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Robert

If You Keep On Believing, The Dream That You Wish Will Come True

About Me

I am a lover of the arts (drama, dance, music, art), enjoy writing poetry (I've had several published) and playing the piano (as a hobby). I love making new friends, but stay loyal to my old friends. I like making myself laugh and I am a down-to-earth, optimistic, and very caring man. I am a lover of animals (especially cats). My friends tell me that I'm a very patient person and I'm a good listener. They tell me that I'm a very caring person and that I'm passionate about dance (my career). They hate that I can eat whatever I want and not gain any weight (I just hide it well). I am someone that they can rely on to be there for them. I am someone that will not judge them. I am someone they can confide in. I am a very giving person and their wish is for me to find happiness in life with "the man of my dreams." I tend to be a little clumsy, even though I'm a dancer. I will trip walking down the street or go to a restaurant and spill soda on myself (luckily that hasn't happened for quite some time). I also tend to be really focused when I'm driving (I'm often singing while driving). My family and friends joke that I always ignore them when they drive by and honk at me. I'm not ignoring them, I just don't notice them. But, I'm a good driver, so I guess that comes from paying attention to where I'm going and not who's passing by. With relationships, I've learned not to get too emotionally attached to men too quickly. It's not that I hide my feelings. I have nothing to hide, so all one has to do is ask. I guess I've become a little jaded when it comes to relationships. I come across as shy and passive, but once I'm comfortable with someone that changes. I've learned the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. I have a lot of love to give people, but I've rarely ever been "in love." I hope that will change one day. I have been happy in relationships with men, but have yet to be truly fulfilled in one (intellectually, emotionally, physically, romantically, and sexually). As the Disney song goes, "No matter how your heart is grieving if you keep on believing the dream that you wish will come true." Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds

My Interests

Amusement Parks (especially Disneyland), Antique Stores/Flea Markets/Swap Meets/Shopping, Art galleries/Museums, Bookstores, Coffee Houses, Concerts/Live Theatre, Dancing (Clubs/Social Dance/Ballroom Dance/Stage Performances), Movies, Restaurants (Fine Dining & Dessertaholic/Chocoholic), Moonlit Strolls On The Beach, Bowling, Horseback Riding, Ice Skating, Volleyball, Yoga/Pilates, Horseback Riding, Waterslide Parks, and Miniature Golf Parks. Places I would love to travel to include Holland/Amsterdam, Europe, Spain, Mexico, and Australia. I would also love to visit Hawaii, New York, Pennsylvania (Hershey), and Florida (DisneyWorld).

I'd like to meet:

Although I am the type of guy who can be friends with anyone of any age, I tend to be attracted mostly to Latin and Caucasian men (I also like Middle Eastern men) who are 21-mid 40s. I also have a major weakness for naturally red-headed men and men who wear glasses. I find I am drawn more to men who are close to my age or slightly older than myself, who take care of themself physically, and who share similar interests. To me, the most important things in a relationship are honesty, openness in communication, and friendship. My "ideal relationship" would be one where both people look forward to seeing each other for days to come, exploring each other for weeks to come, spending time with each other for months to come, and loving each other for years to come. As for a possible first meeting....well, being a "kid at heart," I would have to say going to Disneyland (or any amusement park). Considering how much time people "waste" standing in line, it would certainly make for several opportunities for conversation. And if we are really enjoying each other's company in a romantic way then a nice candlelit dinner at the Blue Bayou Restaurant (overlooking the Pirates of the Carribbean), holding hands on the Haunted Mansion (and a few kisses), and taking turns sitting in between each other's legs on the Matterhorn and Splash Mountain all come to mind. If the sparks don't fly then at least it was a very memorable date and hopefully a great friendship (and more fun times) will come of it. Of course, anything where both people feel relaxed and can get to know the other person is all that matters. Movies are great, but a horrible way to try and get to know someone (unless combined with other activities). I'm all for "moonlit strolls on the beach, dinner and a movie, or meeting at a coffee house," but being a performing artist (dancer) I admire originality.

Music:

I enjoy all types of music, except heavy metal and hardcore rap. I mostly enjoy disco (long live the 1970s!!), latin pop, electronica/trance, club/dance mixes, and 1980s compilations/mixes. My favorite song is "Shoulder To Cry On" by Tommy Page and my favorite female singer is Madonna (yes, I know that's stereotypical).

Movies:

I love all types of movies, except westerns and war movies (I do enjoy sci-fi, though). I mostly enjoy Disney, horror, and gay-themed romantic comedies. My favorite movie is "Rebel Without A Cause" (big James Dean fan!!). My favorite musicals are "West Side Story" and "My Fair Lady."

Television:

My favorite TV show is "Friends," though I also enjoy "Charmed," "Buffy The Vampire Slayer/Angel," "Will & Grace," "Golden Girls," and "Queer As Folk." Although I am not much of a TV watcher anymore (like I was in the 1980s and early 1990s), I go to movie theaters a lot and enjoy my ever-growing VHS/DVD collection.

Books:

Although I am not much of a book reader, I do enjoy horror short-stories and gay-themed romance short-stories. My favorite book that I would love to see made into a movie is "Dream House" by Douglas Borton (horror novel). I subscribe to quite a few magazines (entertainment/dance/gay-themed) and I love browsing through catalogs (postal mail and online).

Heroes:

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