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I am a retired/disabled Deputy Sheriff. Currently spending some of my time as a Professional Pet Tranining Instructor. I spent a brief time in my recent life as a Pet Nurse for a local animal hospital and previously as the Program Coordinator for a multicounty disaster relief org.
I am ordained Clergy, a Florida Notary, and a Reiki Master/Teacher "specializing" in the needs of the Pagan Community. I am the Senior Fellowship Coordinator for the Sunshine Grove CUUPS. I am also a member of the ADF, Order of the Mithril Star, and the OBOD, just to name a few.
I enjoy spending time fixin' up my little piece of Peace, the Redwolfn'Racer Acre, my non-traditional rescue, and spending time with my family, which includes my fantastic Fawn Dobie Krähe, my Dalmatian Lili, and my two Wolfdogs Cheyenne and Kiba. I am currently a member of several animal rescue and animal rights organizations along with a few Eco-Activist groups, Civil Rights organizations, and a very strict vegetarian, I can't really say vegan because I love honey and an occasional peppermint frap from Starbucks.

I also enjoy photographing, documenting, and preserving historic cemeteries. Along with a fellow Taphophile, co-founded the International Association of Cemetery Preservationists, Inc (one dark and stormy night in Savahanna, just kidding but it was during a trip to Savahanna).
And YES, I'm involved in the BDSM community (Ya'all know me there as lil).
I am a very complex, enigmatic person although I try not to be and by all means usually don't admit it :-) I am an honest person to the point of brutal, I'm the kind of person that if you really don't want my opinion, don't ask.
I've been called intense, complicated, surreal, etc. I may be those things, I don't know, I can tell you I'm real, as real as real gets. I hold very high expectations of myself which project to my surroundings so at times I seem very demanding...either all or nothing kind of person. I'm a confident person but not to the point of arrogant, I'm actually very humble but not to the point of weak. I'm expressive and creative and speak at times through the music I listen to. I'm old school 80s child through and through...with that comes the BDSM lifestyle and slight lack of certain inhibitions. I'm not a "player" as I do enjoy a monogamous relationship but will never place a boundary or conditions on love or the idea of love. I'm as open minded as they come...I completely believe that to each their own but leave me to mine. I will never tell anyone theirs is the wrong way. That way may not be the way for me but if its right for you then its the right way.

I'm a Victorian Romantic...Picnics in cemeteries, Balls with Huge Gowns dancing slowly and closely together, quite time just enjoying the midnight moon. I enjoy a night on the town but no more than I enjoy a night in watching a good or not so good movie. And as you already know, I completely enjoy traveling. I love an adventure!!!
I'm a workaholic...again setting high standards for myself. At times I've been called self destructive cause it seems I can become a bit driven but I have a high level of dedication once I'm committed to something or someone for that matter.
I'm a VERY Spiritual person...not religious but spiritual. Again, I believe strongly in what I believe in but would never tell anyone their beliefs were wrong. I'm a traditional Kitchen Witch with Druidic training amongst the billion other things I have studied! I love to learn and experience new things...that whole sense of adventure again :-) I believe humans in the quest for understanding created religion in the beginning of time to explain the unexplainable, so I'm not sure if this makes me a Humanist or a Satanist lol
My dogs mean the world to me, I would give up everything to save just one of them. They are my passion, my heart, my soul. I don't have family and some friends and lovers come and go...my dogs are always here!
My brief history...
Born in Ohio, lived all over the place, my adopted father was a civilian government agent so we never lived anywhere for any length of time and moved alot when I was a child. Being just like my mother, I became a bit of a rebel rouser. Married young, had a son young, got divorced young...Went to school, became a cop. I had a great career until my accident, which left me with a fake hip, Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy, and a retirement. Thought for awhile I had lost everything but being the person I am....started over again, hence the Phoenix on my back. My medical history is even worse...had cancer when I was but 20-21, ended up having a full radical hysterectomy, losing a small portion of my stomach, my bowel and my small intestines...made it through that and have been in remission ever since. Now its the RSD that plagues my existence. I have good days and I have bad days...bad days will put me in the hospital so I try not to have many of those! I live each day like it could be my last!
For those of you who play WoW, you can find me playing one of my many toons
Beyla- Tauren Druid- (Brotherhood of Chaos)Magtheridon
Arduinna- Tauren Death Knight- (Brotherhood of Chaos)Magtheridon
Rhetta- Orc Hunter- (Brotherhood of Chaos)Magtheridon
Nyssä- Undead Warlock-(Brotherhood of Chaos)Magtheridon
Levani- Troll Shaman- (Brotherhood of Chaos)Magtheridon
Naderah-Undead Mage- (Brotherhood of Chaos)Magtheridon
Laileaha- Blood Elf Priest- (Brotherhood of Chaos)Magtheridon
Vahlla- Blood Elf Paladin- (Brotherhood of Chaos)Magtheridon
Alliance toons have been retired
Arduinna- Night Elf Druid(WhitewolfClan) Ice Crown
Marishaten- Draenei Priest- (Whitewolf Clan)Ice Crown
EnURFace- Draenei Warrior- (Whitewolf Clan)Ice Crown
For more information about me and how I spend my time, please visit the links below:
My Cemetery Photography and art
RSDS- My "invisible" disability
Sacred Space~ For All Things Magickal

