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Valentino

Happiness comes from within..Treat people kind and with compassion and you will retain your friends

About Me

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I dropped off my daughter in Job Corps in Glide (next to Roseburg) on Sunday, 9-21. She was excited to return and get started with getting her diploma and learning how to drive. My son, PJ, was going to stay with his mom for the remainder of the week, but knew his dad was very lonely at home without him and his sister. He ended up suprising me by coming home on Monday. It was nice to have him back home. He said he will stay as long as he thinks I need him before Randy and him will find a place together to live. Randy of course is in Australia visiting his family. I am much happier today then I've been since Sunday.
I'm just one of those parents that love their children so much. I'm not too quick to kick them out unprepared, but would rather have them move out on their own when they've had the skills to survive. Until then, I'll keep encouraging my children to keep their dreams and goals in site and proactively reach for it. Nothing will be handed to them when they leave home, so they need to begin to reach for it.
I was born and raised on the Big Island of Hawaii. I was raised by my grandmother with my younger brother Allen and my sister Kiana. When my grandmother passed away when I was 12, we were adopted my aunt and uncle in Eugene. My sister Kiana and I attended Thurston High School and graduated one year apart, of course she's older than I. In highschool I loved hanging around all types of people, the red necks, the jocks, the wavo's, the druggies you name it. I hung around all types of people. My friend Ronnie Sage and I did Varsity cheerleading for the varsity football and basketball season in 1985. In the years that followed more guys started trying out for cheerleading. We started a very cool trend huh? After high school I joined the Marine Corps and my other close friends, Ray Hambrick joined the Air Force and Kevin Drew into the Navy. I was honorably discharged from the Marines 2 years later and before the Persian Gulf War due to having medical injuries. I later married one of the girls I had a crush on in high school, Marcia Williams. Funny thing is that we met on the track at school. She was on the soccer team and I was showing off my skills at running around the track. I was showing off for her. It worked because I got her number. When I came out of the service we hooked up, got married, and had 2 wonderful children. Our oldest and only son, PJ, which is named after me graduated from West Albany High school this year. Our youngest and only daughter, Nikita, will be graduating this year, but probably from Job Corps in Glide Oregon. I've worked for numerous companies and held many job positions, but none as rewarding as working for the State of Oregon. I've worked for the State now going on 5 years. I also own an operate a carpet cleaning business in Albany that one day hope to hand down to my children to carry on.

My Interests

There are many things that interest me. I'm a computer geek by birth. I love to work with computers, building computer systems, creating software applications thru visual basic, and using web based tools. I've worked for Symantec for about 5 years while living in Eugene and I loved the work. Now that I'm a State of Oregon employee, some of those types of work still follows me. I provide statistical data to the agency and the Social Security Administration on weekly basis. So, yes as you can see I'm a reborn geek and proud of it.I also enjoy Golf, playing Guitar Hero with my children ( I still play on medium, but I'll get to the Hard level soon), working with computers, visiting friends and family, bar-b-quing, and of course weight lifting. I've weight lifted ever since college and found that it's the best hobby. Golf use to be my best until it started getting expensive, time consuming, and the cost of rising gas prices. So I stuck with weight training. I lift at the Salem YMCA in the evening with my good friend Thomas and his wife and children. Because of my interest in weight lifting, I've had many gym goes ask me to be their personal trainer or help them out. I always tell them that I had the best weight lifting coach in college by the name of Bob Ratcliff. He showed me all the tricks to breaking pleateaus to different ways of using the same exercise to benefit another muscle group. I love weight training as it has also helped me to releive stress.

I'd like to meet:

I'd like to meet as many new faces as I can. I've been in several intimate relationships since my divorce, but I firmly believe everything happens for a reason. Having an abundance of friends both male and female to me is very rewarding because it gives your life character and the relationships builds strength in weak areas of your life. I'm not sure if you all can agree, but the more friends you have, the more healthy your lifestyle becomes. Whenever you need a friend or someone to talk with then their will always be the right person to help you through.

Music:

I love listenting to all types of music depending on my mood. Recently I've learned to love the music of Blue October. I like most of friends can relate to their music and how our lives are lived through their music. Does that make sense? Probably not, but when you get a chance, listen to their music. Some of their best songs that I enjoy are "She's my ride Home", "Hate me today", "18th Floor Balcony", "Into the Ocean", and "The Calling".I like listening also to regular pop and R&B, but like I said if I'm in the mood, I'll also listen to country. I enjoy listening to Opera too at times. Some of my favorite artist are Andrea Bocelli and Paul Potts.

Movies:

There's too many movies to list as which is my favorite. Just like music, depending at which point in my life I'm at, I pick the movie at that time. I like a lot of romantic movies, adventure movies, and movies with a hidden meaning until the end. To me there's nothing that captivates me more then having the apex of the movie towards the very end. Recently I've liked the movie "300". Tomorrow or next week it maybe something new.

Television:

Hate Me lyrics - Blue October lyrics Hate Me Video - Blue October Music Videos Music Videos by VideoCureNaturally I'm a reality junkie. Survivor is one of my best shows. I love the challenge each week and the thrill of doing something outrageous on television. Just this past year, I audtioned for Survivor 17 in my hometown Albany. The television screening was suppose to be from 9-4 on a Saturday. I was so excited that I couldn't sleep the night before. I showed up at 8:15am and found there were 50 other contestants waiting too. It's a good thing because I was #51. It turned out that they could only screen 157 people. So needless to say, I was there in plenty of time for a screening. I was so nervous as everyone kept telling me that they could see me as a survivor contestant. Maybe it was because the size of my bulging biceps? LOL. I don't know, but when it was my turn in front of the camera, it seemed like all eyes were on me. I didn't get picked as the final contestants to audition in California, so I guess I'll have to try again next year. I may also want to try for that new Japanese game show too. You should try and audition it would be fun as something you've never thought you'd do before, but did.These past few weeks I've been an Olympic junke. I've watched all different events on different nights. I enjoyed watching Michael Phelps win 5 of the gold medals, the women gymnast last night (gosh she was only 17 I think) and she came home with the gold, and the womens marathon swimming. I really, really loved to watch the mens and womens beach volleyball and the woman softball events also. I'm not that much of a track and field person, but it was still good.Now that the Olympics is just about over, I guess I'll just go back to watching reality TV shows until the fall season arrives.

Books:

I'm a bookmarker when it comes to reading books. I don't read books unless it's a product manual or a technical support document· Funny huh? Like I said, I am a computer geek so I only read computer related materials. LOL. I actually hate reading so much that it's like a sleeping pill. I maybe able to stay focused for maybe half a page then I'm dosing off. No kidding! I actually had to take an extra term in college because I flaked off on reading the materials. Not no mo though. Now I only read if I need to.

Heroes:

My hereos are all my friends and those who are about to become my friends. They all have special qualities that they bring into my life. They fill the void in my life that only they can bring. I've had past dating relationships where I was helped in so many ways both emotionally, physcially, and financially. I owe so much to this friend. To this day, as you imagine, we are the best of friends. I live everyday trying to reach out and build a stronger and bigger network of friends for support, encouragement, laughter, and joy. It's those times when you feel you're all alone, that you can call on those friends for a picker upper.Policeman, fireman, lifeguards, emergency or ambulance workers are my ultimate heroes. Their dedication to saving lifes even if their lives are at risk is something only they can do. I wasn't cut out for this type of work, so my hat goes off and I humbly bow my head to these awesome group of people.