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Hi, My name is Ray. My wife of 17 years passed away recently from NSCLC. We spent the past year in and out 2 cancer centers trying to save her life. It has been the worst year of my life. Seeing her die and being helpless to stop it has profoundly changed me.

So far 2008 has been a fantastic year, with awesome things happening. Starting in April I went to Chicago for about 2 months. Walked the Chicago Magnificant mile, went to the field museum, Shedd Aquarium, the Art museum, Navy Pier, Sears Tower, Chicago Botanical gardens, and so much more. See my slide show.

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I'd like to meet my son or daughter.

The video is of my wife, Lamai. She was born in Thailand and was fluent in 3 languages, Lao, Thai, and English.

My Blog

Humble and Contrite Hearts

Over the weekend I went and visited my oldest sister.  We had a falling out years ago.  She was stubborn and too proud.  A lot has happened.  The last thing I want-to try and repai...
Posted by on Wed, 15 Oct 2008 06:32:00 GMT

The origin of my Online name

My favorite pet's name is/was Stubby.  Stubby was my cat and he was very intelligent.  He had personality, was stubborn, and opinionated.  Stubby died of cancer a long time ago. When my...
Posted by on Wed, 14 May 2008 21:14:00 GMT

TEN MYTHS ABOUT LUNG CANCER

Myth 1: I am a non-smoker, so I have nothing to worry about right? Truth: Things are worse is if you are a non-smoker.  For smokers the doctor will actually suspect lung cancer at the slightest ...
Posted by on Fri, 14 Dec 2007 19:24:00 GMT

Earth Bound Angeles

Occasionally, we are graced        with the presence of an earth bound angel.They are unable to stay with us long,        but whil...
Posted by on Sat, 08 Dec 2007 14:28:00 GMT

Caregivers Poem

Caregiver's PoemI do not have cancer,  but cancer has me.I am the caregiver. It is who I am.It is a big detour in the road that is my life's journey,  an unexpected role for me.There is no l...
Posted by on Fri, 07 Dec 2007 22:27:00 GMT

Introduction

On September 20, 2007 my beloved wife lost her battle with lung cancer. She died at Cedars-Sinai hospital in Los Angeles after being hospitalized for 10 days. She lived exactly 1 year +2 days after be...
Posted by on Wed, 05 Dec 2007 23:20:00 GMT