Positive people. People that know what it's like to struggle. Queers, NOn-Queers, and all the in-between. Artsy people...cultured people, people that are foodies and love wine.An aggressive butch womyn. A mujer who knows who she is and is not willing to hide it. A mujer who is not willing to sacrifice her happiness for that of her family. A mujer that is truthful. Not only to me, but to herself. A mujer that knows that being queer is not a sin. A mujer who 'gets it' who understands the 'dance' between butches and femmes and who honors it. A mujer who is not afraid of a femme who likes to top (sometimes) A mujer who honors the fact that i'm out there working for our rights and who reveres that. A butch who does not think that when they 'turn' straight girls or take them away from their husbands/boyfriends it's just another 'notch on their belt' A mujer who understands my passion of NEVER having to go back in the closet.I try to be all of these things, therefore I hope for all of these things from a mujer.p.s. Check out my production company Sappho's Return at www.myspace.com/sapphosreturn