I was once wrongly accused by my co-worker of being a serial dater. One of my best friends wrongly believes that I have a unhealthy need to be in a relationship, because I have a fear of being alone. And I am recently single. All of this has caused me to make a change in my dating habits. My last relationship was a good one....But I think we both just got really tired of trying to change each other or for each other. He and I just started going in different directions as far as life and work. Life on his part and work on mine. So we decided too call it quits. And I really hope everything in his life works out and that he has a more fulfilling and long lived relationship next. As for me I will remain single for the time being until I am ready and unselfish enough to be part of a healthy union. Right now I feel that I need to forward my career, and have fun being a 21 year old. In April when i turned 21 i felt as though I went from 20 to 35. And I was being pressured not too go out and be social, not to go with friends not too drink. And that's fine if that's what I wanted.....I tried to make myself want that but, the fact is I didn't. So this is now a new page in my book and I am sad the old chapter is over it had its fun. But I would be lying if I said I wasn't excited to start this new chapter.So back to the point at hand WO DO I WANT TO MEET. AS FAR AS FRIENDS AND NETWORKING: I know I want new friends from near and far its always good to have reliable and useful connections. I love having fun....clean safe fun, so i know focusing on enlarging my circle of friends would be a good and healthy idea. AS FAR AS ROMATICS: The guy I like is hard to explain but there are a few things I know I want in a partner. I want you too be confident, fun and healthy. Clean, safe and hard working. Be ok with yourself and comfortable in your own skin. Have drive to be the best person you can be. Obviously be attractive. Be emotionally stable, actually be mentally stable. When i come up with more ill update this but for right now I think that's all