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About Me


Hmmm…Do people really read this? I usually don’t. But writing about yourself is good for the soul. ;-)
What can I say about myself except that I really don’t like talking about myself but I think that’s typical; I tend to defer the attention on myself by asking others lots of questions which in turn has made me a great listener and observer. I’m a very empathetic person so when I first meet someone I like to take them in which helps me connect with them quickly and determine if they are someone I want in my life; and so far I’ve been fortunate because I have not had to exclude anyone for a long time. I attract good people into my life; just as it should be.
I think of myself as a personality paradox or maybe I’m just well rounded in nature – I can be outgoing and quiet; assertive and coy; adventurous and anxious; nice and well…not so nice; it all depends on what’s going on and how I’m feeling. I like spontaneity, experiencing new things, and being around energetic and enthusiastic people. However I also enjoy spending time by myself so I can rejuvenate and I like surrounding myself in a calm and quiet environment. I also enjoy spending time with others who are easy-going and appreciate being together in tranquility. Not every minute has to be filled with words…enjoy the silence and what it can bring. Silence makes some people nervous and I never understood why.
Are you still reading? What else? I love to be around positive people who are encouraging, hopeful, ambitious and loving. It is true that who you surround yourself with says a lot about you as a person. If you want to get along with me right from the start just make me laugh. If you don’t have a good sense of humor we will not get along. Laughter has been the one constant in my life and is something I could never live without. It’s good in good times and great in bad times. Being able to laugh when everything around you is falling apart is an amazing gift; it gives you hope, perspective, warmth, serenity and intimacy with those who will laugh with you. (Thank you for teaching me this Momma.)
I’m an awesome friend. I am supportive, loyal, and will have your back no matter what even when you’re wrong – although I will tell you that you’re wrong and why but I will still stand by you. =-) If you need to talk at 3a.m.; need to be bailed out; need a ride home from the bar, I’m the friend you can count on to be there but you better be ready to reciprocate…ha ha. My friends are wonderful and I am grateful for them. I am a hard person to get to know and get to stay still so their PERSISTENCE and PATIENCE has been a lifesaver and much appreciated. From effects of the past, I still have a tendency to be private so it takes me awhile to open up to people but I’m fully aware of this so I try to communicate better and be more proactive in expressing my feelings but it’s still hard. Bottom line is that if I feel safe with you, things will go a lot faster.
I prefer a small group of friends over a larger group. In small groups it’s easier to delve into real, meaningful conversations as opposed to the polite conversation you have when in larger groups – you can only talk about the weather, the food, the décor. etc so much so until you think about asking an inappropriate question just to see the reaction on their faces because if you have to hear any mundane bit of information repeated for the two-hundredth time you’re gonna go jump off the ledge; not that you’d care with all the alcohol you had to drink just to make it this far into the night. Ya know? =-0
In my work and some parts of my life, I can be a perfectionist. When something doesn’t go exactly like I planned, I take it personally but my bounce back time is really good. I just get up and try again until I’m satisfied. I’m determined to not be a part of the working status quo which is why I’m not only building one business but several businesses. Just because everyone else is doing something because that’s the way it’s been done for ages is not an acceptable way of thinking for me. It’s insufferable. Get crazy…mix it up…do something different…think different…be different. It’s OKAY!!
Oh my god! Look at how much I’ve written. I can’t believe you’re still reading this. Good for you! This will be fun…some things I don’t like. I stay away from people who don’t keep their word, are apathetic, and people who are pessimistic and need constant reassurance which is a sign of low self-confidence. Keep a positive mindset people and know that you are unbelievable and magnificent and if you don’t know then don’t waste any more time…start believing that right now! I’m also not a fan of anyone who lacks common sense, is closed-minded and is satisfied with remaining in a state of ignorance and stupidity. If you want to have a thoughtful interchange of ideas with me at least show me you have common sense…otherwise move on. Now I’m not a mean person but I have not developed the capacity of character to be able to tolerate people of this nature…maybe one day I will but for now…no thank you. And lastly I cannot stand anyone who is abusive and mean to children or animals; those people sure will not be going anywhere good in the afterlife.
Overall, I’m a very generous, compassionate person with a big heart. I like to keep things simple because in simplicity I find balance. I love to be hugged and give hugs because human contact is important. I could use one right now. =-) I also do my best to make time for people no matter what is going on - I understand people get busy but if you have people in your life you care about then don't make excuses; make time for them. Everyone is human and time passes SO FAST that sometimes you forget so I apologize if you haven't heard from me in awhile but reminders help so feel free to contact me to say "hey...how are you...are you still alive" because I do care and I always love hearing from people. I make an effort to pass on good wherever and whenever I can because it is so important to do so. I try to do something for someone else everyday whether it be put an extra coin in a meter or offer someone a ride. I do believe whatever you put out into the universe will return to you so I choose to put out good. I hope you choose to do the same. Thanks for reading all this. =-)
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"Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending." I love my family, my friends and myself. I believe the more you help others, the more you help yourself. I am an optimist and believe there are still good people in this chaotic world. I believe in the kindness of strangers, the importance of feeling needed, and showing compassion to others - even if you feel they are not deserving of it. I believe everyone needs someone in their lives who steadfastly believes in them. I believe success is measured by the height of your aspirations, the breadth of your vision and the depth of your convictions. Success lies not in how well-known you are but how well-respected...not in your power to take but your willingness to give. Success is the small voice you hear within when you know you have done your best.

