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big T©

on Vacation! Cruise to Ensenada Female 16 years old Brian's room, West LA, & Irvine 714, Califor

About Me

My name is Terry, but people who know me call me Ter or Big T .
Only God can judge me.
I do not waste my time in answering abuse; I thrive under it like a field that benefits from manure.
- Henry Labouchere
Unfortunately, one page would never be enough to fully express who I am--or any person for that matter. A reminder of how to look at the world: Don't judge a book by its cover. That being said, this is how I'd like to be perceived (haha):
I'm an independent, active girl that loves being on the go. At the same time I love to curl up at home in some fuzzy, soft blankets to drink hot chocolate and read a good book. I enjoy indulging in the finer things in life, but I can definitely rough it.
Sagittarius.
Optimistic and freedom-loving
Jovial and good-humored
Honest and straightforward
Intellectual and philosophical
I am a delicate balance between Western and Eastern Zodiacs:
Sagittarius (element: fire--the masculine yang) and Boar (element: water--the feminine yin).
Life is about Experiencing with all your senses. To me, it's about adventure, adrenaline, and stopping to take a moment to take it all in and revel in the gift of today.
Kayaking * Snorkeling * Scuba Diving * Snowboarding * Fishing * Camping * Hiking * Road Trips * Relaxing at the Beach * Frog Catching * Target Practice * Climbing Things
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[ click for more pics from paradise ]
Next? SKYDIVING!
Who's Down?!
I love love love and appreciate my family & friends so much! Loyalty and trust are the basis of any strong relationship. I've loved and lost, but I always have faith that we will be reunited somewhere down the road. God bless my Godsister and Cousin Jade [RIP 12/26/80-10/25/05] and your unborn baby, RIP my maternal & paternal Grandfathers.
I share my life with someone who makes me happier and happier each and every day in the subtlest of ways.
I absolutely LOVE hugs and the whole concept and act of being affectionate. I'm fairly easygoing, but that doesn't give anyone the excuse to try to walk all over me. I'll see right through you. That goes for "fake" people too. You know, those kinds of people who put up facades. I'm not blind and I'm not stupid. I really enjoy reading (for pleasure) and really advocate it. I try to keep things simple and try to avoid all the drama. I'm a bit of a nerd, a bit of a tomboy, and girly at times too. But I can hold my own. I may appear to be quiet, but that doesn't mean I don't have an opinion or anything to say. I'm only being observant.I guess that's me in a nutshell--a very large one.
Mahalo .

My Interests

Spending time with my ♥ .

MindSex Entertainment.

My favorites
CK Euphoria * DKNY Red Delicious * Escada Pacific Paradise * CoolWater (classic) * Frankie B's * Miss Sixty low rise * the new Rock & Republics * Stilettos * Ginormous Earrings * Shiny lipgloss * My Gucci, Paul Frank & BCBG sunglasses * Lashes * My Prada Eyeglasses * My Christmas present: My beautiful Coach Satchel * Tokidoki
Dancing & Sippin'
Nature & Animals
Creating Art Final Fantasy X-2 (pencil) Mountain-Sunset (watercolor) Azaleas (watercolor) Sculpture/Picture Frame based on Pencil Sketch
Hobby Photography
Cooking & Eating Food
Tapioca Express Milk Tea Boba / Duets w. Boba / Jamba Juice Strawberries Wild / Coffee Bean White Chocolate Ice Blendeds / Sushi / Bread&Butter / CPK Spinach-Artichoke Dip & Kung Pao Spaghetti w. Shrimp / Shabu Shabu / BBQ anything
My Twinkies

I'd like to meet:

