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xjenxox

About Me


i'm a dreamer.. a realist.. a cynic.. an idealist..
learn it. live it. like it. love it.
"In our most trivial walks, we are constantly, though unconsciously, steering like pilots by certain well-known beacons and headlands, and if we go beyond our usual course we still carry in our minds the bearing of some neighboring cape; and not till we are completely lost, or turned round -- for a man needs only to be turned round once with his eyes shut in this world to be lost -- do we appreciate the vastness and strangeness of nature. Every man has to learn the points of compass again as often as be awakes, whether from sleep or any abstraction. Not till we are lost, in other words not till we have lost the world, do we begin to find ourselves, and realize where we are and the infinite extent of our relations."
- Henry David Thoreau"Among other things, you'll find that you're not the first person who was ever confused and frightened and even sickened by human behavior. You're by no means alone on that score, you'll be excited and stimulated to know. Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and spiritually as you are right now. Happily, some of them kept records of their troubles. You'll learn from them- if you want to. Just as someday, if you have something to offer, someone will learn something from you. It's a beautiful reciprocal arrangement. And it isn't education. It's history. It's poetry."
- J.D. Salinger / Catcher in the Rye
live & learn
"The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly." - Buddha
.. // [ xjenxOx ]

My Interests


"nessun piacere è transitorio, perché il ricordo che lascia è permanente." - goethe

laughing!.. shopping.. cooking & eating!!.. traveling.. writing, photography, art.. puppies.. sunny weather.. rollercoasters!! waterslides.. happy hour.. texting.. playing cards.. pool.. hanging out with friends.. hugs & kisses!!

I'd like to meet:



good ppl :).. smart ppl.. funny ppl.. dorky ppl.. shih tzus.. puppies.. animal lovers.. ppl lovers.. cuddlers.. card players.. eaters.. drinkers.. bartenders.. designated drivers.. workout partners.. korean speakers.. motivational speakers.. time managers.. dreamers.. & doers

"...it is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life." - sir hugh walpole

Movies:

ones i can remember?? pearl harbor, the notebook.. mystic river.. the rainman.. shawshank redemption.. finding nemo.. the italian job.. love actually.. the pursuit of happyness.. mr & mrs smith.. transformers.. the departed.. the devil wears prada.. girl interrupted.. memoirs of a geisha.. crash, momento.. down to you.. i like dramas, comedies.. foreign films.. feel good movies :).. oh yea, but i'm a total sucker for a good korean drama that makes me cry...

Television:

don't watch much tv.. grey's anatomy, sex and the city.. friends.. hgtv.. the discovery health channel.. tlc.. animal planet.. e!

Heroes:

my dad.. my family.. my friends.. people who can inspire me..