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DELL

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About Me

FYI....I DO NOT date married men, nor fool around with them. That also goes for men in a relationship. I have never cheated but have been cheated on.
I am 48 years old, divorced, and have 2 children. My daughter is in TN, and my son lives with me part time and goes to FSU most of the time.
I love too much, give too much, trust too much, believe in people too much and laugh too much...and I am told by my friends, I share too much! My bad.
I believe in God but I don't believe God has a gender. I believe in good and I believe in evil. I believe in happiness and I believe the best in life is yet to come.
I believe that natural things are better. I believe in taking care of myself.
I am independent and stubborn at times. I'm open minded and like to try new things. I like to learn. I like games (not head-games) and I like to read.
I take lots of vitamins and walk 3-5 miles a day. I take a lot of pride in my health. My son is trying to teach me Kung Fu. I like the philosophy but don't think I will ever get the hang of the art.
I love the outdoors and the water, especially the springs in Florida. I used to fish and camp, but the fishing equipment and camping gear went with my ex.
I have had a very good life. Of course I have had my ups and downs, but I am always looking forward to what life has in store for me.
I like to be around people and I like my time alone. I enjoyed being married but now I'm enjoying being single.
I like old and vintage things. I like to think about where they've been and who used them. Actually, I really don' t know why I like vintage things. I just do.
I collect vintage kitchenware. Therefore, it goes to reason, I like to cook and bake but there is no one to cook and bake for these days. That's o.k. because it keeps the kitchen cleaner.
I believe in positive thinking. I believe in miracles. I believe in love.
I don't believe in soulmates. I don't believe that there is one man for one woman and one woman for one man. If that were the case, women wouldn't out number the men. And I have heard other theories of why there is an uneven ratio, and I don't buy into that either.
I believe a relationship worth having takes time and energy. Building a relationship should be fun and an enjoyable experience. And if it's not, it just might not be worth it.
I believe in being with people that make me feel good about myself. And I believe that should be a mutual thing.
I believe the older a person gets the wiser the person should become, but that is not always the case.
I believe in honestly, but some things can be left unsaid. I believe in self evident truths. I believe what goes around comes around. I believe in science. I believe that kindness is a virtue.
I believe in looking someone in the eye when I talk to them. I don't believe in guilt. I believe that most people take our freedom in this country for granted.
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My Interests

I like exploring the Tampa Bay area. There is so much to do and see. I like to go out with friends and laugh. I like to stay home and watch movies.
The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.

In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.

You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.

Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.

In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

I'd like to meet:

Everyone really. Since my divorce, I am a free woman and I love doing different things and going different places.
I have some great girlfriends that I have a lot of fun with. I am interested in finding a good friend of the opposite gender. I think it's valuable to get a man's point of view.
I was married to my best friend, but he changed so drastically....I can't even talk to him anymore. I miss him; or who he used to be. I want that kind of relationship again...but even better. Someone that will enjoy being with me as much as I enjoy being with him. Someone I can be myself with; someone I can trust with my deepest feeling and secrets. Someone that will appreciate my taste and style without having to adopt them. Someone who can live their own life yet share in mine. And I'm sure that is more information than you wanted to know about me!
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I've been accused of putting swimming sperms on myspace. These are not swimming sperms. They are cosmic paisleys.

I have recently found this wonder oceanside to release my cosmic paisleys (or whatever you want to call them). They are happier now that they are free.My hobby, right now is building websites. My newest one is about anti-aging. http://www.naturebygrace.comGo visit it and let me know what you think.

Music:

I like all kinds of music. Classical to rap. Any good music. Not too crazy about country but like folk. Depends on my mood I guess.....but I am not moody! **o.k. I've come to realize that I like some country....but just the good stuff!

Movies:

I love good movies. I wouldn't know where to begin. I like dramas, good comedy, but I think they're rare, mysteries, action, if they have a story, and situation dialogues.

Television:

Sitcoms. I admit it. I like sitcoms. I think there a reflection of our society but funnier. One and a Half Men, I love.
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Books:

I really like the classic sales books. How to books. Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill. The book by Frank Bettger. I am reading now: Succulent Wild Woman, by Sark. I like self help books. Non-fiction. Now I read off the internet more than books.

Heroes:

Ben Franklin. Never met him but read alot about him. People who survive and put their loved one's first. My dad, because he is always genuine. People who pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Young men and women that lay their life on the line for our freedom.

My Blog

We did have fun!

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Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST

Did we have fun or what??

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Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST

This Is My New Blog

Heck. Can't a girl take a break from blogging? Apparently not. I love you guys so much, I think of you often. No. This is not a Hallmark card, but serious invitation to a Myspace party. Come on....
Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST

What's Chocolate Got to Do With It?

What's Chocolate Got to Do With It?I lost 6 lbs. this week. Actually, I don't really need to lose any weight, but 6 lbs will give me something to play with. Like the opposite of a 'cushion'. So.......
Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST

Nicko's for Breakfast and Other Cultural Standouts

Nicko's for Breakfast and Other Cultural StandoutsI deeply enjoy finding places of Tampa culture. Saturday morning I went to Nicko's for breakfast. For those of you who don't know, Nicko's is a litt...
Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST

Online Is A Dangerous Place

Online Is A Dangerous PlaceIt's true. Online is a dangerous place to be. And, in the same vein, electricity is a dangerous thing to fool with. Good thing we discovered electricity can toast bread b...
Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST

I've change a lot....NOT

How I've changed.....NOTI have changed. I've changed a lot. I used to be so old fashion, I could scream at the thought of it. From the beginning; I was a wild child, a tom boy from almost birth....
Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST

Cheating at Breakfast

It's 4:30 am and I can't sleep. Nothing like a little blogging to relax me.Cheating at BreakfastAfter the birthday bash (the pictures say it all) 4 of us had breakfast. We learned about cheating ov...
Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST

I Won't Cheat If You Won't

I was talking to a friend the other day about her marriage. She was saying that she was falling in love with her husband all over again. I think she is 40 years old, her husband 44, and they have be...
Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST

It's The Gossip Truth..or..What is Better Than Silver Frames

I got an email from a friend the other day, telling me she will not be able to come to my birthday bash because she has a wedding that night. The nerve; someone getting married the very day I have my...
Posted by DELL on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:15:00 PST