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IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW GOOD LOOKING YOU ARE, NOR HOW ATHLETIC AND STRONG OR EVEN HOW INTELLIGENT YOU MAY BE... EVEN WITH ALL OF THOSE ATTRIBUTES YOU HAVE NOTHING WITHOUT MOTIVATION!I AM EXTREMELY INDEPENDANT, PERHAPS EVEN TO A FAULT. I BELIEVE THAT YOU'VE GOT ONLY YOURSELF TO DEPEND ON, BECAUSE WHEN THE CHIPS ARE DOWN AND THERE IS NO ONE THERE, BECAUSE EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE DISAPPEARS FOR WHATEVER REASONS, AND WHEN YOU FIND THAT THERE IS NO ONE TO LEAN ON, YOU WILL HAVE TO RELY ON YOURSELF! I REALIZE THAT IF YOU PUT ALL OF YOUR STAKE IN OTHERS, YOU MAY BE DISAPPOINTED, EVEN DEVASTATED AS OTHERS WILL NOT ALWAYS HAVE YOUR INTERESTS AT HEART, BUT THEIR OWN. I AM NOT ENTIRELY CYNICAL THOUGH.. I HAVE A GREAT DEAL OF COMPASSION AND CARE ABOUT OTHERS HAPPINESS...ESPECIALLY THOSE THAT I LOVE!

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SOMEONE WHO CAN OR WANTS TO CHANGE THE WORLD! SOMEONE WHO COULD MAKE A POSITIVE DIFFERENCE IN MY LIFE!
SOON TO BE GONEBy A MILITARY DOCTORThis should be required reading in every school and college in our country. This Captain, an Army doctor, deserves a medal himself for putting this together. If you choose not to pass it on, fine, but I think you will want to, after you read it.I am a doctor specializing in the Emergency Departments of the only two military Level One-Trauma Centers, both in San Antonio , TX and they care for civilian Emergencies as well as military personnel. San Antonio has the largest military retiree population in the world living here. As a military doctor, I work long hours and the pay is less than glamorous. One tends to become jaded by the long hours, lack of sleep, food, family contact and the endless parade of human suffering passing before you. The arrival of another ambulance does not mean more pay, only more work.Most often, it is a victim from a motor vehicle crash.Often it is a person of dubious character who has been shot or stabbed. With our large military retiree population, it is often a nursing home patient. Even with my enlisted service and minimal combat experience in Panama , I have caught myself groaning when the ambulance brought in yet another sick, elderly person from one of the local retirement centers that cater to military retirees. I had not stopped to think of what citizens of this age group represented.I saw 'Saving Private Ryan.' I was touched deeply. Not so much by the carnage, but by the sacrifices of so many. I was touched most by the scene of the elderly survivor at the graveside, asking his wife if he'd been a good man. I realized that I had seen these same men and women coming through my Emergency Dept. and had not realized what magnificent sacrifices they had made. The things they did for me and everyone else that has lived on this planet since the end of that conflict are priceless.Situation permitting, I now try to ask my patients about their experiences. They would never bring up the subject without the inquiry. I have been privileged to an amazing array of experiences, recounted in the brief minutes allowed in an Emergency Dept. encounter. These experiences have revealed the incredible individuals I have had the honor of serving in a medical capacity, many on their last admission to the hospital.There was a frail, elderly woman who reassured my young enlisted medic, trying to start an IV line in her arm. She remained calm and poised, despite her illness and the multiple needle-sticks into her fragile veins. She was what we call a 'hard stick.' As the medic made another attempt, I noticed a number tattooed across her forearm. I touched it with one finger and looked into her eyes. She simply said, ' Auschwitz .' Many of later generations would have loudly and openly berated the young medic in his many attempts. How different was the response from this person who'd seen unspeakable suffering.Also, there was this long retired Colonel, who as a young officer had parachuted from his burning plane over a Pacific Island held by the Japanese. Now an octogenarian, he had a minor cut on his head from a fall at his home where he lived alone. His CT scan and suturing had been delayed until after midnight by the usual parade of high priority ambulance patients. Still spry for his age, he asked to use the phone to call a taxi, to take him home, then he realized his ambulance had brought him without his wallet. He asked if he could use the phone to make a long distance call to his daughter who lived 7 miles away. With great pride we told him that he could not, as he'd done enough for his country and the least we could do was get him a taxi home, even if we had to pay for it ourselves. My only regret was that my shift wouldn't end for several hours, and I couldn't drive him myself.I was there the night M/Sgt. Roy Benavidez came through the Emergency Dept. for the last time. He was very sick. I was not the doctor taking care of him, but I walked to his bedside and took his hand. I said nothing. He was so sick, he didn't know I was there. I'd read his Congressional Medal of Honor citation and wanted to shake his hand. He died a few days later.The gentleman who served with Merrill's Marauders, the survivor of the Bataan Death March, the survivor of Omaha Beach , the 101 year old World War I veteran. The former POW held in frozen North Korea , The former Special Forces medic - now with non-operable liver cancer, the former Viet Nam Corps Commander. I remember these citizens.I may still groan when yet another ambulance comes in, but now I am much more aware of what an honor it is to serve these particular men and women.I have seen a Congress who would turn their back on these individuals who've sacrificed so much to protect our liberty. I see later generations that seem to be totally engrossed in abusing these same liberties, won with such sacrifice.It has become my personal endeavor to make the nurses and young enlisted medics aware of these amazing individuals when I encounter them in our Emergency Dept. Their response to these particular citizens has made me think that perhaps all is not lost in the next generation.My experiences have solidified my belief that we are losing an incredible generation, and this nation knows not what it is losing. Our uncaring government and ungrateful civilian populace should all take note. We should all remember that we must 'Earn this.'Written By CPT.Stephen R. Ellison, M.D. US ArmyIf it weren't for the United States military, there'd be NO United States of AmericaWITH ALL MY HEART - THANK YOU ALL!

