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Ray

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About Me

Hi y'all! I'm a 31 year old woman with a lust for life. I love to laugh, am very outgoing, and could have fun at an insurance seminar. I'm the girl everyone wants to sit next to in a boring meeting...just because some way or another, I'll make sure you are having a good time! I'm a kitchen witch, a Virgo, and completely believe that nothing in life is worth anything if you aren't passionate about it.
Your Love Element Is Fire
In love, you are a true listener and totally present.
For you, love is all about feeling more alive than you've ever felt.
You attract others with your joy and passion.
Your flirting style is defined by your strong ability to communicate.
Fun and play are the cornerstones of your love life.
And while your flame may burn too brightly, it's part of your appeal.
You connect best with: Wood
Avoid: Water
You and another Fire element: will likely burn out quickly What Element Is Your Love?

My Interests

The craft, tomfoolery, books, music, karaoke, sex, and rock and roll, baby! The louder the better!
You Were Very Naughty This Year!
Naughty, naughty! You've given Santa a broken heart.
You probably won't get anything from Mr. Claus
Except for a well deserved spanking
(Which you'll probably enjoy, you sicko!) Were You Naughty or Nice This Year?

I'd like to meet:

Anyone with a million dollars, a private plane to Jamaica and an endless supply of chocolate -or- Someone who can make me laugh so hard my stomach aches -or- My man, on the beach, barefooted, with a bottle of Southern Comfort in his hands, and a kiss on his lips for me.

Music:

Wow, I have eclectic taste in music. I love just about everything. When I designed this page, in my roommate's CD player (bad a$$ system, TJ!!), I had a mixed alternative CD with everything from Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow to The Flys and Sublime. The next CD is Ray Charles' Greatest Hits. After that we have a little Toby Keith. I love to play it as loud as I can without my upstairs neighbors' complaining! Now, in November 2006, I'm sitting in my fave coffee bar listening to some seriously rockin' classic rock.

Movies:

This is easy. My favorite movies are as follows: 1. Labyrinth (How can you help but love David Bowie in tights?) 2. Forrest Gump ("I think I just ruined your roommate's bathrobe.") 3. Braveheart ("I love you. Always have. I want to marry you.") 4. Overboard ("I like it when she goes...buh buh buh buh buh...") 5. Napoleon Dynamite ("Like you could even know that, Napoleon." 6. Super Troopers ("Meow.") Need I say more?

Television:

I wasn't much of a TV person since they took Buffy off the air, but a couple of shows have caught my eye - Bones, Supernatural, and Desperate Housewives. I know, I know, I can't believe it either.

Books:


Earth Witch. you are the earth witch. wise,caring,
and clever. you are the keeper of the Magykal
forests. your song is "lunacy
fringe" by The Used

What witch are you? (gorgeous pics - 7 different results)
brought to you by Quizilla
You Are The Magician
You are powerful and wise - beyond what anyone can see.
Deeply complex, you have the resources to connect to the spiritual and material world.
You posses the knowledge to manipulate your life and the lives around you.
You also have a great healing power, should you choose to use it.

Your fortune:

You have unhidden powers that you have yet to tap into.
Soon, you will better understand how to use your intellect and intuition.
Believe it or now, you will discover how you can manipulate yourself and others for good.
You are at the beginning of a path of spiritual enlightenment. What Tarot Card Are You?

Heroes:


The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.

In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored.

You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.

Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.

Your risk of cheating is low. Even if you're tempted, you'd try hard not to do it.

You think of marriage something you've always wanted... though you haven't really thought about it.

In this moment, you think of love as something you don't need. You just feel like flirting around and playing right now. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

My Blog

Sure Is Monday

Happy Monday everyone!  Just a quick note to let everyone know I had a good weekend.  I visited with some friends, and reconnected with some old friends who were really more family to me tha...
Posted by Ray on Mon, 13 Nov 2006 10:42:00 PST

Bears, Lies and MySpace

I'm sorry to myself that it's been so long since I posted an entry here.  I used to post every day, but then I found out that someone had found my site, and was reading every word that I posted t...
Posted by Ray on Sat, 11 Nov 2006 12:21:00 PST

Bored

OMG, ya'll, I'm going freakin' stir crazy!!  I stayed home from work today because I had a migraine, slept til 3, fought with Otis, and that's about it.  He's been really crabby, and I don't...
Posted by Ray on Thu, 15 Jun 2006 08:27:00 PST

Illuminating

Well, last night as Otis and I were online, he suddenly freaks out.  His ex-fiance G. had found him on Myspace.  Let's just say I saw her, and I'm all comforted now.  Saw his ex J. too,...
Posted by Ray on Mon, 12 Jun 2006 07:19:00 PST

COOKIES!!!

May 31, 2006 For Soldiers' Appetites, Reinforcements By KIM SEVERSON EVERY week, Merry Debbrecht pulls about 1,200 cookies out of her electric range in Rose Hill, Kan. She packs them a dozen at a t...
Posted by Ray on Thu, 01 Jun 2006 07:24:00 PST

Happy Birthday to You!

Happy Birthday Daddy...you may be 53 now, but you'll forever be young in my eyes. I adore you. With all my heart and all my love, Your Daughter
Posted by Ray on Wed, 31 May 2006 07:53:00 PST

I love you. Hi to Heaven.

After Loss of a Parent to War, a Shared Grieving     Nicole Bengiveno/The New York Times Mariah May made a frame for two photographs of her father, Don. ARLINGTON, Va., May 28 Jacob Hobbs...
Posted by Ray on Wed, 31 May 2006 07:51:00 PST

An Army of One...

I read this today, and found it especially eloquent with yesterday being Memorial Day.     An Army of One By LOUISE ERDRICH Published: May 29, 2006 Minneapolis   I FIRST noticed that...
Posted by Ray on Wed, 31 May 2006 07:42:00 PST

Long Time No See

Hi there, ya'll!  Sorry I haven't posted in 4 months, but my roommate lost the phone line at home, and she won't let anyone use her wireless internet.  To catch you up...Otis ended up not co...
Posted by Ray on Tue, 16 May 2006 06:40:00 PST

A Woman...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace  bra...A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...One friend who always makes her laughAnd one who lets her cry.. A WOMAN SHOULD HA...
Posted by Ray on Wed, 01 Feb 2006 07:51:00 PST