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scott

My house has many rooms; I occupy but a few.

About Me

Out at the bar / club you will find me to be a high strung, high energy, semi-flakey kinda guy. However, I am capable of holding an intelligent conversation about almost anything. I went to NIU and received my Bachelors in HR management and I minored in Psychology (neither field do I currently work in). Upon graduation I realized that a Bachelors of Science simply means that you have the ability to problem solve. My present job (that I absolutely love!) requires me to problem solve and I do it well. Lately I have found myself lacking motivation and inspiration (hence why I am not the CEO of a multi-billion dollar company yet). Despite this fact, I have much in my life that I am thankful for: Great friends, supporting family, cute dog, and much luck that has crossed my path. In my case, things ALWAYS seem to work out for me no matter what the situation. I might be condemning myself by saying that, but I dont mind a challenge and I feel that any difficult strife can be seen as a learning experience. I am very resourceful and tend to seize any opportunity I see. I have excellent interpersonal skills that I tend to use more so to reach a goal then for the sake of being popular and well liked. I enjoy reading and discussing anything that is open for interpretation because I find it fascinating how different people can pull different meanings from the same material. I always up for debating and I will always take an opposing point of view no matter how hopeless the argument. I enjoy trying to make people see that there is always more than one side to a situation. I will always listen to another persons side of a story or opinion unless that opinion supports anything that is closed-minded, racist, or intolerant of culture and diversity. I have a HUGE disconnect with people that support those negativities and will more than likely kick them in the shin before having a discussion with them. Other than that, I am not particular about whom I talk to, but I am VERY particular about whom I consider / call a friend.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~I find myself to be a constantly busy guy that hates being alone. I have just recently bought a condo and I have been working on that to a great extent but, as we all know, money makes the world go round and once I get on top of my bills, I will be involved in larger projects with my place. I can be very sarcastic although I tend to tease people that are closest to me moreso than people I don't know, most people would say that I am fun, I am always willing to go out drinking, dancing, and mingling. I hate doing any activity were "waiting" is involved so taking me to an amusment park would only make me super bitchy. I enjoy laughing and smiling and you will almost always see me doing so. I enjoy all the standard gay activities: Dancing, drinking, shopping, movies, fashion, decorating, dining out, music, theatre, being wild and crazy in general. I am an extremely optimistic person, very opinionated and sometimes stubborn, nearly drama free (it can catch up to you from time to time), but MOSTLY I am out to have a good time and enjoy my life!!!
What Your Soul Really Looks Like
You are very passionate and quite temperamental. While you can be moody, you always crave comfort.
You are a very grounded, responsible, and realistic person. People may not want to hear the truth from you, but they're going to get it.
You believe that people see you as larger than life and important. While this is true, they also think you're a bit full of yourself.
Your near future is still unknown, and a little scary. You'll get through wild times - and you'll textually enjoy it.
For you, falling in love is all about the adventure and uncertainty. You can only fall in love with someone who keeps you guessing. Inside the Room of Your Soul
Your Element is Wood
Your power colors: green and brown
Your energy: generative
Your season: spring
Like a tree, you are always growing and changing.
And while your life is dynamic, you are firmly grounded.
You have high morals and great confidence in yourself and others.
You have a wide set of interests, and you make for intersting company. What Element Are You?

My Interests

Movies, music, sports, theatre, shopping, fashion, decorating, parties, dancing, drinking, socializing, love, passion, horror, wide ranges of emotion, science, politics, business, technology, computers, video games, roller blading, reading, driving, landscapes/scenery, vacationing, beaches, bars, clubs, the gay scene, the straight scene, concerts, art institute, field museum, exotic animals / zoo, fish, tropics / carribean. This list can be continued at a later date but I think you get a broad picture :-)

I'd like to meet:

Someone inspiring and motivating. Someone that has accomplished much in a short period of time. If anyone knows me, they know how impatient I am. Hearing that someone accomplished something great in a 20 year span does not inspire me. Entertainers, musicians, politicians, movie stars, nobel peace prize winners would definutly thrill me and motivate me to be a better and/or more successful person. Someone mysterious and mystical like a psychic or someone with ESP would be fascinating.
Your Birthdate: May 11
Your birth on the 11th day of the month makes you something of a dreamer and an idealist.
You work well with people because you know how to use persuasion rather than force.
There is a strong spiritual side to your nature, and you may have intuitive qualities inherent in your make up, too.

You are very aware and sensitive, though often temperamental.
Although you have a good mind and you are very analytical, you may not be comfortable in the business world.
You are definitely creative and this influence tends to make you more of a dreamer than a doer. What Does Your Birth Date Mean?
You Have A Type A- Personality
A- You are one of the most balanced people around Motivated and focused, you are good at getting what you want You rule at success, but success doesn't rule you.When it's playtime, you really know how to kick back Whether it's hanging out with friends or doing something you love! You live life to the fullest - encorporating the best of both worlds Do You Have a Type A Personality? How Sexy are you?

