Dear Soulmate,I have spent countless hours looking for you and have gone on more disappointing dates than I care to remember. I have even spent time with the wrong person, thinking I needed to give it a chance. I guess I have been looking for you all my life, because as I write this, I am still single. Maybe we met once before and you were here to teach me a lesson. Guess what? I have learned a lot about myself during this journey the past 3 years and I am ready to have you in my life.So, I am on this website hoping you find me. I know when we meet it will feel like we have know each other a lifetime, but just to refresh your memory.I am told I resemble "big" from "Sex and the City" but with the sense of humor like Charlie SheenFiled for divorce/moved out in 3/05 Final in 07So if on the outside I look or even act like a "flirt", deep down I would like to meet you to begin our friendship and a real relationship leading to... dare I say "commitment". :)I don't do walks on the beach holding hands (get real, no body does, just sounds good in an ad). Ok, ok, I'm just being silly sweetheart I do like holding hands and the feelings that come with it.I want to be in LOVE. I want to meet the woman who is looking for me and begin a relationship. I want a partner who is beautiful, bright, passionate, successful, accepting, caring, great personality, a giver, supportive, my best friend, an amazing lover and you are great with my boys. I want us to feel the same way about each other no matter where we are at and we love each other unconditionally. I want to feel adored and return that adoration.I had one relationship since my divorce and for the first time, I wanted a committed relationship. I wanted more and she wouldn't give which meant we were not right for each other. I found myself giving (I am mean truly giving); maybe for the first time in my life and I realize I have more for the next special lady in my life. While the relationship was brief, I know now that true love exists and my past opinions and previous bitterness has been replaced with hope & acceptance of the abundance that awaits me. This is why NOW I will only focus on real potential. I am looking for a down to earth gal who values relationships and sharing. I will give all of my heart toyou and I expect nothing less. I don't need a date for the sake of going out anymore.I am looking for quality not quantity (that is not to say I didn't play at first) and I am so over the constant dating scene. That is why I enjoy a good conversation over the phone to make sure I am speaking to the one before we make a date.I have been told that a relationship cannot make you happy; you need to be happy with yourself. That is bunk, I am happier when I am in a relationship. I find I am more motivated, travel/do more things and I want to share the abundance in my heart. Like the movie says "you make me want to be a better man".My profile is accurate and I expect the same of you. If not, please let me know what is off before we begin chatting. Is that fair?Thank you for readingP.S. I know you get plenty of emails, therefore I will not add to your list. That is why I leave it up to you to decide to contact me which lets me know you are real & serious. Also being that I am a Leo, I like getting the attention first and then I give tons back. :)P.P.S. I am hoping you have a silly sense of humor and you get mine, is a plus, and you truly want a day to day relationship (which means you have the time) and we should live w/i 45 minutes of each other!!!P.P.P.S. If your profile is mostly pictures of sunsets, pets, flowers, wearing sunglasses and one out of focus headshot of yourself (with no full length shot), please do not be upset if I don't