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vegan poolboy esq

i went down down down and the flames went higher

About Me

i strive to never be a part of this (on as many levels as there are interpretations)...my apparatus for observing the world is hydrated, limber and focused. processes to get to where i need to be usually make me smile more than the end result. in fact i don't really thing there is an end result only cycles that evolve and experinces that i'm lucky enough to have come full circle. a nicely placed piece of street art can shift my perspective as easily as a headline news event in my backyard. i grin a lot. i grin even more since my heart has been stolen by the most amazing girl i've ever known. i have a never ending drive to wander and explore. playing outside makes me feel alive. learning new things, seeing new places and meeting new people make me breathe deeply and smile at the wonders that have become my life.

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My Interests

spending time with my girl. my own little version of brokeback mountain. waking up next to em. keeping track of em's ever growing attorney bill and figuring out ways she can work it off. defying gravity. making em melt. spontaneous dance parties. kissing em. random encounters that make me tingle. first kisses in fun places (like the roof of shwanky hotels). the muppets. scuba diving. finding new things to wonder about. singing every willie nelson song i can think of. practicing my justin timberlake dance moves on the beach. surfing. riding my bike along the san francisco waterfront. hiking in the rain. funny speedo tans on sexy swimmer bodies. bikram yoga. trancending labels. cooking really yummy vegan food. being outside. making out on the dance floor. feeling like the only two people in the world in the middle of a crowd...or on a deserted beach. reviving my love for feminist theory that got lost in mountains of law books. sunshine. rain. waking up to good sex. getting into a speedo in the morning by 7am (when not waking up to good sex, in which case i will wait til noon ;). finally having enough time to read recreationally. being underwater. dirty summer barefeet. lounging in hammocks while the sun sets. snuggling. other people's pets. art with fire. live music. allegedly surfing off a hangover. mimosas in pint glasses. sex in odd places. knowing that everything happens for a reason. finding the value in lessons learned even unintentionally (especially unintentionally). connecting. reconnecting. understanding. my bed. the view from my roof. sundays in the park. wine. the ny times crossword. just being. just being with her. buying her tulips. loving her with every last inch of me.

I'd like to meet:

i've got the girl whose hand i'll hold forever but i'm still up for meeting... debauchery, debaters, dissenters, dance partners, divers, drinking buddies, dykes with bikes, dudes who can out drink me, die hard johnny cash fans, dart masters, denver bronco's fans, dylan-esque lyricists, delirium, drummers, david bowie...and finally damn near anyone down with dawdling for dreamlike dances with the dawn (or if I must ruin my alliteration, the sunset :)**************"ghostlike we glide through nature, and should not know our place again," -emerson*************

Music:

Music keeps me sane...I need it...my tastes are eclectic and I LOVE IT THAT WAY! Johnny Cash, Indigo Girls, Elvis, Dylan, Ani, Joni Mitchell, Outkast, Salt n' Peppa, Ben Harper, Black Eyed Peas, Erasure, Dolly Parton, Violent Femmes, Bernadette Peters, Willie Nelson, Pink Floyd, Squab, David Bowie, Norah Jones, The Cure, Justin Timberlake, The Beatles, Al Green, Janet Jackson, Lauryn Hill, Jurassic 5, Waylon Jennings, Girlyman, Bonnie Raitt, Judy Garland, Depeche Mode, Neil Young, Paul simon, Liz Phair, The Dolly Ranchers, The Doors, No Doubt, Tori Amos, Led Zeppelin, Merle Haggard, Tracy Chapman, The Police, Suckerbox, Macy Gray, George Michael, Michael Jackson, Dar Williams, June Carter Cash, Tom Petty, Queen, Me'shell Ndegeocello, Prince, Madonna, ABBA...the list goes on and on and on...he's my favorite though...

