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I am here for Dating, Friends and Networking

About Me

I WOULD RATHER BE HATED FOR WHO I AM THAN TO BE LOVED FOR WHO IM NOT...<..
.."Live, laugh, love" is one of my new phrases. Life is too short, especially to waste wonderful, glorious energy on the small stuff. I have Stage 4 Metastatic Breast Cancer that has spread throughout my body. What does that mean? It means I'm terminally ill and there is absolutely no cure, but there is hope to prolong my life longer than originally anticipated. I know that sounds like wishful thinking, but in my case it's hopeful thinking and that's why I'm still around and stronger than ever! Its true! When I was diagnosed in April 2007, I was so bad, my parents were told I had a few days left to live, maybe a couple of weeks if I was a fighter. Hello? 13 months later from today's date(6/7/08)I'm still here! TURN YOUR PAIN INTO POWER. Live everyday as if it were your last! You will see how liberating it is......**************************************************** *********** Hey guys! I have an account with another similar website like this one, "Tagged" I think it's called. I dont even know how It happened. Someone just sent me an email and I accepted it in error, and well, there I am. It's cool though. I have all the time in the world. Dont really get why people open these accounts though if its not to network....it's exactly the same as Myspace. Exactly. Anyway, the reason I'm bringing it up is because on one section of your profile it asks for your best feature! Hahahaha, the following is what I posted:YOUR BEST FEATURE: Before all the daily medication, chemo, radiation, etc..... my best feature use to be my butt! Yes, I use to be thin ( have been my entire life) and had small waist and a big butt ! Now, because of all the side affects , swelling, water retention, you know, all the fun & sexy side affects of having cancer, I am no longer thin and have "wide load" tattoed on my ass, therefore my best feature now is my unbreakable, positive attitude & outlook in life. hA HA HA! Seriously, all joking aside, I feel blessed to feel grateful every moment of the rest of my life........only good thing acquired from stupid cancer!

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

After this traumatizing & draining year, I would love to start dating (it's been over a year since I've gone out with anyone), but I'm still feeling a bit vulnerable (just telling it like it is)so I'm not sure I'm ready just yet.Or better yet, if whoever is interested in me would be able to handle my "situation". Anyway, I'm also here for friends, friends, and more friends! There's no such thing as having too many friends! AND most importantly, to keep in touch with the family and friends I already have. They mean the world to me.

My Blog

The last day of one of the hardest years in my life....good riddance!

Today is Wednesday, May 21 2008, the eve of my 34th b-day. Years ago I started making new year resolutions on my birthday instead of New Years Day, because the way I see it, my birthday is the beginni...
Posted by on Wed, 21 May 2008 19:26:00 GMT

Assistance, Support, Friendship

As I lay in bed surrounded by darkness, I think of as many of you as I can before falling asleep. I do this every night. When I wake up in the morning, I am silly happy that I did wake up that morning...
Posted by on Thu, 10 Apr 2008 15:27:00 GMT