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About Me

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I used to think I knew what I was all about. I felt like I did my growing up in the 20s, only to hit 30 and realize there's so much more left to cover.
Life isn't easy except for the very privileged few. Death isn't any easier either, and the ones who are lucky enough to confront it in peace are even less in number.
Lately I seem to ponder these two things and how they impact my everyday life. I think a lot. I talk a lot. Sometimes I wander off into my own little world, always exploring possibilities and variables.
I have cats.
My new hobby is stained glass. Not traditional lead glass work, although it's what I'm training on. I plan to work with copper foil and sculpturing. I have a lot of ideas in my head and if I could draw them out for you I would, but for now, you'll have to believe me. It's going to be good.
I also play World of Warcraft, although that has been on some decline lately. I play with my big sister and her kids. Family means a lot to me. Family means everything with me.
I've done a lot of different things, always trying out new possibilities and new experiences. I've worked in retail, food service, I've done commercials, I've been an EMT, a programmer, etc. I've come out a lot tougher and at the same time, I'm still as tender as a kitten.
I love fiercely, I protect constantly, that's just me.
I don't often go to bars. It just reinforces how indelibly uncool I am.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

My best friends also happen to be my family members. I get along with everyone in my family and I like it that way. I have about 4 friends I'm not related to, and that works out just fine for me also.

I'd like to meet a guy who can tell where the line between self-confidence and narcissism lies, and when to step off it. I want to be part of something that is considerably greater than the sum of its parts. I want to be in a relationship that builds and produces. Not kids, necessarily, just something - hats, scarves, meals to homeless people.. anything. I want to build my partner up to do whatever he wants, because in turn I will be built up to thrive. That's what a relationship has always meant to me, and that's what I've always been told to aim for.

I want to meet a man in whose arms I would find the safest and most forgiving place in the world, where nothing would hurt me, nothing bad would happen, and I could always find understanding and compassion.

The sad part about all this is, what I just described, is what's considered "quirky" nowadays.

I'm a Latino, Non-Denonminational, Hillary Clinton supporting, pot-smoking fag.... and even I understand family values.

Speaking of family, my next better half will actually have to be a part of the family. The whole enchilada.. the screaming kids, the screaming adults, the carne asada (yum) the birthday parties in the backyard with a lot of the aforementioned screaming individuals, and lots and lots of Mexicans everywhere, etc. You're gonna have to be there for graduations and bar mitzvahs (if we were Jewish) and the family dinners and the... you get the idea.

I'm ready to meet someone who's ready to meet someone who is ready to quit fucking around.

I also refuse to date people who incessantly point to their character flaws as a product of being a Zodiac sign. These are the same people who refer to their tastes as "eclectic", a group I also mistrust. Hey, occasionally referring to your horoscope is a good thing, and often puts things in perspective. But being an asshole and then saying "oops, it's just the Virgo in me" is not ok.

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