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Frankie

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You know how, when you're eating grapes, there's always those two or three grapes that are either 1.) too small (and so you know that they'll be super sour or weird tasting), 2.) kind of turning brown and looking gross, and/or 3.)are looking kind of smooshy, and it's clear that they will taste like smooshed up almost-rotten crap. I'm the person that feels sad looking at those grapes and eats them anyway because I can't bear the thought of throwing them in the trash, apart from their friends, alone, sad... left to rot in a landfill for all eternity instead of being broken down into simple sugars in my stomach with all of their grape friends.
In sum, I attribute emotions to grapes. And I believe that they are happier being mashed up in my mouth and digestive tract with their kind than thrown away in a smelly trashcan, condemed as rejects, not even good enough to be eaten. And rather than submit them to such a dark fate, I choose to eat them... no matter how bad I know that they will taste.
Proceed with caution all ye who enter here.

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"As I stood in the water, something happened to me. I don't know if I can explain this. Something cracked. I had lived until then for the future, in a state of continuing expectation, and the process came suddenly to a stop. I wouldn't say I was happy. I was nothing so simple as happy. I was merely present, perhaps for the first time in my adult life. The moment was unextraordinary. But I had the moment, I had it completely. It inhabited me. I realized that if I died soon I would have known this, a connection with my life, its errors and cockeyed successes. The chance to be one of three men standing in a small body of clear water. I would not die unfulfilled because I'd been here, right here and nowhere else." -Michael Cunningham

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My Interests

Live music, the ocean, my mother’s artwork, poetry, good fiction, freedom, healthy eating, exercise, Radnor lake, fall, amusement parks, sincere romance, honesty, swing-sets, urban areas, Mexican food, laughter, humility, superb views, godiva chocolate truffles and recees peanut butter cups.

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"Then I headed upstairs to find something to wear tonight. I would bathe, rest, dress, and go to search out the company of others. What did we do here but pull ourselves along in this fashion? Never mind our various life circumstances, what I believed was that we had all been flung into the water without having been taught to swim. We ate, we slept, we formed our kaleidoscopic relationships and marched ever foward. We licked chocolate from our fingers. We arranged flowers in vases. We inspected our backsides when we tried on new clothes. We gave ourselves over to art. We elected officials and complained. We stood up for home runs. We marked life passages in ceremonies we attended with impatience and pride. We reached out for new love when what we had died, confessing our unworthiness, confessing our great need. We felt at times that perhaps we really were visitors from another planet. We occasionally wondered if it was true that each of us was making everything up. But this was a wobbly saucer; this was thinking we could not endure; we went back to our elegant denial of unbreachable isolation, to refusing the lesson of being born alone and dying that way too. We went back to loving, to eating, to sleeping, to marching and marching and marching along."

-Elizabeth Berg, "The Year of Pleasures"

"I wanted to be a writer, that's all. I wanted to write about it all. Everything that happens in a moment. The way the flowers looked when you carried them in your arms. This towel, how it smells, how it feels, this thread. All our feelings, yours and mine. The history of it, who we once were. Everything in the world. Everything all mixed up, like it's all mixed up now. And I failed. I failed. No matter what you start with it ends up being so much less. Sheer fucking pride and stupidity."

-The Hours

Music:

Coldplay, Dixie Chicks, Tori Amos, Death Cab for Cutie, Eleisha Eagle, Dave Matthews, Sigur Ros, Madonna, Nickelback, Frou Frou, Snow Patrol, Annie Lenox, Sting, Jump Little Children, Moby, Jo Dee Messina, Rascal Flatts, Tracy Chapman

Movies:

Office Space, Little Miss Sunshine, The Holiday, Fried Green Tomatoes, American Beauty, Little Women, The Shawshank Redemption, When Harry Met Sally, Under the Tuscan Sun, Before Sunrise, After Sunset, The Hours, Lord of the Rings, Erin Brokovich, So I Married An Axe-Murderer, Zoolander, Love Actually, Legally Blonde, About a Boy, Bridget Jones' Diary, Pride and Prejudice, Chronicles of Narnia, It's a Wonderful Life, 13 Going on 30, Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants, The Notebook, Dead Poet’s Society, Serendipity, Crash, Beauty and the Beast... the list never seems to end, I'm OBSESSED with movies.

Television:

I am a huge TV fanatic. You know those guys that live for sports teams and feel genuinely depressed when their team doesn’t win? I’m like that – only with regard to TV. I have very strong opinions about what is good TV, and what isn’t. I live for my shows, and I feel super sad if I think that a favorite show of mine is turning into crap or if it dies a tragic, young death. I also reserve the right to be addicted to crappy TV and to spend too much money on DVD collections of my favorite shows that are now off the air.

Current favorites, in order:
The Office
Friday Night Lights
Grey’s Anatomy
ER
Battlestar Galactica

Old favorites, in order:
My So-Called Life
Sex and the City
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Friends
Cosby Show
Arrested Development
Seinfeld

Books:

Favorite Authors: Elizabeth Berg, Anne Tyler, Penelope Lively, Joseph Conrad, John Irving, Michael Cunningham

Heroes:

Dumbledore, All the people that I love.

My Blog

Of utmost importance!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Friday Night Lights - one of the greatest shows of all time - is in danger of dying a tragic, young death.   Give peace a chance  just watch it. Wednesday night at 7 pm central time. I know th...
Posted by Frankie on Fri, 16 Mar 2007 02:12:00 PST

Dave Matthews

There seems to be a lot of strong emotion about the Dave Matthews Band that I don't understand. People seem to either love them or hate them. I understand the love side of the equation, but the hate? ...
Posted by Frankie on Sun, 14 Jan 2007 11:47:00 PST

election

I'm really happy about the election results nationwide. I'm not happy about Tennessee's results, though, as usual. We are the only state to elect a NEW republican senator. Also, 80% of&...
Posted by Frankie on Fri, 10 Nov 2006 02:22:00 PST

October

The 12 months of the year - in order of Frankie's preference:1.) October2.) November3.) April4.) December5.) May 6.) September7.) March8.) June9.) August10.) January11.) July12.) FebruaryOctober rocks...
Posted by Frankie on Mon, 09 Oct 2006 12:19:00 PST

Don't You Just Hate That?

These are some excerpts from Scott Cohen's funny coffee table-ish book called "Don't You Just Hate That?" It's just a book listing petty little irritations of life. These are some of the ones that I p...
Posted by Frankie on Mon, 11 Sep 2006 09:51:00 PST

Myth

Something I found haphazardly while clicking on a link listed in someone else's journal. It is perhaps the best description of myth that I've ever heard, and I want to remember it.   "Don't be s...
Posted by Frankie on Mon, 21 Aug 2006 09:27:00 PST

Six weird things about me

Since I was tagged - here are the six weird things about myself that I could think of off the top of my head and that I am not too embarrassed to share. 1.       My birthday ...
Posted by Frankie on Mon, 17 Apr 2006 06:09:00 PST