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About Me

Mostly I am a happy person, that glass is half full (or better). It's a sad day when I can't find someone or something to laugh at, including myself. I'm sure there are days when my close friends probably think that I may never stop talking, but often I hear from new people that I'm pretty quiet and "hard to read". I learn much more by watching and listening, that by working my vocal cords. I guess I'm not really one of those people who wears my heart on my sleeve, but certainly there are plenty of times I just can't hide what I'm feeling. My friend The Pineapple found the right word to describe me, I think....OUT-SPOKEN. I think that's fair enough; I'll yell "phuque you" across the bar at you if I think you've got it coming, but I am able to recognize when and where to behave like a "lady". Alot of times it seems people want answers, responses, and reactions immediately, -unless backed into a corner, I prefer to be sure of what it is I'm feeling before I say so. I think if more people spent more time practicing this, there'd be much more harmony. I prefer a local bar to some "club", enjoy nature but am not an "outdoorsy" type person. My best times with friends are spent bbq'ing, sharing good food, and heading out for a sane round of cocktails. I love the coast but really haven't seen as much of it as I'd like. I love to look at snow, but prefer to keep warm in the sun. I love music of all genres and occasionally I'll venture out to catch some good, live, local bands. My family and friends are the most important things in my life and I strive to be someone they can always rely on. Other than an occasional setback, life just keeps getting better and better.

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My Blog

Outkast - Roses

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6X5II0Er3GAuntagged music video~ download this version anywhere Love this chit!
Posted by on Mon, 23 Feb 2009 10:58:00 GMT

Death, support, and compassion

   How do we teach our children to be present, supportive, and ultimately compassionate, at a time when a close friend or family member is in a state of extreme crisis or worst case, facing death?   M...
Posted by on Fri, 16 Jan 2009 13:36:00 GMT

Bah Humbug

    So maybe you read my last blog about not being able to get in the holiday spirit.  I still haven't found it, even though I really don't feel like I'm wallowing in self-pity or ...
Posted by on Mon, 22 Dec 2008 17:15:00 GMT

Celebrating the holidays

   I have to admit that with each passing year, I look forward to the holidays less and less. Christmas in particular. My joy does truly come from giving, and it's not about receiving here. ...
Posted by on Fri, 12 Dec 2008 11:15:00 GMT

Sweet Child of Mine

   Fuck, I'm tired of arguing with you!  While we may reside in a "democratic society", apparently you've failed to understand that does not technically become your reality, until you'r...
Posted by on Fri, 17 Oct 2008 12:23:00 GMT

SOMETHING TO BELIEVE IN

..TR> A Birth Certificate shows that we were bornA Death Certificate shows that we died    Pictures show that we lived!Have a seat . . . Relax . . . And read this slowly.I Belie...
Posted by on Sat, 02 Aug 2008 11:39:00 GMT

unphuquinbelieveable

There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING so invalidating of your feelings as having it suggested that you get your hormone levels checked.    (because you're were foolish enough to take a ...
Posted by on Thu, 05 Jun 2008 00:02:00 GMT

Too much time on my hands

    I'm now willing to acknowledge that there is a much finer line between alone, and lonely.  I think I'm going back to working 7 days a week.  I'm not so good with too much ...
Posted by on Mon, 26 May 2008 17:31:00 GMT

The Brass Ring

  I put my hand on a dream,  and have yet to get a firm grasp. I don't know how to keep hold of it.  It's slipping...or I am.....or both.  I don't know how to right it, or secure i...
Posted by on Wed, 21 May 2008 23:21:00 GMT

Friday night, just got paid

  Have I told you?   Damn I love me some Fridays!  The sun is out, people are happy, life is GOOD.    I decided I deserved at least half a "me day", so I took the day of...
Posted by on Fri, 09 May 2008 16:36:00 GMT