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About Me

2009 Travel Schedule

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In an ideal world, I'd be 32 forever w/ a loving husband & 6 kids, a screen writer for an HBO sitcom, an author whose book steals the #01 slot on the NYTBS list, an investment guru who has Wall Street at my beck & call, a globe-trotting humanitarian, & a big screen actress who claims the fame once reserved for J-Lo. However, in dealing w/ the realities of this life, I'm coming to terms w/ my actual self; a highly imaginative, little woman of a HUGE loving family & dearest friends, a trader who is @ Corporate America's beck & call, a Choo & Blahnik afficionado, & a weekly, bi-coastal, jet-setter. I'm drawn to men who are self-sufficient & exude confidence. Well-rounded intellectuals who could carry a conversation about anything & everything; from haute cuisine-objectivism-politics-world affairs-religion... A man who practices chivalry: opens & holds doors, allows the ladies to go 1st, stands up when I excuse myself from the dining table and to greet me upon my return, shields me from the cold, etc. I like the ones w/ witty humor & find dazzling my parents to be a joy rather than an obligation. One who is capable of clearly stating his point w/out jumping down my throat/relying on the volume of his voice. A man equipped with/ faith, not in himself/mankind in general only, but in "someone" larger than his capacity to understand. I swoon over cufflinks & rolled-up dress shirt cuffs equally--long, buttoned sleeves don't do much for me. Above the pin-striped suits or perfectly hemmed slacks though, I love men in khaki-hue clam diggers & flip flops. I like them tall, 5'9+, but I'd also like them to be asian, so that is an oxymoron in itself. The majority of the above paragraph is what I'd fancy in EXCESS of the "standard" traits I look for in a man. I don't know for how long I'd be entertained by each though. In fact, there are many things I'm unable to stamp my guarantee seal on. However, if there's anything I am positively sure of, it's what I will not settle for.

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Personality: Someone considerate, charming, witty, caring. Extracurricular activities: Volunteers @ the teenage pregnancy crisis center every 1st & 3rd Sat. of the month. Then visits the elders @ the nursing homes on the 2nd & 4th Sat. of the month. It would also be great if he hung out w/ the church youth group every Sun. Physical appearance: 1st things 1st, good hygiene. Which translates to, no hanging nose hairs, no lumps of wax lining the inner ears, no dirt under his finger nails. Speaking of nails, the ONE LONG PINKY NAIL is a big fat no-no. Clean cut hair, preferably not colored. To elaborate on his sense of style, his cuffs must be exactly 1/4in. off the heel of his shoe. The color of his belt & shoes must ALWAYS match. He mustn't wear white socks w/ black shoes. If all else fails, I'll shoot for stretched practicality. See above description.

My Blog

Asia Excursion

In less than two weeks I will be hopping on a flight to Tokyo. 4 days later, I will be boarding another plane to Hong Kong. 5 days later, I will be bound for Seoul. 4 days later, I will be enroute hom...
Posted by on Sun, 17 Feb 2008 22:59:00 GMT

Anyone want to play?

I purchased a load of new toys over the weekend. Who's up for some golf?   Frankly Golf Frog Putter (pink) Callaway Steelhead X-14 Pro Series Iron Set (4-SW)   Callaway Lady Big Bertha Ti ...
Posted by on Mon, 30 Apr 2007 19:30:00 GMT

V-Day & Lunar New Year

2 Dates for Valentine's Day Every previous "Singles' Awareness Day", I'd either go out with my girlfriends and psychoanalyze each others' lovelife, or lack thereof, over a nice dinner.... or stay at h...
Posted by on Mon, 19 Feb 2007 13:57:00 GMT

I'm in L<3VE, or just deep infatuation...

I've said time and time again, I will marry the man who can identify the origin of, "I reject your reality and substitute my own." J is not only a Mythbusters fan, but has read the works of my favorit...
Posted by on Sun, 11 Feb 2007 09:13:00 GMT

Greetings from the City of Brotherly Love...

My birthday celebration, or lack thereof, was mundane to say the least. I spent December 9th at home with the family... sober and nicotine-free. It was a rather unconventional state of being for ...
Posted by on Sun, 10 Dec 2006 20:57:00 GMT

His Proposal

The proposal... via EMAIL I resigned from my position at JPM on Monday. Come Tuesday, I get an offer letter from my "future fiancee". $21.50??!!?? A DAY???!!!?? Provided that my housing, food, a...
Posted by on Wed, 27 Sep 2006 17:08:00 GMT

Dating State of Mind

Reflecting upon my 24, nearing 25, years of existence, I've racked up about 20+ strikes and a fat zero on the boyfriend scoreboard. After some time, it's inevitable one would pose the question, "...
Posted by on Mon, 02 Jan 2006 21:30:00 GMT