I thought I had found the woman of all my dreams =/…….. Until that special woman comes along, it's up to me to learn and understand women the best way I know how...by learning and understanding. With each woman I meet and talk to, it puts me one step closer to knowing what women truly want in a man. The more unique or different a woman's personality is, I want to know you. What better way is there to prepare for my future wife? Let face it, plenty of couples getting married today aren't ready to face adversity. A lot of that breaks down to the individual and how they face their own past relationships and inner struggles. When two strong individuals get together, they become stronger as a unit. When one is strong and the other is not, that person has to be twice as strong for the both of them without allowing little room for mistakes. Imagine how hard it would be for an individual that can barely support themselves and has taken the on the additional responsibility of marriage. Marriage should never be a dependence on each other but more of a support. When one support falls its up to the other to be strong for the both of them until the other gets back up. I know in my heart, I don't want to be a statistic. I want the peace of mind knowing that if I fall, I will have the support I need to get back up. I still believe in true love in spite of how many people take it for granted. Through my clinical and personal experiences, I've learned to become very patient and a highly receptive listener. (Especially, when it comes to relationship problems.) If you really want to understand why the male in your life acts up the way he does, I'll be happy to explain it to you. Just remember that I'm going to tell you how it is.... (So be prepared for an honest response.) Please understand that this is purely based on an outside perspective with no emotional attachment to the situation. With that mind, you will always hear nothing but the TRUTH. (It's the least I can do in order to offset all the guys that give the male species a bad name.) Not to mention, show you that there are Princes out there still looking for their Cinderella. If I exist, then there should be millions upon millions of guys out there that might feel the same way I do. With that being said and you feel like you're destined to live your life alone, just remember this.... Love is everywhere and is express in many shapes and forms. When the opportunity for love presents itself...swallow your foolish pride, set aside all the prejudgments, prejudices, assumptions and emotional baggage you've carried from one relationship to other. That is one sure way for true love find you. As we all know, each relationship is unique, special and completely different. If you still have the same problems with your new boyfriend, it's simply because you haven't learned the lesson you were given prior to the new relationship you're in. Like all life lessons… they are taught over and over again in various forms until you've finally learned that lesson and move on to the next one. With every pitfall, setback, or heartbreaks you encounter along the way. These lessons are to help get closer to what you want most... to find your one true love and enjoy happiness in your life. Just never lose hope because there is someone out there looking for you...and when you're ready...love will find a way. As for what type of woman I want a relationship with.... it will be a girl who's just as beautiful as her mind. The same kind of girl that can give you one look and can show you that she loves you without saying a word. The kind of girl that can make your heart skip a beat every time she makes eye contact with you. Love like that is hard to find but I wouldn't have it any other way!! The most interesting thing about love and relationships is that sometimes we perceive love as a need. Unfortunately, that is completely untrue. Some may disagree for what I'm about to say but I've concluded that love is a want not a need. Love has always been a choice not a necessity. We choose who we fall in and out of love with. So when I finally find that special person, I want to say to her without a doubt that "I want you but I don't need you." and fully understand what I truly mean. I know what your thinking. How can a girl truly appreciate hearing that from a person that they love? To get a better understanding of how I think, what I'm about to say will help put those ridiculous questions and doubts to rest. So here's my response to back up my claim of needing and wanting. I would say to her that I would never need you. You would never ever be a necessity in my life. But I will forever want you. You are my desire, my choice. I don't need to be with you, I want to be with you. So every time I touch you, kiss you, embrace you, hold your hand, make love to you know that I can be anywhere in the world that I can and want to be but next to you is what makes me happy.
Fat Joe - I Won't Tell feat. J. Holiday ..