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shameless

I'd have so much less stress if I could give up on ambition

About Me

I like:
-laying on the floor and listening to old records on warm nights...
-my hands covered in top soil...
-long drives on country roads...
-the way it feels driving over the bay bridge and seeing the city lights when I've been gone too long
-drinking coffee in oversized mugs while sitting on overstuffed chairs
-cigarettes
-deep thoughts
-breakfast at inappropriate hours...

My Interests

acoustic anything..
activism.. alcohol.. anti-war.. antiques.. architecture.. art.. beer.. beach bummin.. beat poetry.. bois.. bonfires.. book stores.. building stuff.. butch girls.. carpentry.. chai tea.. coffee.. coffee shops..
comedy.. concerts.. dirty mouths.. diversity.. drawing.. dykes.. environmentalism.. feminism.. femmes.. film.. fixing stuff.. football.. friendship.. gardening.. gender.. gender queers.. good books.. good food.. green architecture.. green party..

green tea.. green vegetables.. interior design.. landscaping.. late nights.. lesbians.. liberals.. logic puzzles.. lyrics..movies.. music.. offroading.. penguins.. philosophy.. photography.. playing guitar.. poetry.. politics..
.. protesting.. public policy.. queers.. records.. road trips.. school.. sex toys.. smiles.. sodoku.. spoken word.. soy.. stencils.. surfing.. sustainability.. talking.. tattoos.. tea.. travel.. urban policy.. women's studies.. writing..

I'd like to meet:

anyone..

Music:

.." Alix Olson.. Amos Lee.. Ani Difranco.. Bad Religion.. Beck... Ben Folds.. Ben Harper.. Beth Hart.. Brett Dennan.. Bush.. Carrie Newcomer.. Cat Power.. Counting Crows.. Damien Marley.. Damien Rice.. Dar Williams.. Dave Matthews Band.. Deb Talan.. Doria Roberts.. Ella Fitzgerald... Etta James... Erin McKeown... Fiona Apple.. Fleetwood Mac.. Girlyman.. Goldfrapp.. Gym Class Heroes.. Hall & Oates.. Heart.. Imogen Heap.. Indigo Girls.. Interpol.. James Taylor... Joan Baez.. John Butler Trio.. JOhm Gorka... John Mellencamp.. Joni Mitchell.. Jon Coltrane... Josh Radin.. Journey.. K's Choice.. Kanye West... Louis Armstrong... Lucinda Williams.. Mason Jennings.. Mazzy Star.. Melissa Etheridge.. Melissa Ferrick.. Me'shell Ndegeocello.. Michael Jackson... Miles Davis... Paolo Nutini... Peaches.. Phil Collins.. Placebo.. Portishead... Prince.. Radiohead.. Rage.. Rufus Wainright.. RX Bandits.. Sage Francis.. Sarah Bettens... Sarah Harmer.. Skunk Anansie.. Susie Suh.. Sublime.. The Be Good Tanyas.. The Format.. The Kooks... The Kinks.. The Weepies.. Tom Petty.. Tori Amos.. Tracy Chapman.. Uh Huh Her and more..

Movies:

Better Than Chocolate.. Born into Brothels.. Boys Dont Cry.. But Im A Cheerleader.. Crash.. The Darjeeling Limited.. Fight Club.. Garden State.. Gia.. Girl Interrupted.. If These Walls Could Talk 2.. Lethal Weapon series... Love Actually.. Maria Full of Grace.. Me You and Everyone We Know.. Reality Bites.. Salud!.. The Family Stone.. The Squid and the Whale... The Bourne series... V for Vendetta.. Water..

Television:

Brothers & Sisters... Colbert Report.. CSI... Daily Show... The L Word... Law & Order: SVU.. Miami Ink... NCIS... Logo.. HGTV.. House.. Weeds.. Workout..

Books:

Stone Butch Blues.. Drag King Dreams.. Me Talk Pretty One Day.. Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim.. Butch is a Noun.. The Perks of Being A Wallflower.. Choke.. Survivor... anything by Leslie Feinberg, David Sedaris, or Chuck Palahniuk.. The Handmaid's Tale.. any sociology, public policy, or political books... poetry by Langston Hughes, Bruce Nugent, Alan Ginsberg... Margaret Atwood...

Heroes:

Leslie Feinberg, Ghandi, Harvey Milk, Suffragettes... My family...
"Anyone can slay a dragon, he told me, but try waking up every morning & loving the world all over again. That's what takes a real hero."

My Blog

On legal gay marriage in CA:

the only ones left still scowling, still bitter and miserable and unhappy about it all, are the ones who never understood much about love and progress in the first place. What a shame...They're gonna ...
Posted by shameless on Fri, 16 May 2008 09:55:00 PST

Lesbian Midterm

So this semester (for those of you who don't already know... or aren't IN the class with me) I am taking a class called Issues in Lesbian Relationships... and yes, I am admitting this in a public foru...
Posted by shameless on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 01:14:00 PST

Cigarettes & Chocolate Milk

It always comes down to this. Me, driving my car through pitch black nothing& knowing the only curves I will travel tonight are the ones laid out before me in white paint on asphalt. Thinking about th...
Posted by shameless on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 12:08:00 PST

what I do when my roommates are gone...

what does every 21 yr old with a house to themselves do on a saturday night... oh yeah.. that's right... bakes cookies...I decided to document the experience because well.. as we all know... I'm not e...
Posted by shameless on Mon, 03 Dec 2007 07:10:00 PST

'mommy loves a free spirit'

so on the web site for the school district my mom works for, they wrote a summary of how accomplished she is: her degrees, work history, awards, etc. my sister decided that it didn't really convey who...
Posted by shameless on Fri, 16 Mar 2007 08:42:00 PST