that he already had, YOU !!!
I am glad for the night you realized that it would never happen and how the sun didn't seem to shine the same the next morning.
I hate the "I really like you so let's still be friends" comment after you read more into a situation then he ever intended !
I forgive you, for never realizing that just like you chose your friends, you chose the ones which eventually make you cry yourself to sleep . . .
I am there for the girls who have been used and abused and endured what he was giving because at least it was something . . .
I know the stupidity of the nights you believed that something was better than nothing, though his something was nothing you ever wanted.
I dont judge the girls who have been satisfied with too little and who have learned to never expect anything anymore and-for the girls who don't think that they deserve more because they've been conditioned for so long to accept the scraps thrown to them by guys.
I bless all the hugs you've received from your girls, for the nights they've reassured you that you are beautiful and intelligent and amazing and truly worthy of a great guy . . .
I understand the heartaches and the headaches, the laughter and the tears, how you love him and hate him and wish he would just die even though you know, you would die without him !
I am here to apologize, because i am one of them . . .
Xavier, xXx


My Interests

Night Life and Day Dreams

I'd like to meet:


" The Dalai Lama and Charles Manson "
( The Good & The Bad )
But i also would like to meet Monica Bellucci, but not really 2 talk 2 her . . .
:-)

Music:

All Kind . . .
Even World Music !
As for a Polynesian,
Serge Gainsbourg is World Music.
(hihihi)

Movies:

From so many to name to Vivid classic's !

Television:

" Vision with No tele "

Books:

Le petit Prince, les fleurs du mal from Charles Baudelaire, Arthur Rimbaud, Stéphane Mallarmé, Verlaine,Pascal, La rochefoucauld, Shakespeare, So many more . . .
and of course the Menu of a Good Restaurant !
;-)

Heroes:

" Ghandi "

My Blog

Lotuk from Arsenal

Just Love this song Hope i did well !Sure got fun doing this in the Belgian sun today . . .Granted I might be a little bit lazyBut you've gotta trust me I'm finding the balancebetween the he...
Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Sat, 03 May 2008 10:04:00 PST

Thought . . .

Why is my future wife acting like my ex wife, while my wife isn't thinking about it . . . yet !;-)
Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Mon, 21 Apr 2008 01:00:00 PST

To all my friends . . .

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Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 05:26:00 PST

What is the quality of your intent ?

Amazing how certain people have a way of saying things that shake us at the core. Even when the words do not seem harsh or offensive, the impact is shattering.What we could be experiencing is the inte...
Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Sun, 04 Nov 2007 12:03:00 PST

Librarians

Pay attention to the Hot girl in the glasses.She's important !And whoever said," Men don't make passes at girls who wear glasses "Was either an idiot or a fraud, trying to keep all of the wonderful sp...
Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Tue, 30 Oct 2007 04:48:00 PST

Man Vs Woman

A man can go from being a lover to being a stranger in tree moves flat !But a Woman under the guise of friendship will engage in acts of duplicity,witch come to light very much later.There are differe...
Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Tue, 30 Oct 2007 04:37:00 PST

Here is a Green Apple for You . . .


Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Sun, 14 Oct 2007 04:21:00 PST

Mort Subite

Chemin plein de souffrance,Dans une vie plein d'erranceDans ce monde inconnu,Ou tout le monde trop cruC'est chaque fois pareil,A chaque fois c'est l'éveilFace à la dur réalité,De nos fausse véritésTou...
Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Wed, 26 Sep 2007 08:35:00 PST

Best Karaoke Ever !!!

Enjoy or try your french on it . . . Vice et VercaUploaded by JustVisitingThisPlanet...
Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Mon, 10 Sep 2007 05:25:00 PST

Ben'z Birthday BBQ pics

Photobucket Album...
Posted by Just Visiting This Planet on Tue, 14 Aug 2007 12:24:00 PST