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Nick

I am here for Friends

About Me


Hey all..if you're reading this then that must mean I'm somewhat interesting to you..awesome, because most likely I'm interested in you :)....
I consider myself a pretty easy-going guy. I actually have a pretty healthy and positive outlook on life, despite the many obstacles that may come my way. I believe everything happens for a reason, and that everything we go through in life helps mold us into who we are today. I pride myself on being a true and honest person. I don't believe in frontin' on who I really am or playing games..I'm too grown for all that.
I love to be with people. I love to talk like crazy. But I can also be shy. Other times I can be random and crazy and off the wall...I'm quite scary when I've had a massive amount of sugar or caffiene!
I looooove Food. I probably shouldn't, cuz i'm trying to stay in shape. I love Music. Music is my drug and my passion. I love to party, I love to go out and dance, but I'm not a clubbhead. I love quiet, intimate conversation at a coffeshop with friends. I love the outdoors and hiking/gettin down and dirty with mother nature. I love animals. I love Shopping. I love watching movies. I'm pretty flexible when it comes to hanging out. It doesn't take much for me to enjoy myself or the company of those I'm with.
If you need a friend I will be here to lend a listening ear. If you need a shoulder to cry on you can use mine anytime. This sounds like a line from a cheesy self-help book or something, But I honestly strive every day to become a better person and a better friend to those I care about.
I'm always up for chatting and meeting new people, so feel free to shoot me an IM sometime: Xander Is Me 05 on AIM.
I have amazing friends
God is the driving force in my life, and what keeps me going from day to day
I don't tolerate racism, sexism, or any kind of ignorant discrimination
Yay! I'm done...
What type of Gay are YOU?
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You scored as The all-round cute gay guy

YOu are a cute guy who many would die to be with..........lucky!!


The all-round cute gay guy


60%

A Big Bear


50%

Straight Acting


40%

Raging Queer


10%

Straight Queer Basher


10%

Straight


0%

S + M guy


0%

My Interests


Music
The Beach
Walking/Hiking out in Nature
Animals
Picnics
Laughing
Movies
Museums
The Zoo!!
Silliness
Random Humor
Singing
Church
Writing
Nature
Working Out
Good times with Friends
Meeting New People
Stimulating Conversation
Disneyworld!!! & Anything Disney
Making Awesome Memories
Coffee
Internet
Ice Cream
Eating
Clubbing & dancing My Ass Off
Talking on the Phone
Hanging Out
Shopping
Learning New Things
Traveling
Reading
Going Out
Seeing Interesting Things

I'd like to meet:


Anyone! Always up for expanding my horizons socially :)

Music:

All Kinds...Don't even know where to start... Mariah Carey, Leona Lewis, OneRepublic,Thousand Foot Krutch, All-American Rejects, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Daughtry, Avalon, Plus One, Jake, Linkin Park, Evanescence, Savage Garden,Chris Tomlin,30 Seconds to Mars, Adema, AFI,The Ataris, Avril Lavigne, Blink 182, Breaking Benjamin, Chevelle, Coldplay, Crossfade, Dashboard Confessional, Death Cab for Cutie, Panic! At the Disco, Destiny's Child, Disturbed, Dixie Chicks, Enya, Finch, The Fray, Good Charlotte, Hawthorne Heights, Hoobastank, Jimmy Eat World, Kelis, The Killers, Madonna, Mae, Missy Elliott, My Chemical Romance, Natalie Imbruglia, Nelly Furtado, Orgy, Plain White T's, Saves The Day, Semisonic, Silverstein, A Simple Plan, Snow Patrol, Something Corporate, SR-71, Story Of The Year, Sugarcult, Sum 41, Taking Back Sunday, Three Days Grace, Thrice, Justin Timberlake, Trapt, Trust Company, Trapt, DC talk, Paula DeAnda, Brandon Heath, Nsync, Britney Spears, Metallica, Carrie Underwood, Kelly Clarkson, Monica, Tamia, Tim McGraw, Michelle Branch, matchbox twenty, Rob Thomas, The Beatles, Jason Mraz, Our Lady Peace, Switchfoot, Train, the Goo Goo Dolls, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Alexandre Pires, Shakira, Alejandro Sanz, Luis Fonsi, Aventura, Shania Twain, Lincoln Brewster, Skillet, Natalie Grant, Nichole Nordeman, Hilary Duff, Landon Pigg, Seventh Day Slumber, Superchic[k], Boyz II Men,Chris Tomlin, 48May, Darin Zanyar, Bullet For My Valentine, etc

Movies:


The Butterfly Effect
Spiderman
X-Men
Mean Girls
The Hot Chick
A Walk To Remember
The Girl Next Door
Shrek
Beauty And The Beast
The Lion King
The Italian Job
Titanic
Nightmare on Elm Street
Not Another Teen Movie
Aladdin
The Little Mermaid
Three Days
Lilo & Stitch
Just Like Heaven
Interview With A Vampire

Television:


LOST
Desperate Housewives
American Idol
Mad Tv
The Simpsons
Family Guy
Three's Company
Will & Grace
The Golden Girls
Gargoyles
Nick At Nite Sitcoms
Disney Channel!! (Hannah Montana & Raven..Cuz I'm a dork like that)

Books:


Bible
The Harry Potter Series
Rescued by The Cross
Is The Homosexual My Neighbor
Zlatsa's Diary
Animorphs
Any Nature or Wildlife book

Heroes:


Jesus Christ
Martin Luther King Jr.
Rosa Parks
Mariah Carey
Me, Myself, & I.

My Blog

Overwhelmed All The Time??

Has anyone ever felt constantly overwhelmed??Lately, I have. I don’t have a very exhausting life. I have a quite normal life, perhaps even seemingly less stressful than most peoples...I go to sc...
Posted by Nick on Fri, 14 Mar 2008 10:59:00 PST

Fresh New Year...Fresh New Start...

    Well, It's 2008. Scary huh?? Where did 2007 go?? For that matter, Where have the past few years gone??    As we grow, and become busier and busier in life, the years ...
Posted by Nick on Fri, 04 Jan 2008 12:47:00 PST

The Quarter-Life Crisis

    This is so true...    As we grow, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. The closer you are to someone, the deeper...
Posted by Nick on Fri, 04 Jan 2008 12:17:00 PST

R.I.P. Grandma

Well I woke up this morning with some inspiration for a blog, but this certainly wasn't what I had in mind...At around 9:00 PM my grandmother passed away. I was expecting it. We all were, but that doe...
Posted by Nick on Wed, 13 Jun 2007 10:20:00 PST

Honey Field??? A Review....

So this new restaurant opened up in Lockport recently. Honey Field. I had been looking forward to it's opening for some time now. They marketed themselves to be a smoothie, juice, and coffee bar, as w...
Posted by Nick on Sat, 12 May 2007 08:08:00 PST

Quickie Update on School...

So here I am in the library at NIU, and I decided I have a few minutes before class to fill everyone in on my academic plans. That's right, I said academic plans! For once, I actually have a goal and ...
Posted by Nick on Wed, 18 Apr 2007 10:23:00 PST

Virginia Tech & The Westboro Hateful Church...

Okay, My blogs are usually pretty uplifting and positive, but today it is hard to be anything but sad and upset about the events that happened. Obviously by now we've all heard about the massacre at V...
Posted by Nick on Tue, 17 Apr 2007 12:11:00 PST

Same Sex couples can now get married in The U.S.! Well..sort of....

Same-sex couples who want to exchange vows in America now have the chance....At Disney World (where dreams come true!) in front of Cinderella's Castle The Walt Disney Co. had limited its Fairy Tale W...
Posted by Nick on Thu, 12 Apr 2007 01:56:00 PST

Determination

Well, It's been awhile since my last blog, and it seems the last few blogs have been the same thing over and over again. The truth is, I'm still in a rut. I plan on getting myself out of it, and for a...
Posted by Nick on Tue, 10 Apr 2007 02:10:00 PST

My "Friends"...

Okay, as many of you know, I am not a negative person and I always assume the best of those I come in contact with.  But I have a little bit of a rant to get off my chest...Last week was my sprin...
Posted by Nick on Mon, 19 Mar 2007 10:28:00 PST