About Me
I work my ass off everyday to take care of my children and pay my bills...There is no better feeling than my independence...I spend my spare time on home improvements and detailing my car..."I think I can fix that" is my motto...I'm a clean freak...it's a curse...I mild have ADD, so having a conversation with me can be painful at times...though I have a above average IQ, I find myself saying the stupidest stuff sometimes...I hate cooking...I'd rather scrub the toilets...My IPOD is my favorite possession, 80 gigs 24,000 songs from all genres (schwing!)...Most of my friends list are people I know in person and this is my way of staying in touch...I took a leap and I'm finally happy...I have a nice home, smart, healthy kids and I love my job...I have almost everything I ever wanted...I'm working on the rest and I'm getting closer everyday...I'm Irish (and proud of it)...I am a romantic and passionate and love to love the ones I love...I love my friends, I will do almost anything for them...I appreciate integrity and dignity...I'm told I'm funny and witty...I'm very responsible, even when I'd rather crawl under a rock than face something...I try to always do what I say I'm going to do...I have made a lot of mistakes...But I have learned from them all...I try to never make the same mistake twice...I'm a perfectionist sometimes, but usually laid back and easy going...I run from pressure...I hate to feel obligated...If I feel comfortable and safe with someone I come out of my shell and they get to enjoy the best of me...If not, you will never get in...I love to be treated like a lady and hate to be disrespected...Passionate relationships are made not found...My family means a lot to me...I believe Communication is VERY, VERY important...I believe friendship is the foundation of any relationship...I'd rather stay in than go out and party...don't like to drink, and do it rarely (it's been 3 years since I've even had 1 beer)...I hate the smell of cigarette smoke and don't go near it...I don't do drugs, but I have friends that do and that's ok because it's their lives they are destroying and I tried to help...I am very picky about who I associate with...I like to surround myself with people who have a similar outlook on life...If you have a problem with me, I'd rather have you say it to my face than bitch to others about it...I appreciate beautiful scenery...some of my favorite things are the simplest things like the sun on my face, sitting on my porce watching a thunderstorm, hiking through beautiful scenery, the smell of fabric softener on my favorite blanket...I love to stay fit and know a lot about fitness, healthy lifestyle and cleansing...I'm good with money and have almost zero consumer debt...My Mom, Dad, brother and oldest son Alex (18)are the funniest people I know...My family is a riot so be prepared to laugh if you spend any time with us...I have learned to never say things that I cannot take back...I'm intelligent and get aggravated with ignorant and incompetent people that do nothing to help themselves or spoiled, undisciplined children...I'm rarely lazy...I don't like to sit still...I love to watch movies and dine out...I love to smell good and drown myself in vanilla or sweet pea lotion...I try to take good care of myself...I just paid way to much for micrdermabrasion but I look younger so it's worth it...I love to lift weights...I love Yoga...I love music...and horses too...I feel uncomfortable in pretty clothes like dresses and prefer to be comfy in my Hollister jeans, fur hoodie and shepskin lined UGG boots...I hate being cold, and can't stand winter, but I love the fall...I see the good in people, and try to let it outweigh the bad...I can be too honest sometimes...but I'd rather be too honest than lie...I am forgiving...sometimes too forgiving...My children are my world...but they annoy the hell out of me...When I'm annoyed you'll know it...Don't poke the bear...I like original, creative and artistic people...I am an introvert sometimes...I love to fix things up and build things...I HATE to pay for anything I can figure out how to do myself (i.e. home repairs)...I'm proud of the improvements I have done on my home by myself...I built a room in my garage and I love to walk in it and stare at it...I can look at a run down house and see it's potential...I would love to renovate houses and flip them...friends call me Miss Fix It...I don't like church but I believe in God...I love the law, it fascinates me...I hate people who hurt children and often wonder why God lets the innocent feel pain...I don't like it when I can't get my point across...I don't like to yell...Don't ever argue with me, you won't win...I try hard to get along with everyone...I love food...even the kinds that I shouldn't eat...I love taking pictures...I hate how my nose looks big in pictures but it's really not that big in person...I love to drive around in ritzie neighborhoods to motivate me to work harder...I'm good with money, and thrifty...I like to be organized...I dream of owning a big log cabin on a farm with horses and lots of animals...I don't like letting people down...I worry too much sometimes...I don't like being kept waiting...I love the sun on my face...I can be a procrastinator at times...I can be nosey, and bossy too...I try to be there for people and help them if I can...If you don't know me you might think I'm stuck up or standoffish, but then you find that I'm just very shy...I love to listen to thunderstorms...I can't stand other people's drama but somehow I always end up in the middle of it trying to help...I have been called a 'vault' when it comes to keeping a secret...I'm not vindictive, even when I'm really angry...I know how to exercise discretion...I don't dwell on things I can't change or the past...I am intolerant of being LIED to...I'd rather be hurt than have anyone ever lie to me...Layout made by