Movies:

Annie (more for telepathy purposes), Walk the Line, Moulin Rouge, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Rent, Frida, The Wizard of OZ, Muriel's Wedding, The Muppet's Take Manhattan, The Princess Bride, Baraka, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, The Pelican Brief, A Chorus Line, Bound, Chicago, Go, Ma Vie En Rose, My Fair Lady, Grease, The Great Muppet Caper, I am Sam, 200 Cigarettes, Alice in Wonderland, Basic Instinct, The Contender, The Muppet Movie, The Muppet's Treasure Island, The Neverending Story, oh and the penguin movie those little birds in tuxes know how to love...

Television:

The Golden Girls

Books:

everything and anything now that there are no text books and no bar prep books in front of me. the power of now, All about love and the rest of the works of the amazing bell hooks, all of Tom Robbins's maddness, i think saul williams's works are phenomenal, Virginia Wolf, the little prince, the bell jar and other sylvia plath, beloved/ song of solomon, natural captialism, the vegan sourcebook, alice's adventures underground, anything by alix olson, through the looking glass, Hope for the Flowers, good night moon, the electric kool-aide acid test,runaway bunny, The Joy of Lesbian Sex, Nelson Mandella's autobiography, civil disobedeance, howard zinn's amazing works on US history, the wizard of oz books, pippi longstockings, fear and loathing in las vegas, biopiracy- vandana shiva, the 100th monkey, contracts in a nutshell, the alchemist, diet for new america, anything by Dr. Suess (especially the Lorax), love all Maya Angello, e.e. cummings, cunt, the vagina monolouges, the whole lesbian sex book

Heroes:

my brother... one of my favorite people on the planet...and my girl... one of the strongest women i know.

My Blog

for my girl (my somebody) on our day...

real love stories never have endings--r.bach today marks a wonderfully important day in my life's journey...from here on out, i will walk in this world smiling because my hands and my heart ...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Fri, 04 May 2007 11:22:00 PST

the journey continues...

oh oh oh the places you'll go... so here i am in belize, happy, relaxed and as present as a girl can be. thus far this trip has shown me adventure that i didn't know existed, people that have touched ...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Wed, 18 Oct 2006 12:09:00 PST

Costa Rica Part 1, Panama and Costa Rica Part 2...

So here I am, two weeks into my little adventure and I'm having a blast!   I flew into San Jose Costa Rica and made my way straight to the Caribbean Coast. (A wise woman told me not to stay in Sa...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Thu, 21 Sep 2006 04:36:00 PST

to my fellow bar takers....

well here we are...less than 48 hours until we take our assigned seats, next to our designated numbers, little zip-lock bags in our hands filled with the 'permitted items' (remember those items do inc...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Sun, 23 Jul 2006 02:27:00 PST

thanksgiving...

time with family and a whole day of cooking vegan food and sharing vegan food with non-vegan relatives and them liking it and my grandma's way of answering the phone and  my dad eating tofu ...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Mon, 28 Nov 2005 11:25:00 PST

my dad...

...lost all his hair last week because of the chemotherapy he started getting to treat his cancer...in a show of solidarity...some of the guys he teaches with shaved their heads too...i thought these ...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Wed, 26 Oct 2005 10:25:00 PST

it's funny how...

..things seem like they're coming together: i love my job; they've offered me a position next year while in school and after graduation; i'm about to start my last year of law school; i've met the mos...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

my new absolute favorite...

i have no clue why but this song moves me i get goose bumps every time... The weakness in me by Joan Armetrading I'm not the sort of person Who falls In and quickly out of love But to you I g...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

just put your name on this pre nup and we can all hit the disco...

there is nothing that can describe the feeling the day of a huge exam. surreal in many ways...for nine months i've been learning this stuff, sitting in this class for three hours a week for 30 some od...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

i will never...

...understand the way all this maddness works. there is no way to describe the sheer oddness that results from perpetually being amazed by the people that have come into my life and stayed here. i've ...
Posted by vegan cupcake esq on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST