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I'm a twenty-four year old homo-sek-syew-al, spawned from the darkest regions of Sunrise, Florida. I ventured cross-country in my dearly departed 1999 Dodge Intrepid, "Max," back in September of 2002. It was either move to California or move to Canada, and my family was none too keen on the idea of changing citizenship. Now will someone tell me, what's this dual-citizenship shit I've heard about?
My memory must suck these days because I want to do another ridiculously long road trip again. I can easily recall my feelings, once my journey was complete and I was standing in my first apartment: "I would never do that trip again! What the fuck was I thinking?!" Please take note, however, I did the 3000-mile commute alone. The only thing to sustain my sanity was my music. Although I doubt belting out tunes from the "Have Yourself A Scary Little Christmas" album from Tales from the Crypt would confirm the stability of my sanity. For the record, I only did that at around 1 AM while I was passing through Texas. I was so determined to get out of Texas that I was willing to drive all night. By 2 AM, however, my insomnia subsided and I checked into a hotel in El Paso.
Five years away from my family, and I've gone through a bit. I don't dare believe I know it all, contrary to what some seem to think of me, because I don't. I'm eager to grow and venture out. Long Beach has never been my goal, but a rest stop, and I think I've rested long enough. Those, as few as they are, close to me have seen how uncomfortable I become in my skin whenever my life resets itself. For quite some time now I've flirted with the idea of relocating. But where am I off to next? A while back I was gonna try out San Francisco, but I bailed on that plan for various reasons. New York has been on my mind quite a bit, but recently I've been entertaining the thought of Seattle. Now, Las Vegas has become an eventual location if my life follows an alternative timeline. Right now I have about three timelines playing out in my head once 2009 starts, and none of them suggest I'd stay in Long Beach.
As a brief update on my life, I have made a small change. I moved to a larger apartment around mid-January. This offered up some new experiences and perceptions as it is also my first time officially living with the person I'm dating. Scary, eh? Living with someone is an interesting thing. All I can say is that it's just comfortable. We co-exist pretty well. There's alot of mutual understandings with our differences, and that's about it. We've even had the "break-up" talks and it's a funny thing when you can give your boyfriend (or girlfriend) an expiration date for the relationship, and an account of events that will follow. All I know is we'll last beyond August 2008, because I want to make it to a year with someone, dammit!! But it can't go beyond three years, because Mike said so.
Anyway, there's a plethora of additional information I can share regarding my life's story, but that's generally available over a few Kamikaze shots at the local pub, or my living room. Besides, what fun is reading the details of my life? Especially when you can try your hand at making new chapters, and better if their alcohol induced.
For now, it's best to know that I like to be spontaneous, love to travel, and really value those that become a part of my life. Oh, and genuine-ness goes a long way.
But seriously folks, regarding those Kamikaze shots... Let's do it! I just got this bottle of Green Tea Liquer over the holidays, and I'm dying to try it. I'm also eye-balling this Rice Infused Asian Vodka called Han, I think. I know BevMo has it, and I want it!!
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I'm looking for baggage that goes with mine...

...and those whom are mellow, intelligent, passionate, confident, ambitious, outgoing, artistic,expressive, afraid, genuine, spontaneous, trustworthy, and unrealistic dreamers. I'm not asking formuch, but simply people who enhance their lives and my own through their efforts and actions, andperhaps simply by the pressence of their smile.

...and no, I'm not reciting a passage from aDr. Phil book or Oprah Magazine!

Oddly enough, I think I found someone who was 75% of those qualities, give or take 5%, but we each hadour own growing up to do. He's definately an everlasting part of my life, as gay as it sounds, but it's true. People do impact your life, and that 75% fella is what Jordin Sparks says. What was it? Something about, "you're on my heart just like a tattoo." Is that right? I'm too lazy to look it up on azlyric.com. The bloke I'm with now, however, is probably 75% also, give or take 5%, but his percentage is in different places.

As dependent as it may sound, I could really use a few good friends to helpdig me out of the graves I continually bury for myself. Actually my tombstone is pretty! It has theStar Trek Federation logo thing on it, and it says my name in Klingon!! ...no, not really.

Now, be forewarned... I'm not exactly sure how this next segment I'm about to write pertains to "WhoI'd like to meet," but I guess there's some relevance to be made of it.

I've been finding myself de-railed. Any ideas I'd dreamt, ambitions I'd felt, or passionsI'd developed are fading. I keep wanting to escape, with very few methods of achieving this goal. Ikeep bordering what some may call unhealthy or unstable, where I'm willing to lose everything to getaway, travel, see new things, and experience what the world is without restrictions before my timeexpires. Basically, to be happy.

I'm not sure if I convey these thoughts accurately, but aswith most things I say, I offer the opportunity to learn more, if you really give a shit. E-Mail orcall me... Inquire. If you're someone I want to talk to, I will. If not, don't get butt hurt. Ibasically just don't need your opinions or thoughts to validate anything.

So, I'm reading and revising a few portions of my MySpace page at 5 AM on 29 February 2008, and I just read the previous paragraphs and I couldn't decide to keep it or not. But, for your knowledge, just know I have been happier with life and things are pretty spiffy, but I'm still de-railed. I'm in school for the first time in eight years, but am considering quitting in pursuit of potential work opportunities and financial stimulation. But yeah. I've come to find I always have a small circle of friends because there are so few peopleout there who truly want to reach beyond what they think they can do. Do you follow me? "Life's abanquet, and most poor sons of bitches are starving to death," as Mame Dennis said it best. That quotegreatly represents the passion I feel, or used to feel, but I am passionate about acquiring thatpassion again.Returning to the "Who I'd like to meet" thing though, I'm pretty open minded, but I am learning moreabout myself then ever beforeand realizing my own dreams and ambitions. It's scary stuff, and I can't wait to start. Or re-start. Maybe even start five things.

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