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"Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size, but when I start to tell them, they think I'm telling lies. I say, it's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I am a woman, phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, that's me.
...
Now you understand just why my head's not bowed. I don't shout or jump about or have to talk real loud. When you see me passing, it ought to make you proud. I say, It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman, phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, that's me.

-Maya Angelou

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