Being the "Other Woman"
Category: Romance and RelationshipsWhat is it about "the other woman" that makes women lose their minds? Do you feel that SHE disrespected you? Do you feel that SHE owes you an explanation? Do you feel that SHE has taken a piece of property that belongs to you? Do you feel that SHE broke up a happy home? When you find out about her do you want to hurt HER?If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you're a goddamn FOOL! Why in the hell does the chick owe you anything? Did SHE make a commintment to you? Did SHE help you produce any of your children? Did SHE misplace your trust and love? Do you have HER name on the marriage license? HELL NO! So why do women go after the females when they find out their men are unfaithful? That woman owes no explanation, no apologizes, no anything! That MAN deserves an ass whoopin though. HE's the one that lied to you. HE's the one that looked you in the eyes and said those 3 words that are so powerful. HE's the one that displaced your trust. You dumb females are so determined to hold on to these no good ass men you lose sight of what's really important, your happiness! If you fight one, take the dude back, you're gonna have to fight for the rest of your life.Personally I feel that these women are so insecure about themselves that they have to do something to make themselves look better. Fighting over a man NEVER made you look good honey. It makes you look stupid, unless you surround yourself with a bunch of ghetto, uneducated hood boogers that love drama. NO MAN OR WOMAN is another person's PROPERTY, contrary to popular belief. Just because you have a BABY from a man doesn't mean that you signed a LEASE with an option to buy! Just because he made you WIFEY, doesn't mean he can't go and make a whole family with someone else. Also, ladies remember the way you got him is the same way you'll lose him. Alot of chicks got their man from stealing a friend's man, messing with him while he was already involved, or some type of sneaky way that they easily forget about. Get a grip and face reality. If he was a liar and cheat with her, he's gonna do the same to you. The honeymoon doesn't last for long.As for these women that think men are your "property", you're a big fat joke! One thing I hate above all is WEAK ASS MEN. Men that let their girls, baby mamas, or wives control their lives. I'm not talking about respecting her wishes like not talking to exes and stuff like that, but I mean totally separating him from the people that love him the most. I hate men that leave their kids, friends, and family alone just to please their women. FOR WHAT?! And what kind of woman would really want their men to jump just because they said so? I don't know about you, but I want a MAN, not a PUPPY! I need a challenge. Why in the hell would I want someone I could run over? Stupid, insecure, lame, overpowering women love weak men to boss around cuz it gives them power. Most of these women had father's that did what ever their mother's said and they just got used to it. Most of us didn't have a daddy so we were raised to be independent, strong, and brave. That DID NOT mean we wanted to be the boss. We have sense enough to let the man handle certain things without letting just one sex control everything.Months ago I thought my world came to an end when a lover walked out and never came back, but looking back at everything I received it as a learning experience. He was sweet, loving, and everything I ever wanted. He was also a liar, cheat, a smooth talker, and a bitch ass nigga that bought another female to my house at 2:30 in the morning! I was the other woman with him and his baby mama, his girl after her, and once with the new one, and guess who the chick came after? LMAO! You don't tell the female to leave the man alone, you tell the MAN to handle the stuff he didn't clean up before he moved on.Build a bridge and get over yourselves. Men are gonna be men and women are gonna be women. If you are lucky enough to get a TRULY faithful man, hold on to him and may GOD bless you two. If you know you got involved with an asshole and you believe you can CHANGE him, good luck to you! LMMFAO!
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