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Kind, intelligent, open minded people who aren't afraid to admit they're a bit beyond mainstream.

Then suddenly he leaned and whispered something in the second king's ear, and that second, that second king became a wanderer too.
They walked out of town hand in hand. No royal belts, no thrones. This is what love does and continues to do.

I continue to whisper, waiting for the one who will wander with me.

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My Blog

The hardest year of my life

It was one year ago today my best friend slipped away peacefully in my arms. I miss him so everyday and still have yet to recover from the lose. King I miss you so...I love you my friend... ...
Posted by on Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:12:00 GMT

An update from Koenig

Hi everybody! Its, Koenig again&wow, what a day I had!!! I was neutered yesterday&phew Im so glad to be home! It started out with some blood work and can you believe I already weigh 48.8 po...
Posted by on Wed, 03 Jun 2009 04:58:00 GMT

Hell YEAH!!!

We had such an amazing night last night!!! Nine Inch Nails was amazing as expected, Trent Reznor is absolutely amazing! Now, I'm not a big Jane's Addiction fan but I have to admit the put on one hell ...
Posted by on Sun, 10 May 2009 06:15:00 GMT

Wishes everyone.......

a very Blessed Beltaine!!!
Posted by on Fri, 01 May 2009 05:29:00 GMT

And what a 3 years its been...we're looking forward to enjoying the continuing adventures

She's a handful, we're going to have her put down...was the words I couldn't believe I was hearing. Almost three years ago, I was brought in on a snakebite case. It was obvious the young wolfdog was b...
Posted by on Fri, 24 Apr 2009 07:10:00 GMT

Something to consider this EarthDay...

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Posted by on Wed, 22 Apr 2009 04:47:00 GMT

My little girl turns 10 today!!!

Wow, I can't believe its been almost 9 years since this little scared beaten Wolfdog came to me. My gods, what bad shape she was in, and now she's turning 10 years old! If you've met Cheyenne, you kno...
Posted by on Tue, 21 Apr 2009 06:54:00 GMT

And the trees come a tumblin' down

So here we are cleaning out the bedroom closet to make room for some of Renaye's stuff when all the sudden we hear a strange thud. Worried about the pups, we run out to do a head count and found them ...
Posted by on Tue, 07 Apr 2009 04:21:00 GMT

I spoke way to soon....

Its amazing what can be accomplished when you sit down and talk like two adults (something my other relationships have always lacked). Kneejerk reactions are never the way to handle perceived wrongs&I...
Posted by on Sat, 04 Apr 2009 06:07:00 GMT

So it didn't work out...

I should be used to it by now but it still hurts none the same. I guess I'm still looking for my wanderer..... Then suddenly he leaned and whispered something in the second king's ear, and that second...
Posted by on Fri, 03 Apr 2009 17:07:00 GMT