If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...Compromise~it's a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. (Hell Naw!) Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
*PLEASE NOTE!!!!I HAVE A LOW TOLLERANCE FOR GAMES AND BULLSHIT...I AM A VERY DRAMA FREE PERSON AND IF U ARE ON GAMES AND JUST TRYIN TO PLAY WITH MY EMOTIONS U NEED NOT EVEN ATTEMPT TO HOLLA AT ME...I'VE BEEN THROUGH TOO MANY GAMES AND BULLSHIT WITH GUYS AND DON'T HAVE TIME FOR UNNECCESSARY STRESS!!SO,WITH THAT BEING SAID.....
I would like to meet someone with the following characteristics:
1~U must be taller than me (I'm ONLY 5'1 so that's not too difficult!LoL)
2~U MUST have ALL of ur teeth, I love a nice sexy smile,with a face and nice personality to go along with it! :-)
3~ U must be doin somethin with ur life, either be in school or workin...don't just be a lazy bum sittin on ya azz doin nothin with ya life!! I want someone with some type of goals for da future! U MUST be respectful and someone that I wouldn't be ashamed to take home to moms!
4~Preferably NO kids....I don't have time for any baby momma drama b.s.
5~ U MUST have a sweet and nice personality to match ur looks, I don't care if ur fine as hell but if u have a messed up personality,then I would consider u to be ugly...
6~All I ask is that U KEEP IT REAL AT ALL TIMES NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION AND WE'LL BE GOOD... :-)
*IF U CAN ABIDE BY AND MEET THOSE QUALIFICATIONS AND CHARACTERISTICS, THEN HOLLA @ CHA GIRL
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There’s Nothing More Beautiful Than A Black Man…The truth of the matter is There’s nothing more beautiful than a black man Whether 5’7’’ or 6’9’’ Yellow fabulous or chocolate heaven There’s nothing more beautiful than a black man Long and lean With deep brown eyes Wavy hair or dreads With strong thick thighs There’s nothing more beautiful than a black man Bald head with a goatee Cornrows or a fade A little thick, a little thin Oh, the choices to be made There’s nothing more beautiful then a black man Scholarly or not Wall Street or hip-hop I’ur praises To the mountaintop Head of the home Provider and lover Obedient son and loving brother There’s nothing more beautiful than a black man A mighty protector you’ve proven to be Sacrificing your life to keep me free Working for crumbs when the table is bare Praising the Lord, leading the family in prayer There’s nothing more beautiful than a black man Holding my hand when fear emerges Remaining faithful, suppressing your urges Proving your strength by turning the other cheek Having high hopes when the situation is bleak There’s nothing more beautiful then a black man Treating me like the queen I was born to be Never disrespecting, dishonoring, or disgracing me Giving me credit when credit is due Oh black man how I honor you There’s nothing more beautiful than a black manOH YES...DITTO TO ALL OF THIS! I LOVE MY BLACK MEN!