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Gary

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

Don't judge a book by it's cover. I have honestly never been that great at describing myself, but I guess I can give it a shot. I am generally nothing like people think I will be when they first see me and or meet me. I am a very simple person, and like normal things. I am sweet and friendly (once I have a minute to feel you out), and not the bitch people think I will be. Usually, I am very reserve and stand offish when I first meet new people. I have to get to know your personality a little bit and know how to respond to it. Once, I get to know you, I tend to be a lot more open and wear my feelings and my heart on my sleeve. Is that a good thing? Probably not, but I have always felt that I should say what I mean. Are those feelings always in stone? No, chance are that particular moment and actions govern my thoughts. I have never really been the “talk about you behind your back” type. Since I hate having to remember what I have said or not, I feel it is better to just to say it. I have found that just doing so is so much easier. People sometimes will get irritated at me for my thoughts, but generally will respect my opinion in the end. Why? If you get it out and put your thoughts out in the open, you can both deal with it and move on. Saying something about someone behind their back will always get back to them, out of context and completely changed. A little secret for everyone, usually it is not what you actually said that is so frustrating to others, it is usually that you did not say it to them or that people blew it way out of proportion. At this point, I should get back to explaining myself. I tend to be shy with people when I first meet them in a one on one settling , but I like to be a social butterfly in a crowd. I can be the nicest person you ever meet, or the most rude. I am very generous but at the same time so selfish it is sickening. I like to dress well when I am going out, but usually you will find me at home in a t-shirt and shorts (if that). Yes, that is right, I am not as glamorous, prim, or proper as everyone thinks. I tend to be very busy or extremely lazy. I usually will have so much going on that when I can take a minute to slow down, I take full advantage of it and stay in bed. My bed is my favorite place to be and is the most comfortable spot in my house. I like to have the television on, rarely can I tell you what is actually on it however unless it is something I can learn from. I tend to watch Discovery, Animal Planet, and DIY most of the time, but Nip/Tuck is the only show that I watch regularly and try my best to be at home for. Wow, this description is starting to get a little long so I am going to end it here. Anything else you want to know you are more than welcome to ask for I am an open book, but I reserve the right not to answer a question if I feel it is to personal. So the pattern of it all allows you to understand that I am just a bunch of contradictions just like you and everyone else.
The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to good manners and elegance.
In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.
You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change.
You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.
Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.
In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?
Your Love Element Is Earth
In love, you have consistency and integrity.
For you, love is all about staying grounded and centered.
You attract others with your zest for life and experiences.
Your flirting style is defined by setting the scene, creating a unique moment in time.
Steady progress and stability are the cornerstones of your love life.
You may take things too slowly, but you never put your heart at risk.
You connect best with: Fire
Avoid: Wood
You and another Earth element: need each other too much to build a good foundation What Element Is Your Love? .. Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds

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My Blog

Where are the damn instructions?

You wake up one day and decide that today is a new day, and today is a great day to start a new project. You think for a minute about what you need and what you want to enhance your daily life. For s...
Posted by on Tue, 15 May 2007 15:30:00 GMT

A response to another one of "A Justin is forever" 's blogs

Hey Justin, I thought about posting about this blog, but thought this one was better as a message. Then decided to go ahead and just post it to you page. I have read several of your blogs and all tha...
Posted by on Sat, 12 May 2007 15:17:00 GMT

A response written to a blog by "A Justin Is Forever"

Hey Justin, Just read this blog, and I almost hate reading them. Not because they are not great. Your blogs are always well written and full of your heart. The reason is more of actually what they sa...
Posted by on Sat, 12 May 2007 13:47:00 GMT

Looks can't get you there.

I came home from bowling tonight, and yes I was drinking.  Shocking right?  I think not.  I found myself talking to Andrew and some of the things I said to him were confusing to even me...
Posted by on Mon, 12 Feb 2007 00:35:00 GMT

To A New Year

I would have to start this blog off by saying that this has been probably the hardest year of my life.  Things have been so stressful and I have been so busy that some days I don't know whats goi...
Posted by on Sun, 24 Dec 2006 19:37:00 GMT

Vote No on Prop 1

I really hope that everyone will go out and vote for this. Discrimination of any form is wrong. To try to create an amendment to the state constitution is an asinine thing to do. Everyone deserves ri...
Posted by on Mon, 06 Nov 2006 06:02:00 GMT

STRIPPED

This is my first try at this blog thing, and I think I may start doing them on occasion. Giving people some insight into my life and who I am, is not something that I have ever been comfortable with. ...
Posted by on Mon, 25 Sep 2006 06:23:00 GMT