Music:

Supporting my man Dave @ http://www.fusionchicago.com

Books:


TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Scott
Birthday: 05-11-1982
Birthplace: Elmhurst, IL
Current Location: Hoffman Estates, IL
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Brown
Height: 6'1''
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right :-)
Your Heritage: Polish, German, Croatian and a lil bit of everything else
The Shoes You Wore Today: Steve Madden
Your Weakness: Then inability to be alone
Your Fears: Being stuck at a dead end in life
Your Perfect Pizza: Cheese and sausage... sometimes BBQ chicken!
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Changing my routine in a way that will make me happier than I am
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: lol
Thoughts First Waking Up: is it the weekend yet?
Your Best Physical Feature: stomach & maybe face.... a lot of people say the smile :-)
Your Bedtime: Ranges from midnight to about 6 am
Your Most Missed Memory: Childhood an innocense in general
Pepsi or Coke: Pepsi
MacDonalds or Burger King: MacDonalds
Single or Group Dates: Single
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Neither
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: Neither
Do you Smoke: Yes
Do you Swear: Occasionally
Do you Sing: Only in the car with the music blarring over me
Do you Shower Daily: lol YES!
Have you Been in Love: A few times
Do you want to go to College: Already been but I do want to go back for my Master's in Business and eventually my PHD.
Do you want to get Married: Yes
Do you belive in yourself: Yes
Do you get Motion Sickness: Rarley
Do you think you are Attractive: I'm not attracted TO myself, but I think I am attractive yes.
Are you a Health Freak: NOT AT ALL
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes
Do you like Thunderstorms: LOVE them
Do you play an Instrument: I can bang spoons together pretty well!
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Usually the weekends are a big blur
In the past month have you Smoked: Yes.... too much
In the past month have you been on Drugs: No
In the past month have you gone on a Date: I have a b/f so I guess I technically do all the time
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Hello, In case you haven't caught on... I'm gay so of course!!!
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: No
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: NO
In the past month have you been on Stage: LOL! ALWAYS with my shirt off dancing :-)
In the past month have you been Dumped: No, although I would prefer to be the dumpee rather than the dumper, then I dont feel as bad!
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Had my swimming suit taken off, does that count?
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: No, but I wanted to when I went shopping for my Hallowean costume. I just did NOT want to stand in line.
Ever been Drunk: Yes, but not usually to the point where I can't walk. I learned my limits quickly
Ever been called a Tease: No because I usually follow through ;-)
Ever been Beaten up: Never been in a fight
Ever Shoplifted: Yes, but only for the thrill of it all
How do you want to Die: eatten by a shark.... j/k in my sleep.... how else?
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: I don't want to grow up!!!!
What country would you most like to Visit: Australia (the wildlife would be an awesome sight)
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Blue / Hazel but they have to be noticeable and "deep"
Favourite Hair Color: blonde or brown
Short or Long Hair: SHORT
Height: Shorter than me
Weight:
Number of things in my Past I Regret: I don't regret anything because I learn from past experiences.
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I don't hate, why should you?

My Blog

NYC & New Job

Wow.  This past week has been an incredibly busy and full of new happenings.  On Thursday I found out that I did get hired for the new job I applied for.  I will be a "help desk consult...
Posted by scott on Tue, 06 Feb 2007 09:55:00 PST

New Years... New beginnings or depressing situations

So... now that the drunken haze that had been brought about NYE has lifted, I am only left with reality.  Reality that it is a new year and that major tightening of my budget belt will be requir...
Posted by scott on Tue, 02 Jan 2007 10:13:00 PST

Like Woah!

Lol, I am at work now and this place is sooo dramatic.  First we can leave an hour early with pay, then we can leave an hour early and not get paid, then we can leave early with pay.  In bet...
Posted by scott on Fri, 22 Dec 2006 01:36:00 PST

Weekend

Yawn!  What a tiring weekend.  Friday I did not go out at all.  Darek and I got into a lil disagreement and I decided to stay in.  No worries tho, although he is still a little up...
Posted by scott on Mon, 06 Nov 2006 09:07:00 PST

I love the fall

Although it is not TECHNICALLY fall out.... I love Fall weather.  Everything earthy toned, not hot out, not too cold.  Perfect convertible weather, perfect walking around / rollerblading wea...
Posted by scott on Tue, 03 Oct 2006 12:47:00 PST

A different kind of weekend

This past weekend was alright.  A little boring.  Thursday my parents came over and we had dinner (which Darek missed cause he was sick).  The tv that had not been working for a day dec...
Posted by scott on Mon, 18 Sep 2006 08:19:00 PST

Is it Friday yet?

So this weekend was interesting.... What I did wasn't so interesting as the people I was with and the occurances that happened on both Friday and Satruday.  Friday = hunters Sat= Circuit, Roscoes...
Posted by scott on Tue, 12 Sep 2006 10:03:00 PST

End of the day thought

In the past I have thought about all the people I have lost touch with.  It is something that runs through my mind every so often.  What I wonder though is if it is something that is inevita...
Posted by scott on Wed, 30 Aug 2006 03:18:00 PST

Weekend Re-cap... almost Labor day!!

So this weekend was pretty good.  On friday I went to Lisa's and drank with her and Craig for a bit before picking up lil David and heading to Hunters.  It was a pretty dull night there alth...
Posted by scott on Mon, 28 Aug 2006 09:46:00 PST

UNBELIEVABLE!

So... yet AGAIN... Darek's brother has stolen from him.  He took his atm card and filled up with $50 of gas.  Darek's account went under so now he gets hit with an overage charge of $40.&nbs...
Posted by scott on Tue, 22 Aug 2006 12:38:00 PST