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CHEERS APP

MMM, HUHHHH - OK, TO ALL OF THOSE SENDING ME DRINKS FROM CHEERS, I AM OFFICIALLY HAMMERED WHILE AT WORK!  THANK YOU ALL!  FRIDAY IS ALMOST HERE!!!  LOVE YA, LORRIE - AMY - DIANE!
Posted by on Thu, 26 Feb 2009 09:18:00 GMT

SKYLER STEVENS (PATTI)

MY FRIEND IS VERY SICK AND IN THE HOSPITAL...  I WISH I COULD TALK TO HER BUT THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE RIGHT NOW... I CAN ONLY HOPE AND PRAY THAT SHE WILL GET BETTER.  SHE IS SO YOUNG AND HAS SO MANY PEOPLE...
Posted by on Tue, 24 Feb 2009 13:39:00 GMT

CHILDREN

OMG, WHY DO SOME THINGS CHANGE SO MUCH?  YET OTHER THINGS NEVER DO?  WHY DO OUR KIDZ GROW UP SO FAST AND MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS?  WHY DON'T THEY LISTEN TO THEIR PARENTS, OR WHY DO THE...
Posted by on Wed, 17 Sep 2008 16:22:00 GMT

HMMMMM..... WHATS UP IN THIS CRAZY WORLD???

I JUST CAN'T FIGURE THINGS OUT SOMETIMES...  DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY DO???  WHATS UP ANWAYS?
Posted by on Mon, 23 Jun 2008 17:14:00 GMT

LIFE

LIFE CAN SURE THROW US SOME "CRAZY CURVE BALLS" SOMETIMES!  GET USED TO IT!!!
Posted by on Wed, 31 Oct 2007 09:37:00 GMT

YO - THE BOSS!!!!!!!!!!!!! GONNA SEE HIM TONIGHT! OAKLAND, CALI - HERE I COME!!!

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Posted by on Thu, 25 Oct 2007 14:44:00 GMT

BOSS PICTURE, IF I DO SAY SO MYSELF!

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Posted by on Fri, 12 Oct 2007 11:33:00 GMT

JASONS NEW ENDEAVOR - NEED YOUR HELP!!! PLEASE!!!

Hi Ya All, Jason (my son) has submitted a video to be the next food network star.  It's a show on t.v. for those of you who don't know that.  I need your help in getting him selected to go o...
Posted by on Thu, 09 Aug 2007 15:06:00 GMT

JASON'S VIDEO SUBMISSION TO FOOD NETWORK

http://myspacetv.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&am p;videoid=12696371
Posted by on Thu, 19 Jul 2007 00:39:00 GMT

NEW MUSIC BY NICKELBACK

From underneath the trees, we watch the skyConfusing stars for satellitesI never dreamed that you'd be mineBut here we are, we're here tonight Singing Amen, I'm aliveSinging Amen, I'm alive [CHORUS]If...
Posted by on Fri, 23 Feb 2007 09:48:00 GMT