A lady that can speak using a subject and a predicate. (Female is a statement of fact--lady is an opinion--pointing out these nuances would be cute in the short term, but tedious as time grinds on) She should be on the attractive side, in both appearance and personality. Have opinions on politics, art, philosopy, even strong held beliefs on these and other subjects. I really enjoy having stimulating conversations about such things. She should be passionate, yet open minded--defend or yield a defensless position. I am suspicious of zealots. Right and wrong is easy, but when all choices are wrong--which is the least wrong? Sorry, got off subject. Does it bother you to get your hair wet? Will you break a nail if you play volleyball? Have you ever used the word "summer" as a verb? (i.e. we shall summer in the Hamptons) you're prolly not the chick I'm looking for. If you are reasonably attractive and have heard of Plato, Socrates, Diogenes, Salvador Dali, Winston Curchill and have changed channels on a t.v. with a pair of pliars once in your life, please let me know--I'd like to meet you.