Learn about my passion and what I do: www.TeacherNanny.com If you think you can help me with any aspect of my business, then I will be more than happy to take the time to listen to what you have to say. =-)

I'd like to meet:

I would like to meet anyone who understands the importance of kindness, compassion, honesty, integrity, empathy, patience, optimism and generosity. Someone that I can learn from and laugh with would be great to meet too. ;-) AND someone who would like to join me here and do nothing all day would be perfect:

Music:

I like all kinds of music...A little bit of everything in moderation is good...

Movies:

Always love a good romantic comedy - Love Actually and Serendipity. Office Space is great because it's true. Gone With the Wind is a classic, Scarlett is a woman after my own heart - Don't stop til you get what you want. Super Troopers was HILARIOUS. It will make you laugh out loud and if it doesn't, then there's something wrong with you. =-P There's too many movies to list that I like...Move on.

EMPOWER YOURSELF AND WATCH THIS MOVIE.

Television:

I don't have a lot of time for TV but when I do, I stay away from the news because it's ALWAYS bad news which is depressing. Alas, two shows have sucked me in: DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES and LOST. When they're on, don't bother me.

Books:

I love to read. Novels are my favorites. There is nothing else like being able to immerse yourself into another reality not defined by your perception and learn something new or take away something useful you can apply to your everyday life. Reading is fun!! It also increases vocab, improves spelling and communication.
"...finding out who I really am-the meaning of my total existence involves knowing the possibilities of my future as well as my past, where I'm going as well as where I've been. Although we know the end of the maze holds death, I see how that the path I choose through that maze makes me what I am. I am not only a thing, but also a way of being -one of many ways - and knowing the paths I have followed and the ones left to take will help me understand what I am becoming." ~ D. Keyes - Flowers for Algernon
"Anyone who has common sense will remember that the bewilderments of the eyes are of two kinds, and arise from two causes, either from coming out of the light or from going into the light, which is true of the mind's eye, quite as much as of the bodily eye; and he who remembers this when he sees anyone whose vision is perplexed and weak, will not be too ready to laugh; he will first ask whether that soul of man has come out of the brighter life, and is unable to see because unaccustomed to the dark, or having turned from darkness to the day is dazzled by excess of light. And he will count the one happy in his condition and state of being, and he will pity the other; or, if he have a mind to laugh at the soul which comes from below into the light, there will be more reason in this than in the laugh which greets him who returns from above out of the light into the den." ~Plato - The Republic
"Anyone can become angry - that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way - this is not easy." ~Aristotle
"But your solitude will be a support and a home for you, even in the midst of very unfamiliar circumstances, and from it you will find all your paths."~ R. Rilke
"Within you there is a stillness and a sanctuary to which you can retreat any time and be yourself." ~H. Hesse
"The pendulum of the mind oscillates between sense and nonsense, not between right and wrong." ~C. Jung
"All the woulda-coulda-shouldas, layin' in the sun, Talkin' 'bout the things, they woulda-coulda-shoulda done...But those Woulda-Coulda-Shouldas, all ran and hid, from one little did." ~S. Silverstein

Heroes:

Anyone who has ever stood up for themselves or someone else is a hero. Do not ever be afraid to stand up or speak up for what is right. People can be wrong and when they are, they need to be corrected. So what if they don't listen; so what if they don't care; take a stand anyway. It matters. When we have the courage to speak out – to break our silence – we inspire the rest of the "moderates" in our communities to speak up and voice their views.

My Blog

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Calming

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Be Happy Every Single Day

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