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Jesser

If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.

About Me

I work hard & I work a lot. I basically devote my entire focus on having a successful career so I’ll never have to ask anyone for $. You can say that I have a lot of pride, but I think it’s my declaration of freedom & independence. I don’t have a balanced life style. Sometimes when I have a bad day at work, I get bend out of shape because I don’t have anything else to fall back on in my life. Ideally, I would like to focus my life on other important things, perhaps something like love, friends, & family. I’m strong minded. I can’t hide my emotions. I’m blunt. I’m spontaneous, sometimes could turn into randomness. I have strong morals & beliefs. I’m tough on the outside, but I’m a true cream puff. If I’m tired, I could fall asleep at any place & time. I’m retired from going clubbing. I’m selective with who I befriend with, but I’m a great friend if you ever become part of my life. I abhor driving & going to malls during X'mas season. I dislike conceited people, ungrateful people, and people that don't practice what they preach. I like playing with my food; extremely long showers until hot water runs out; mingling with dirty Gray Goose in one hand & Amstel Light in my other hand. I believe Fish is not considered as pet; iceberg lettuce is not a vegetable. People think I'm a happy go lucky goofball, but life wasn't always nice & peachy for me. If you get to know me better, maybe I'll share stories of my life with you. My dream is to write a memoir of my life.

My Interests

Vegetate, Spacing Out, Long Showers...extremely LONG showers...

I'd like to meet:

Someone who can influence me to be a better person. Someone who is capable to rally with me, but rather chill at home and do absolutely nothing with me. Some one to go to the farmers market with me on Sundays. If you would like to be my friend, please email me first. Please don't randomly add me as your friend; I do not vouch for you. Find me on Friendster.com http://www.friendster.com/jessicalu

Music:

Bitter Sweet, Brazilian Girls, Bob Marley, The Streets, Green Day, U2, Garbage, OutKast, No Doubt, Hot Hot Heat, Portishead, Cypress Hill, Jazz, Snoop Dogg, Yeah Yeah Yeahs

Movies:

50 First Dates, Shawshank Redemption, Forrest Gump, Nightmare before Christmas, Crash, Big, Run Lola Run, Grease, Little Shop of Horrors, Braveheart, Blow, Swingers, Austin Powers, Kill Bill, Roger & Me, Beetlejuice, In Her Shoes, Devil Wears Prada, The Break Up

Television:

SpongeBob SquarePants, Will & Grace, Sex and the City, Greys Atonomy, Dog the Bounty Hunter, Scrubs, Desperate Housewives, Nip/Tuck, Monk

Books:

The Great American Bathroom Book

My Blog

A New Chapter in Life....Good-bye My Friends!

Do you know what's important in your life?When I was a teenager, I put friends in front of family.In my early twenties, I put career in front of myself.Now in my late twenties, I put my dogs in front ...
Posted by Jesser on Tue, 17 Jul 2007 11:48:00 PST

Liar

You are lying through your teethYou lied about us; you lied about our futureWhat about laughing and crying and melt in one another?Why am I here sobbing alone? What about love making me smile&?Can you...
Posted by Jesser on Tue, 17 Jul 2007 11:46:00 PST

Nobody Knows

Nobody knows but meThat I sometimes cryIf I could pretend that I'm asleepWhen my tears start to fallI peek out from behind these wallsI think nobody knowsNobody knows...Nobody likesNobody likes to los...
Posted by Jesser on Tue, 17 Jul 2007 11:42:00 PST

We laugh & Cry

We laugh and cry and melt in one another.  Love making you smile......... Love comforting you when you cry.Love making you laugh.Love the wind in our hair driving in the convertibleLove sitting i...
Posted by Jesser on Tue, 17 Jul 2007 11:41:00 PST

I never thought

I never thought I would be who I am today...  I never thought I liked dogs, but now I have two. I never thought I could keep a job for more than three months; now I can't wait to pass ten-year m...
Posted by Jesser on Tue, 12 Dec 2006 11:15:00 PST

And you learn and learn...

After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and you learn that love doesn't mean security, and you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts, and prese...
Posted by Jesser on Wed, 11 Oct 2006 10:59:00 PST

Is there such thing as being too independent?

Is there such thing as being too independent?   Just because I don't have a significant others, whom might be obligated to do things with me, it doesn't mean that I need to put my life on hold. &...
Posted by Jesser on Thu, 15 Jun 2006 03:06:00 PST

Single or Double???

Through out the past decade of dating, I've spent longer periods of time being single than being involved with someone special.  My philosophy about dating has always been quality over quantity.&...
Posted by Jesser on Tue, 20 Dec 2005 08:50:00 PST