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About Me

my personality test:
in courtesy of www.colorquiz.com
My Existing Situation
Acts in an orderly, methodical, and self-contained manner.
Needs the sympathetic understanding of someone who will give him recognition and approval.

My Stress Sources
The existing situation is disagreeable. Feels lonely and uncertain as he has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to his self-sufficiency because of the restraint he normally imposes on himself. Since he wants to demonstrate the unique quality of his own character, he tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal his fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize his behavior with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference he really longs for the approval and esteem of others.
My Restrained Characteristics
Becomes distressed when his needs or desires are misunderstood and feels that he has no one to turn to or rely on. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.

My Desired Objective
Feels the situation is hopeless. Strongly resists things which he finds disagreeable. Tries to shield himself from anything which might irritate him or make him feel more depressed.

My Actual Problem
The need for esteem--for the chance to play some outstanding part and make a name for himself--has become imperative. He reacts by insisting on being the center of attention, and refuses to play an impersonal
or minor role.

My Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, emptiness, and an unadmitted self-contempt. His refusal to admit this leads to his adopting a headstrong and defiant attitude.
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pain wont matter but heart does . . .
Posted by on Wed, 20 Dec 2006 18:57:00 GMT

well i guess im doin this for you

Time may pass but you sure don't. You might as well be the person you told me you were from the beginning. At least he'll play his part in the role I've always wanted when the curtain closes hopefully...
Posted by on Sat, 16 Dec 2006 21:44:00 GMT