As for dream-meetings, how about Nicole Kidman, Heath Ledger, Lucy Lawless, Kevin Bacon, Kyra Sedgewick and Orlando Bloom. When it comes to real life, rather than fantasy, I'm looking for someone who can mesh with me. I've always thought that it matters more what is on the inside rather than the outside. While looks do matter, they are not the “end all†of our existence. A smile isn’t just a facial expression; it comes from within. I’m an optimist at heart and I don’t get easily depressed or moody. I enjoy having a positive outlook and find that good things happen because I make them happen. I’d like to meet someone who can keep up with me. I like activity and spontaneity. Make me smile and we’re off to a good start. Make me laugh and we’re golden. Be intelligent and witty but don’t be nervous. There’s just no reason to be nervous. I’m not judgmental and won’t make assumptions about you based on a first impression. As far as interests, keep an open mind. One of the quickest turnoffs for me is someone who won’t even consider the opportunities in front of them. Listen to new music before you decide that you don’t like it just because of the genre. Try that new restaurant in town before you write it off as too expensive. Personally, I enjoy lots of activities: hiking, movies, music, coffee, theatre, camping, computer games, roleplaying, parties, hanging out, cooking, reading, playing piano, etcetera. I could list topics all day! What I really want is challenging partner. Someone for whom the world is an open market of experiences and tastes waiting to be sampled. Maybe that’s you, maybe it’s not. The only way to really find out is to put yourself out there and see! I’m not necessarily looking for a lover. I’m looking for a connection. If something develops, then I’ll give it a gold star, but I’m looking more for the experience than the end result.
-=-=-=-=-=-=-
Try. You may succeed.