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Hate It Or Love It

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About Me

This is why im hoT First and formost,if you dont know me,know that I dont give a fuck who you are, or what you think about me. Do not judge me! Thats Gods job.Forgive me, cuz im only human. I make mistakes everyday- get over that shit.Dont respect me just bcuz im a woman, but bcuz i respect you [if you deserve it].Dont step to me like you know me//Cuz [9 times outta 10] you dont.We all know what happens when we assume, so dont make an ass outta urself, dumbass.Come correct at all times and give me nuthin but the truth, even if it hurts.Dont throw my mistakes in my face//Thats between me and God//and you should expect to get cussed out for speakin out yo mouth.Just bcuz you're lookin at me, doesnt mean you really see me.My guard stays up// .: a million dollers wouldnt knock it down :.Im too lazy to be concietd// beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Being yourself really does get you far.I feel that I am really growing as a person, a woman and a soul. Being on my own is teaching more things than I ever thought possible. Being on ur own is not just about staying out late and having guys over all the time, or getting drunk and coming home not remembering wtf happened. Growing up, for me is and has been about opening my eyes and seeing my life for what it really is and not for what it should, could or how I want it to be. I've realized that the bad guys arent always as bad as you think they are and the "good" guys are more than likely to be the heartbreakers. REAL friends come a dime a dozen and when you find one, hold on to em. As for the rest of the people that you think are ur friend, dont call them friend too soon or they'll be stabbing u in yo back wit a sharp azz knife. 4 all my friends I can say this, I really dont know whose my friend, I only know who I am friend to. These are just some things that I've learned and I wanna share wit those who are willing to listen or read!lol Sometimes I just like to sit back and observe people and how they act. I can usually tell the real from the fake and there and a handpicked few that have been deceiving me for a while now.In conclusion, I am pretty happy right now wit my life, I think I've found someone that has really and truly makes me happy.

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One day your going to wake up and realize how much you care about me. But when that day comes,I'll be waking up with the man that already knew.

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Here's to all those girls who used to be his number one.// The ones who waited all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning and be disappointed.// The ones who made it through that bitter break up, dried your own tears, and moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in months later like nothing ever happened.// The ones who listened to him say, I only want to be your friend, one day, and the next, listened to him say how much he loves and misses you.// Here's to the ones that took him back, hoping that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change.// We listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught shit from our parents, and even snuck around to see him for a while.// We went through the great stage with no fights all over again.// We started this out thinking it would be just friends, and ended up falling in love with him again.// We wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell us he loved us too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time.// And when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming.// This is for us.// Here's to the ones who believed what he said, sat around all over again waiting for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days.// Here's for the tears cried and dried all over again.// We wanted so desperately to believe that he was really busy, he couldn't possibly call us at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early.// We trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found the one for us.// We learned to SETTLE for someone who didn't treat us the way we should be treated.// Here's for the ones who did their hair and make up, only to hear him say that he couldn't see us today.// The ones who never believed it when people told us there might be someone else.// We just couldn't believe that he could do this to us again.// This is for those great girls, who loved him more than words can say, and took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldn't bear to look back on their lives one day and wonder "what if".// This is for the ones that held on to something that was never there to begin with.// This is for us girls, who somehow managed to get him to forget about "her", and get him to tell us that he was in love with us again, only to have him tell us three days later that "things were going too fast, he needs time."// Here's to the girls who couldn't cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt.// The ones who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again.// This is for the ones who couldn't bear to even tell their mom what was going on, for fear of an "I told you so."// The ones that could just TELL that they had made a mistake ever allowing him into their hearts, their beds, and their dreams again.// We knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserved a guy who would call when he said he was going to, one that would come see us whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about us.// We just wanted the one that we loved like that.// Here's for the ones that FINALLY realized that he never gave a shit about them.// Here's for the time that he broke your heart again.// This is for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, and the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment.// Here's for us girls who finally realized that we deserve better.// This is for those confusing days, when you miss him, and want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist.// Stay strong, and remember that relationships are like broken glass, sometimes it's better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together and get hurt.// Remember the times you cried, and how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that.// When "your song" comes on the radio, turn the station.// When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made and tries calling, turn your phone off.// When he tries coming to your house, don't answer the door.// Think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation and the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the HELL he was.// Think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night, and how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasn't him, and realized that once again, he hadn't called when he said he was going to.// One day, you'll find a guy who's worth all the tears, but he won't make you cry.// You may think that you'll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to, but you will.// It's gonna hurt like hell, and it's going to need time to heal, but the point is, it will heal.// This is for those girls, who fell back in love with their ex, only to get hurt all over again//

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******Hater's Poem****** As I Lay me down to sleep I ask y them bytches hate on me. Why they smile in my face and hate behind my back. Damn, I swear one of these bytches gon get smacked. I'm on their ...
Posted by Hate It Or Love It on Tue, 28 Aug 2007 09:59:00 PST

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Posted by Hate It Or Love It on Mon, 13 Aug 2007 09:30:00 PST

ill get over it one day.........

Here's to all those girls who used to be his number one.// The ones who waited all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning and be disappointed.// The ones who made it throu...
Posted by Hate It Or Love It on Fri, 02 Mar 2007 06:28:00 PST

How 2 love a black woman

Romantically and Patiently; Take the time to make love to her mind. Fulfill all of her midnight wishes. Cover her entire body with soft wet kisses. Tell her, so that she will know! There`s no place on...
Posted by Hate It Or Love It on Thu, 01 Feb 2007 09:22:00 PST

she is.....

SHES A DRESSER WITH NO DRAWRES, A CAR WITHOUT WHEELS, A TREE WITH NO BRANCHES, A HORN WITH NO SOUND. YOU WANNA BE WITH HER? SHES A PEN WITHOUT INK, A BODY WITH NO BRAIN, A HIGHWAY WITH NO EXITS, A LIG...
Posted by Hate It Or Love It on Mon, 11 Sep 2006 11:00:00 PST

when a girl misses u

When you break a girls heart,she still feels it whenyou run into eachother 3 years laterWhen a girl is quiet,millions of things are running through hermind.When a girl is not arguing,she is thinking d...
Posted by Hate It Or Love It on Mon, 11 Sep 2006 10:58:00 PST

IF A MAN WANTS YOU

IF A MAN WANTS YOU If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.   Allow your intuition (or spi...
Posted by Hate It Or Love It on Tue, 05 Sep 2006 07:49:00 PST