There are many parent's that keep their children away from the other parent for reason's of abuse or severe neglect, but for the most part most parent's that are NOT civil or reasonable whom have custody deny a child the other parent, simply out of spite or revenge. They not only deny the visitation by hiding them or not making the child available for the weekend pick up, but they sucessfully brain wash and kidnap the minds of our children. They tell our children that we are horrible people and only want to hurt them. At first the child argues! They build fear in our children and create fear for them. They slowly peel away their trust they once had in you, telling them lie's and steeling their memories, replacing them with false ones. They work on ther minds and change their hearts. They drill it in their heads that they should run as fast as they can if they see the other parent anywhere. Why? "Because they will kidknap you and take you away" They make the child/children feel as if the custodial parent "the ALIENATOR" is the only one that loves them and that will keep them safe. After not seeing their other parent they adapt to their alienating parent's belief's and believe there every word. You try to keep paying your attorney but quickley run out of fund's. So attempt to represent yourself, OH what a mistake. For the next several year's you make all the attempt's in vain. You never recieve or get the chance at a fair hearing. The people with the money ALWAYS WIN! The same goes for, the first to file ALWAYS WIN! Denying a child a relationship they once had with a Fit, Loving and Responsible Non-Custodial Mom or Dad is ABUSE and should be treated with the same strong arm that neglect or physical/sexual abuse is treated. For a parent that is loving, Fit and Responsible that are willing to put the child's best interest ahead of their own are being punished by the Court and the alienating parent. You are guilty until you prove yourself innocent of anything in the Family Court of Law. You are not acknowledged in your plight to have a relationship with your children and your children have no voice. The damage on a child from being denied and punished for wanting a relationship is real. Being denied a relationship or completely alienated from either parent is traumatising and forever emotionaly scarring.Click here to visit our website
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