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About Me

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I'm a terribly flawed, brutally optimistic realist, in love with life. I love my friends and family with a depth which can not be expressed in words. I am the mother of the most amazing, intelligent, resilient, beautiful boy on the planet. (No, I'm not biased at all!)I am also very fortunate to have found the love of my life in Randy. He is my friend, my companion, and we make a great team. He is smart, funny, compassionate, loving and great with my son. He has brought me comfort, security, passion and tremendous love. I'm so glad that I was finally able to find my soul mate.I believe so completely in the power of gratitude. It is an amazing force and it keeps the world in perspective. It also enables us to be positive and humble at the same time. I am small, existentially speaking, but I can do great things. I am aware of and comfortable with my limitations and unwilling to be harnessed by them. You are what you make of the challenges in life. Without pain, there is no beauty...

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I am always looking to be around positive people. Not the ones who always see the negative side of things. I like smart people... people with depth... with a soul.... and people who don't take things too seriously - I'm fortunate to know, love and be loved by many of these people.

My Blog

2008 in Review

This has been a year of more good than bad, I'm happy to say.  I got married, lost a gazillion pounds, started taking better care of my body and found a new job.  I spent some wonderful qual...
Posted by on Sun, 04 Jan 2009 10:23:00 GMT

Thankful - 2 days before thanksgiving

This year has been a challenge, but certainly there was more good than bad.  Our economy is in shambles and we are, regretfully, still at war on two fronts.  I will forever miss our dear pet...
Posted by on Tue, 25 Nov 2008 15:47:00 GMT

A vote for change

Let me start off by saying, I'm a Democrat.  I was one in the womb and continue to be one to this day.  I'm not a super liberal person, I am most definitely a moderate.  I am not a pers...
Posted by on Wed, 05 Nov 2008 06:31:00 GMT

Two years ago today

Two years ago today I lost my father.  We had a complicated relationship and for long periods of time, I really felt I didn't like him.  I think so much of what happened between us was color...
Posted by on Tue, 19 Aug 2008 09:57:00 GMT

Things I’ve learned... and things I’m still learning...

Things I've learned: Fear is a motivator and a paralyzer, you get to pick which. Learning is an endless process and knowledge is a key to open doors. If you have to show the world you're a badass, you...
Posted by on Wed, 16 Jul 2008 18:07:00 GMT

Perry cat....

My sweet wonderful cat, Perry, passed away tonight.  He was as smart and loving a cat as you could ever ask for and I was lucky to have him for so many years.  He passed away of no...
Posted by on Mon, 07 Jul 2008 17:00:00 GMT

mental meandering

I think what scares me most about getting older is a diminshed sense of relavence.  Maybe that's what school is about more than getting my degree.  I love education and the process of learni...
Posted by on Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:57:00 GMT

So... we got married...

Yay for us... we got married! And to everyone who didn't get invited, don't worry& you will be. We had a small ceremony to make it official, but we are still planning our "big" wedding for next year. ...
Posted by on Tue, 24 Jun 2008 19:04:00 GMT

Gonna be quiet here for a while....

Well, he did it.  Randy signed the contracts last night to take over the new business.  That coupled with school starting in less than a week and the final preparations for our wedding, lead...
Posted by on Tue, 03 Jun 2008 05:08:00 GMT

Is it any wonder I can’t sleep?

We're getting married in just over 3 weeks!  Ack!  I JUST got my dress and shoes too... why are weddings so difficult to do? I have surgery scheduled for just a few weeks after the wedding&n...
Posted by on Wed, 28 May 2008 05:00:00 GMT