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Nic Unequivocallyâ„¢

Nirvana is freedom from views. - Thich Nhat Hanh

About Me

.. This is Nic
... Unequivocally
I recently moved to Chicago and I'm loving it. Life is an amazing experience. Learning, loving, and living life to its fullest. Looking to meet new people, make friends and find that someone special to share my life with. Feel free to send me a message or hit me up on AIM (fsuboymi).
Who is Nicholas
... and what is he about?
I think life is a never ending journey of self-discovery. One is always learning new things about ones self and I am no different. I'm rather nostalgic. I believe in this old fashioned notion of having class, integrity, sincerity, and compassion. It is hard to find those attributes in people now days.
Graphic Design is my profession and I am very passionate about it and of life. Life is an amazing gift and opportunity. We get to experience so many amazing things in our lifetime! It's important to see the world for its possibilities.
I love intelligent conversation and indulge in art, culture, philosophy, theology and more. I'm insatiably curious and love to learn about many things. I'm always in search of a greater understanding and enlightenment.
I have this belief that people are inherently good and have good intentions, though many are selfish, ignorant and very misguided in their lives. I am spiritual. I have no official affiliation with any religion. I was raised Roman Catholic but much of that religion ran counter to my beliefs. I studied Buddhism in the past and found it to be one of the few religions and ideologies that have followed my own beliefs and values closely. Buddhism has helped me a lots and continues to bring insight into my life.
Something I've learned is that we are human and aren't perfect. The hardest thing to do is realize this and forgive. We have and will continue to make mistakes. What is important is to truely learn from them. "Forgiveness is about giving up all hope for a better past." - Gil Fronsdal
Random Facts.
- I don't look my age. I think someone lied on my birth certificate.
- A single rose is beautiful but a dozen roses and roses in general are over used.
- My favorite color is black.
- I know to much about fragrances and aromatherapy.
- I had my fifteen minutes of fame on CNN and Newsweek back in 1997.
- I love Italian and many Asian cuisines, including Sushi.
- I am a third generation college graduate.
- Vanilla Latté is my favorite coffee drink.
- I love raspberry sorbet more then ice cream.
- I'm a brand whore. No denying it. *shrugs*
What am I looking for
... in a guy?
I'd like to find a guy with passions like me; who loves life and wants to explore the world. I need an intelligent guy who can hold conversations and discussions. It's nice to be close and physical with a guy but if you don't have anything to say to them it won't last.
Compassion, Respect, Trust, Honesty and Integrity would be virtues he holds highly and knows beauty is only skin deep but can appreciate beauty in all its forms. That said, I do enjoy a guy with a sense of style, who enjoys dancing, having fun and takes good care of his body.
I'm very sarcastic, so a guy with a sense of humor is important to me as well. Someone who doesn't take themselves to seriously and who can make me smile and laugh is a very attractive attribute. I'm quirky, I can be a dork, and love to laugh.

My Interests



Spirtuality. I'm always trying to bring a greater level of awareness to my life. So that I might find contentment in all I do and bring joy into others lives.

Traverse City, MI. My beautiful hometown and resort town. I grew up thinking the whole world was this beautiful. Its amazing there!

Guys Making Out... Yum. Who doesn't enjoy making out with that someone special?

Cute Small Furry Animals. I love cats. So fuzzy, lovable, and bitchy too. They have amazing personalities and character.

Style & Fashion. Guess, Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Versace, Dolce & Gabbana, Armani Exchange.

Graphic Design. I have a great affinity towards making things look good. I believe everything should be appealing to the eye and be clearly communicated. Perhaps a little hedanistic but why shouldn't life be enjoyable to the senses. I also enjoy other arts too. Such as Music, Theatrical, and Fine Arts.

People. I love to laugh and enjoy those around me and have a good time. Friends and family are the best!

Abercrombie & Fitch, Applebees, Aromatherapy, Armani Exhange, Beach, Blue Eyes, Boxer Briefs, Black, California, Candles, Cellphones, Chicago, Cloths, Clubs, Conversations, Cuddling, Dancing, Designing, Destroyed Denim, Dolce & Gabbana, Drinking, Driving, Express, Fierce Cologne, Flowers, Friends, Frozen Daquiri, Fruit, Fun, Gap, Hollister Co., Hugs, Kissing, Laughing, Living, Love, Making Out, Massages, Memories, Nature, Olive Garden, People, Photography, Pictures, Red Lobster, Romance, Senuality, Shopping, Style, Showers, Sun, Tanning, Thunder Storms.

