A REAL Man who 'gets it' & 'gets me'. Whos been thru some trials in life & is stronger because of them. Someone with an addictive personality that makes me belly laugh. A Man with a great sense of humor & personality that draws me to him.Someone who will put into the relationship what he expects to get out of it.A Man who is free to give all of himself.. Not expecting Superman, just a stand up guy that has my back- as I will his & inspires me to want to be a better person. For a Man like that, I'd do just about anything. IF your HUNG UP on Material things and possessions, we will NOT be a good match. Who someone is as a person is so much more important than what they do or don't have. Someone who doesn't always have to be politically correct and lives his life for him, not for everyone else or just to make others happy. Be able to openly communicate because it is so important for a relationship to succeed. I want someone who Loves me the way I am and not try & change me . We are who we are !!! ABSOLUTELY NO SMOKERS, MARRIED or SEPERATED !! NO matter what the circumstances are .