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Toi

Not ONE Step Backwards... Not Even To Gain Momentum

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I'm not young not old, not tall not short,
not fat not skinny,not stupid not brilliant,
not ugly not beautiful...
I am just a girl...
I'm 42, never married, and no kids. I have a dog named Cool "Beans" (because he IS cool beans... you'll SEE if you meet him) and a cat named 'Spensive because I actually bought a cat which I know just is NOT right.I know cats show up and you feed them and they stay. In any case, those are my room mates.
I'm Italian Greek Russian Jewish and Catholic so I have a temper then I feel guilty and then I will cook for you... I talk too much, think too much, love too much, fight too much and those are my worst best qualities...
I believe in the end
the only regret we will have is wasted time.
Peace.. .. .... .... Hello Spacers! PLEASE honor me with an email INSTEAD of just sending me a FRIEND REQUEST!
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Not Sure Who I'll Meet On Here...
It's A Big World...Don't admire my INTELLIGENCE
and then CONDEMN me that I THINK TOO MUCH...
If you RUN... keep RUNNINGThis Weeks Quote
01/09/08
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""You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her." "
anon.

"I think dogs are the most amazing creatures; they give unconditional love. For me they are the role model for being alive.."
Gilda Radner

12/6/07
"An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind."
Buddha

10/14/07
"The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. "
Barbara Hall

07/12/07
"Real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that nobody's going to know whether you did it or not."
Oprah Winfrey

03/04/2007
"It's true, you are a good woman. Then again, you may be the antichrist."
Val Kilmer as Doc Holiday in Tombstone

02/21/2007
"Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love. How on earth can you explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love? Put your hand on a stove for a minute and it seems like an hour. Sit with that special girl for an hour and it seems like a minute. That's relativity."
Einstein

02/21/2007
"If you would not be forgotten as soon as you are dead and rotten, either write something worth reading or do things worth the writing"
Ben Franklin
"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names".....JFK
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Ways in which I aspire to be like Beans...
He is not afraid ...He always makes everyone feel special ...He will play regardless of the hour...He never holds a grudge...He learns the lesson and then moves on...He does not judge...He is not a fool... he knows BIG dogs can be nice and LITTLE dogs can be MEAN...If you made friends with him, he remembers...really...He loves the same no matter what you do...He sleeps good...He Walks PROUD...He knows hes smart...He obeys BECAUSE he chooses because NO one is the boss of him... He HONORS me with his TRUST... When he is bad, he is HUMBLE...
He has NO regrets. EVER
Peace

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EVERYTHING (Alanis Morrisette)
I can be an asshole of the grandest kind.
I can withold like it's going out of style
I can be the moodiest baby, And you've never met anyone
As negative as I am sometimes.
I am the wisest woman you've ever met.
I'm the kindest soul with whom you've connected
I have the bravest heart that you've ever seen
And you've never met anyone As positive as I am sometimes.
You see everything. You see every part. You see all my light, And you love my dark...You dig everything, Of which I'm ashamed. There's not anything to which you can't relate... And you're still here.
I blame everyone else, not my own partaking.
My passive agressiveness can be devestating
I'm terrified and mistrusting, And you've never met anyone
who's closed down as I am sometimes
You see everything. You see every part. You see all my light, And you love my dark...You dig everything, Of which I'm ashamed. There's not anything to which you can't relate... And you're still here.
What I resist, persists, and speaks louder than I know...
What I resist, you love, no matter how low or high I go...
I am the funniest woman that you've ever known. I am the dullest woman that you've ever known. I am the most gorgeous woman that you've ever known, And you've never met anyone as everything as I am sometimes...
You see everything. You see every part. You see all my light, And you love my dark...You dig everything, Of which I'm ashamed. There's not anything to which you can't relate...
And you're still here... And you're still here... And you're still here...

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Heroes:

All Heros' Are ANONYMOUS!Except THESE: MY Mom for her unending devotion to her kids...My sister for her determination to achieve, overcome and evolve, My Brother for being the most loyal friend I've ever had and sometimes more than I deserved...My Dad because he didn't have to, but he did anyway...ALL my family who stood by me in my darkest days, and all of my friends and family who face down your demons and your fears and continue to amaze and inspire me!
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My Blog

For my FAMILY

If you read my previous blog and feel like there is something wrong with our relationships because I did not tell you about the BOOB thing, I want you to know this. There are no people on the PLANET I...
Posted by Toi on Sun, 08 Jun 2008 06:18:00 PST

ok- Cancer makes you blog....

Ok Spacers... as busy as I am, this was all too profound to not blog about it... "What CANCER SHOWED ME (even though i dont have it...) First some background. Had a "lump"... had it checked... no worr...
Posted by Toi on Sat, 07 Jun 2008 08:32:00 PST

SNAPPED like a TWIG....

Ok SPACERS I gotta tell ya, after my FABULOUS night out on Saturday, I thought life was treating me soooo good! Then...  I totally ate SHIT in my living room on Sunday and SNAPPED my ankle bone. ...
Posted by Toi on Wed, 13 Feb 2008 08:18:00 PST

NEVER too old to wear a corset...

I had the BEST TIME! If you know me you know that while I TRY to seem as if I believe I am a confident sexy woman, there is a screaming voice in my head saying "WHO THE HELL ARE YOU FOOLING!!!" But TO...
Posted by Toi on Sun, 10 Feb 2008 04:12:00 PST

Stretching my legs.....

Well 10 days straight working with a turn at the ugly flu cold thingy that went around twice and I am EXHAUSTED! Since I have had a chance to think a little this morning I realized something...
Posted by Toi on Fri, 08 Feb 2008 01:07:00 PST

What are they REALLY trying to say....

I have had a few new "friends" on MYSPACE say that I they are not "interested" in knowing me better because I "come on too strong". Now let me start off with this: I am in no way DENYING THAT! I have ...
Posted by Toi on Tue, 05 Feb 2008 03:43:00 PST

20 things to do in your spare time

Well I just finished working 12 days in a row... 12 days of which most of them were 10 - 12 hours long....so how did I spend my day off??? I slept til 10 ( I was hoping for noon) I got up I cried...
Posted by Toi on Wed, 10 Oct 2007 09:30:00 PST

The bond of Mother's Day 07

Tomorrow is Mother's Day. Tomorrow is May 13th. May 13th is my 42nd Birthday. So this is for my mom.For never being a quitter no matter how hard it was, how tired you got or scared you were ( I learne...
Posted by Toi on Sun, 13 May 2007 07:28:00 PST

Road TRIP

This song ROCKED me into work...    "Everything but the kitchen sink. It's all about that new infatuation, love, romance, the daring of exposure. Trying every new thing. Everything but the ...
Posted by Toi on Tue, 13 Mar 2007 12:01:00 PST

I crack me up...

Oh if you get an email from a Nigerian scammer (please see previous blog) Feel free to use this response! I imagine their thrill at seeing a response from a potential target and then they open it and ...
Posted by Toi on Tue, 06 Mar 2007 03:57:00 PST