I'd like to meet:



I'd like to meet people who take time to read profiles before messaging. I took time to write it which is more then I can say for many of the profiles out there. A picture might speak a thousand words but not when its twenty pictures of Britney Spears. Then again, maybe it does just not in a good way.

I'd love to meet classy, intelligent, fun loving, and interesting people. Someone who is confident, knows how to have fun, and also has heart. Whether its conversation over coffee or dancing at a club... I enjoy it all.

Famous People I Love:

Orlando Bloom & Justin Timberlake

Megan Mullally & Linsey Lohan

Ryan Carnes & Britney Murphy

Music:

I have a very eclectic taste. Some of my favorite artists are Nelly Furtado, Anna Nalick, Sarah McLachlan, Dido, Pussy Cat Dolls, Gwen Stefani, Michael Buble, Evanescence, Madonna, Broken Sunday, Josh Groban, Mariah Carey, Iio, Ian Van Dahl, Armin Van Buuren, Fall Out Boy, Benassi Bros, Luminary, Rihanna, Ne-Yo.

Movies:

Latter Days, Zoolander, Mean Girls, Legally Blonde, House of the Flying Dagger,X-men Series, Lord of the Rings Series, Gattica, The Thomas Crown Affair, Wit.

Television:

Project Runway, Top Chef, American Idol, Desperate Housewives, The Starter Wife, Friends, Family Guy, South Park, Futurama, Inuyasha, Queer As Folk. I don't watch much television.

Books:

Dhamapada, Design Books.

Heroes:

All those who stand up for others, who fight for truth, and who speak against the oppressive silence. Those who have found true wisdom and enlightenment.

My Blog

In silence...

I bequeath to you my vagrant heart, this, my indolent and disparaging life of solitude. Think me not unkind, for this silence has only come with a soft hand and a setting sun. Surrender, only but a mo...
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Sun, 08 Jun 2008 12:26:00 PST

God is...

God is irrelevant. What a provocative, profound, and blasphemous concept to behold.I know some would out right condemn me for saying that. Others offended. Some would agree whole-heartedly with me. Wh...
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Sun, 08 Jun 2008 12:32:00 PST

And I pause...

Perhaps its the precipice before me that leaves me to wallow in this melancholy or perhaps I just like to provoke an indolent and lethargic world to be more then just a hallow apathetic vessel of supe...
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 10:58:00 PST

That Moment...

If I could pause my life and live in any moment of it forever. I would have picked a moment with you... ... but those moments have past, as have you. I love you. I miss you. I must forget you....
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Wed, 18 Jul 2007 08:49:00 PST

Lost in the tempests...

Tempests wage war upon the shores of my mind, scattering the sands of this once serene sanctuary. These days, one can scarcely remember the jovial whimsy of the grasses at play with the wind. And the ...
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Wed, 20 Jun 2007 07:50:00 PST

And I miss you...

And I'm lonely here without you Miss your breath against my skin You love me then you leave me still I lie here Pressing fingers, where your kisses have been And I miss you And I miss you And I miss y...
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Sun, 03 Jun 2007 04:16:00 PST

Waist deep in dark reflection...

The shadows have past and tranquility has returned to my life. Along with it a greater level of focus and dedication to everything at hand. I've found in my free time more old writings and again decid...
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Thu, 08 Feb 2007 09:48:00 PST

A soured note in tune with Sorrows song&

I accept the fact that I am a vessel of melancholy and discord as of late. For I can no longer find a melody of joy in this chaos of sound called life.With Hope's promise I gaze upon a future of dream...
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Wed, 24 Jan 2007 10:05:00 PST

Thoughts and Confessions&

Thoughts and Confessions of Nic UnequivocallyThese are my thoughts as of late with little allusion or metaphoric play. Atypical of me, I know. I feel a need to be candid at the moment, not for others,...
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Wed, 17 Jan 2007 12:05:00 PST

With words unspoken...

Why me? The quintessential question everyone asks themselves. Yet no answer will quench the mind's thirst for absolution or quell the tempest at hand. This wasn't supposed to happen. Then again, is it...
Posted by Nic Unequivocally" on Tue, 09 Jan 2007 09:00:00 PST