Amanda Nicole

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- MY ADVICE -

If you have your heart truly into a relationship and really want it to work, sometimes, you have to fight for such a blessing. It's not easy in today's world to find someone that you remotely hold as dear or intensely care for.

Such feelings these days are almost regarded as menial. As if true love doesn't exist, today we live to settle for less than we deserve. How long can you go on with the endless cycle of self-punishment? Chaos exhumes the world but it does not have to thrive in our hearts, minds, and our souls.

It's time to take what is rightfully yours and not look back. Don't let that "one" person slip away because of little things you could have done or said and failed to do so. If they are as special as your heart tells you they are, they need to be treated as such.

In most cases, it's not difficult to achieve a greater happiness than you could have ever hoped for. You just need to know when it's in front of you, how to hold on to it, and how to let it happen for you. You are worthy of love. Worthy of everything the world has to offer.

Life is full of bumps, twists, and turns. It's so much easier to live life through these difficult times with someone there for you to lend a shoulder. Things in life are rarely simple and everyone hits low points.

Even in the most solid of relationships there are hard times that fall. It isn't the situation, what happened, or even your arguments about it that are most important. What matters is how you deal with those things collectively.

Stop lashing out purposely with hurtful words of which you know will only film your conscience later. Take the time to try to understand where the other person is coming from. Look at the way things may be from their perspective. Only then will you gain enough knowledge to best handle the particular event.

Fact is, even the greatest couples are both separate people in various ways. Everyone is different in some fashion or another. No one is going to have absolutely everything in common with someone else. It just isn't possible.

There was something that brought you together in the first place and if it's something worthwhile, you should do your part to render and validate it with the best you have to offer.

Nothing worth fighting for is easy. The keys to all successful relationships are trust, honesty, communication, and love. To make any effort half of your capability is to half tell what it means to you. For something such as a relationship to ever work, you have to give yourself 100% to that other person and put 100% of your efforts into it.

I've had this old saying for years, people will do what's important to them, and the saying holds true every day of my life. If your significant other is someone who's truly important to you, in your life, and in your heart, you'll do anything necessary to make that person happy, fulfilled, and a solid part of your life.

If that isn't something you think you can do, you're lying to yourself and this person you "portray" to care about. Let them know you're not ready for that level of commitment early. Before emotional investment is eminent. Hope later that you didn't make the worst mistake of your life.

I live by a few rules but one big one I try to remind myself of every day, "go big or go home." I put 100% into everything I do, including relationships. That way, if it works out I know I've done my part to deserve it. If not, I live without regret.