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I believe that humor is the most important factor of the human comdition. I think that everything should be smart and beautiful and holistically designed,experimental and ecological, but also that every aspect of our lives should be injected with the spirit of humor, because it lightens up this overly serious thing we call life. I say this now because I think its important in the context of friendship. It can create an instant bond with the person next to you in the elevator. But you will need a good dose of it to get through life- in relationships of love and with family especially. Having a network of good friends is critical. It helps you stay a well rounded person,and it can also take the pressure off your mate. You can't always be everything to your partner, and you should remember that he or she can not be everything to you either. We tend to think of happiness as a state that lasts forever but, like other emotions,it has its peaks and its valleys. In western society, we rely very heavily on a partner for love, intimacy, and support, sometimes to the point of codependence. Ideally, we should be able to stand alone and complement-not complete- each other. Just as we have said that we should set realistic expectations for ourselves, we should do the same for others. If you expect too much from people, you will not only be disappointed, you will also be at fault. Your social life is important and it to can be redesigned to get the most out of it.
