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Cool Myspace Contact TablesWhatz good ppl Food for thought..Have you ever wondered why most relationships go to ish..Well because they lack the 3 fazes...(1st faze) Physical attraction: I know pplz say looks arent everything..I guess an ugly mofo made that up..lol naw but there not everything. They do play a big part of the relationship. That is the 1st thing you see when the intial meeting begins. You also have to want to roll over in the morning and still wanna be next to your bad breath mate. That physical plays a big part in you staying faithful. Do you really want to have a baby with someone you don't think is attractive..lets be real ppl. (2nd faze) The mental connection: Who wants to kick it with a ding-bat. The giggling dumb blonde thing can only last for so long (No disrespect to the blondes on my list..If you were like that..you wouldn't be gettin this) You have to be able to hold a deep convo, or be able to understand a persons wit, and humor. No one wants to see this face lol we need that person that can understand us. After the sweating and leg shaking of good sex...I have to be able to "Mind fuck You" {excuse my french} (3rd faze) Emotional connection: Now I know everyone has been here before. You know when your just getting to know someone and there falling head over hills for you, but the feeling is not fully mutual at that point. there telling you that they love you {strong words) If you can't relate to there feelings,how can you say it back. That leaves the mate in limbo. Hovering in space with these strong emotions that you don't feel. Then there forced to cheat or find love somewhere else. {My quick remedy} Be real with you and yours. Let them know from jump what your looking for. Try not to bring excess baggage into the relationship. When I say baggage..kids are far from my mind,i'm speaking of past relationships. new relationships deserve a fresh start [real talk] More so then anything..make that person your friend before you make them your mate. that way you can weed out the phoneys, and see if those 3fazes are alive within you and yours. How do you think those old folks in the nursing home spend there whole lives together. They grow old and die next to each other. Why you ask?..because that person was there best friend. Once the Physical faded..all they had was there undying love for each other...There best friend...Just food for thought ppl...as always Get Dat Gwop
