My name is Linda, I was happilly married for 14 years and become a widow in April 2008. You never know how much you will miss someone until you don't have them with you to laugh with or do things with,even the bad times you wish you could have back. Know one knows how it is until you walk in those shoes. Between my husband and I we have 7 kids and tons of grandkids. One of which lives with me. I am a person who will not take life for granted, because it can change for you very qickly, like it is said we are not promised tommorrow, so make the best of the day you have and live it as it could be your last.