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tamara

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me


i cant believe that im doing this! i totally got SUCKERED into this myspace thing. and if you're viewing my page and reading this... its only because YOU got suckered in to this, too! hahahaha. its crazy how EVERYBODY is on this thing! there's people that i havent seen or spoken to in ages. it always seems to amaze me how small this world actually is...
There are 3 things a girl needs in life:
love to feel weak,
alcohol to feel strong,
and her friends to pick her up when BOTH make her HIT THE FLOOR

a HOLLYWOOD bachelorette party. check it out!
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths that you take, but life is rather measured by the moments that take your breath away..."
I've learned to cherish ALL the moments in my life. Whether they may be good, bad, happy, or sad... they are all important to me. I appreciate the ones who have both walked in to AND out of my life. Also remembering to be good to the ones that are good to me. Regardless, everything and everyone has somehow, in some way, made me who i am today and who i continually strive to become tomorrow... a better person.
"Don't bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be better than YOURSELF."
--William Faulkner

here are some random snippets of the captured moments from the footprints left in my heart...
"Eventually all the pieces will fall into place like they are supposed to. Until then... laugh at the confusion, live for the moment, and know that everything in life happens for a reason."
You arent going to be his first, his last, or his only...
He's loved before, and he will love again.
But if he loves you now, what else matters?
He's not perfect, but you aren't perfect either,
and you two will never be "perfect".
But if he can make you laugh at least once,
Cause you to think twice,
and admits to being human and making mistakes...
Hold on to him and give the most you can.
He is not going to quote poetry,
He's not going to be thinking about you every moment,
But he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break.
Dont hurt him.
Dont change him...
Dont expect more than he can give.
Try not to over-analyze.
Smile when he makes you happy.
Yell when he makes you mad...
And miss him when hes not there.
"Hope for the best, prepare for the worst, expect nothing... and you'll never get hurt."

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

this kid right here...
Honest Baby

or this guy right here... "all day, fuck you talkin 'bout, wat dat do...bitch!" hahahahaha! fast foward to 3:08 and watch. then you'll know what im talking about. funny stuff. enjoy! =)

Chicago Bad Boys of Comedy LIL REL

but mainly old friends. but new ones never hurt. =)

all of my "friends" that i have added on myspace, are people that i actually know in real life. so if i dont know you in some way, shape, or form... you better be pretty darn interesting for me to add you! =P

"Friends... they're the chocolate chips in my cookie of life. Some are bitter, some are sweet... others are bitter-sweet. But my cookie would never be complete without them. My life wouldn't taste the same."

NOTE: please take note that i HATE animals! all of them. they require too much attention. attention that i dont want to give. they annoy me. they're too needy. this is what i do to things that annoy me... KICK 'em! but this time... i think i KILLED it! oops. oh well. =p

i didnt really kill it. gosh. i would never do such a thing. but KICK it... you better believe that you need to keep your pets away from me! hahahaha.

My Blog

everyone makes mistakes... dont blame me for yours.

as an ADULT you weigh out your options, look at the consequences or possible reactions, then you make an educated and very CONSCIOUS deciscion.  yes, YOU make CHOICES and DECIDE what YOU want.there ar...
Posted by on Mon, 02 Feb 2009 11:14:00 GMT

what just popped in my head....

so many things going on right now.  its so easy to get lost, and even easier to become overwhelmed.  im sure many can relate with their own issues to the feelings im describing.  but i ...
Posted by on Sun, 12 Oct 2008 23:46:00 GMT

note to self...

NOTE TO SELF: you know what you are worth and what you deserve.   you have to FORGIVE TO FORGET, and FORGET TO FEEL again...
Posted by on Wed, 13 Aug 2008 18:27:00 GMT

LOVE...

LOVE is the most complicated and confusing... most undefined, yet restricting 4 letter word i'll NEVER understand. LOVE and LIFE... the 2 things i will never understand in life, but haved learned...
Posted by on Sun, 27 Jul 2008 21:02:00 GMT

the irony of love...

The Irony of LoveLoving the right person at the wrong time, Having the wrong person when the time is right, And finding out you love someone right after That person walks out of your life... And somet...
Posted by on Tue, 15 Jul 2008 23:27:00 GMT

right now...

right now... i dont care what happens or what is due to come next.  as of right this very moment, i am HAPPY.  finally... im happy.   im absolutely ELATED.  i cant stop smilin...
Posted by on Tue, 01 Jul 2008 03:40:00 GMT

just when i thought i was starting to get my head together...

just when i thought i was starting to get my head together, my heart falls apart.  my body feels limp and helpless.  my thoughts are starting to wander and emotions are starting to take...
Posted by on Mon, 23 Jun 2008 17:44:00 GMT

another restless night...

its nearly 4am and i still cant sleep.  so many things are running through my mind and nothing makes sense.  everything is running around in circles in my head and driving me crazy.&nbs...
Posted by on Fri, 25 Apr 2008 03:46:00 GMT

it is what it is....

things are the way they are because, well.... it is what it is.  but what is it really?  i mean how are things really supposed to be?  is it really supposed to be this way?  i was...
Posted by on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 13:29:00 GMT

told myself "this is good shit..."

If you feel that he’s always holding something back, or that you’re spending a lot of energy trying to CHANGE YOURSELF into something you think will make HIM happier, then DIVORCE yourself...
Posted by on Sun, 16 Mar 2008 21:00:00 GMT