HOT people with beautiful, straight teeth.
actually...moreover, Hot...
Honest, open and open-minded people.
someone who can challenge me intellectually; someone who can make me laugh til I can't breathe; someone who's down for some adventure; someone who's down for me.
Oh... and those who plain out "HOLLER" at me will be ignored.
I've got a pretty strong, constant close group of tightly knit friends...and I'll always have their back as I know they'll have mine. People like this are PRICELESS.
I'd love to TRUST people more. It's a two-way street... trust me and I'll trust you. It's the basis of any relationship. That, and PATIENCE. You'll never get anywhere if you don't have the patience to wait for someone, to let their moods pass over, for their brain to process information or subtle signals, to love you back. I'm dedicated, passionate, and faithful to the people I care about, and I'd never betray them nor my feelings for them.
Do NOT mess with my people or I WILL make you regret it, wholeheartedly. Never underestimate anyone.
And above all things... BE RESPECTFUL! Showing a little consideration and respect can go a long way... like not getting your a$$ beat. I will GLADLY beat your face in, without hesitation, if you disrespect or mess with any of mine. I'm possessive when it counts.
If I ever meet you outside of Myspace and you say hello to me with a little respect I'll say hi to you in return. Grabbing my arm (or any other body part of mine) is NOT a respectful nor effective way of getting my attention. And if I do say hi, don't think it's an indicator of my interest (if any) in you. I think I'm a pretty friendly, polite person--so I won't be a b!tch to you as long as you're not an a$$ to me.
a i m i Lust 4 Rice
READ ME
Please, no stalkers. that's My job. (if you know me, feel free to shoot me an IM directly. If I don't know you, try and send me a message here on myspace first. I will reject your IM if you don't.)Same goes for adding me as a friend. If I don't know you, message me first and we'll go from there, otherwise expect a big, fat REJECTION . Thanks.
Moving On With Life I don't look back and say, "They're the one that got away." I just say, "They're the one that I let go." I've found what I've been waiting for---and there's no more letting go.
This is how we do.

Music:

.. all kinds - including, but not limited to_
r&b
hip_hop
rap
dance
alternative
rock
pop
chinese bamboo flute
classical
disney & movie soundtracks
80s & old school

Movies:

My Girl, The Sixth Sense, Brotherhood of the Wolf, Zoolander, Spirited Away, Like Water for Chocolate, Shaolin Soccer, My Sassy Girl, Life is Beautiful, Anastasia, Mulan, Finding Nemo, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, What Dreams May Come, City of Angels, AI, The Last Samurai, Pirates of the Carribean, Love Actually, 50 First Dates, The Incredibles, The Notebook, Star Wars, LOTR, Appleseed, Constantine, Whale Rider, Cold Mountain, Final Fantasy: The Spirits Within, Forrest Gump, Interview With The Vampire, Narnia, Crash, 300, Into The Wild

Television:

..I'd rather read a book than watch TV,
BUT I do like to indulge and Watch Nip/Tuck .

Books:

Wizard of the Grove, Blindness, Anna Karenina, Sabriel, Spring Snow, The Giver, Where the Red Fern Grows, Daughter of the Storm, The Diagnosis, Chronicles of Narnia, In the Hands of the Goddess, The Long Road Home, The Princess Bride, Demian, Catfish and Mandala... and so many more

My Blog

More than words

4th New Year: It's time to turn a new leaf. My, how time has flown! In what seems like a blink of an eye we're here celebrating a new year.  It's time to get off on the right foot, time to begin ...
Posted by big T© on Wed, 02 Jan 2008 10:47:00 PST

reflecting on life & ♥

Learning to let go of our past is progression.  Good memories will always be just that: good memories.  There is no denying that in the moment things were good and the times we shared w...
Posted by big T© on Tue, 17 Oct 2006 12:06:00 PST

be real.

Honestly, I have no respect for those who don't have respect or courtesy to others.  If I don't know you, you don't have to respect me. I wouldn't expect you to. But have the courtesy t...
Posted by big T© on Mon, 05 Dec 2005 02:55:00 PST

the façade

Façades--people put up so many of these.   It's difficult to decipher what's "real" these days because of all these fake fronts, misleading words, and so-called solid--yet convoluted--articulatio...
Posted by big T© on Thu, 29 Sep 2005 06:18:00 PST

Breathe

I oftentimes wonder about the transience of life, of how quickly things can come, and just as quickly as they can go. I know I always write about how we should appreciate the things that are present i...
Posted by big T© on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

random spewings of a 1/2 awake mind

Come and go, we'll all come and go. Things change, people change, paths change, diverge, converge, run parallel, run perpendicular, are complimentary, and are ... not. Where is it that I'm going right...
Posted by big T© on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

let's philosophize

I always seem to have moments of ups and downs only to realize how silly I am to fret over those momentary lapses of life where things just don't work out the way you want them to.  I guess ...
Posted by big T© on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST