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Kandi

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My Interests

Interests??? Refresh my memory, what are those again??? Oh wait, it's coming back to me...
Trying to get at least the very basic things done that need to get done everyday; being the best mommy that I can be for my adorable little sweetie-pie; carving out a few minutes of quality time with the husband; trying to find some time to watch movies/TV...or listen to music...or discover new music; not that it's an "interest" but, researching my own illness because most doctors are clueless egotists; NYC (it's been a while, but you know i still love you); attempting, however badly, to keep in touch with the few friends I have left; Earl Grey; over-organizing whenever possible; making lists (then losing them); taking lots of pictures; anything that smells like cake (including cake); traveling (or dreaming about someday actually taking another vacation); shopping (I bow to the IKEA gods and pray for their blessings); longing for but never having coffee; dreams you can't shake; lipgloss (if there’s a 12 step program for lipglossaholics, somebody contact me); the seemingly endless quest for my lost brain cells...

I'd like to meet:

A doctor that isn't condescending, doesn't have a God complex, that uses their ears for more than a place to hold their pen & who doesn't have their own head up their a**... :)
A celebrity nanny, personal trainer & chef please...who will of course become my best friends & work for me for free.

Music:

In no particular order...
Tori Amos, Coldplay, Bjork, Led Zeppelin, The Doors, The Strokes, The Shins, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, The White Stripes, Feist, The National, The Kills, Pearl Jam, Travis, The Raconteurs, Regina Spektor, Muse, KT Tunstall, Portishead, Kate Bush, Jeff Buckley, Madonna, The Beatles, Snow Patrol, Keane, Death Cab for Cutie, Modest Mouse, The Eels, The Music, Goldfrapp, Radiohead, Nine Inch Nails, Spoon, PJ Harvey, The Black Keys, Nellie McKay, Oasis, Johnny Cash, The Killers, James...of course, KTOF...old standards from the 40's and 50's...and the 80's stuff that's permanently etched into my brain...

Movies:

Some Like it Hot, Lost in Translation, Run Lola Run, The Princess and the Warrior, Garden State, Knocked Up, Waitress, Little Miss Sunshine, I Am Legend, Stranger Than Fiction, I Heart Huckabees, Pulp Fiction, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Superbad, Bringing Up Baby, Moulin Rouge, Royal Tenenbaums, Wonder Boys, Vanilla Sky, Harold and Maude, When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless in Seattle, Back to the Future, The Goonies, Labyrinth, The Professional, Before Sunrise/Before Sunset, Barefoot in the Park, American Beauty, Shakespeare in Love, A Streetcar Named Desire, The Philadelphia Story, Love Actually, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, About Schmidt...and I'll pretty much sit through anything John Cusack does. My Netflix queue is so long I fear I'll never get caught up.

Television:

Gilmore Girls, House, Mystery Diagnosis, Heroes, Journeyman, Supernanny, Scrubs, Grey's Anatomy, Entourage, Weeds, Ugly Betty, Sex and the City, Alias, Queer as Folk, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Dead Like Me, The Minor Accomplishments of Jackie Woodman, Eureka, The 4400, My Name is Earl, Will and Grace, Mad About You, Jeopardy, Absolutely Fabulous...oh and there will always be a place in my heart for Laverne and Shirley, Three's Company and Family Ties.

Books:

Right now I'm trying to read A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle...
Otherwise, The Secret, She's Come Undone, Da Vinci Code, Angels and Demons, The Hours, High Fidelity, Wonder Boys, Bridget Jones Diary, Tori Amos: Piece by Piece, Outland/Bloom County stuff, The Fall, The Metamorphosis, No One Here Gets Out Alive...I got half way through A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius before getting bored (maybe I'll finish it someday). My reading history is spotty and erratic. There are so many books I want to read...I wish I had the time. I really need to crack open a few parenting books & figure out how to get a toddler to go to sleep willingly at night...*sigh*

Heroes:

MY LITTLE MAMA
who turned selflessness into an art form...

My Blog

loss of the cool...

It's been more & more apparent to me lately how little cool I have left.  It's an odd transition that I am not in the least comfortable with.  I feel like I'm slipping away into some inv...
Posted by Kandi on Thu, 31 Jan 2008 11:32:00 PST

The difference between want & need...

There are so many things I want (& need) to do...if it weren't for all this mommy business.  That sounds awful...but the dirty facts are just that.  It just takes up the majority of your...
Posted by Kandi on Wed, 30 Jan 2008 05:20:00 PST

damn the tuna...

I am oddly sad about the mysterious passing of Heath Ledger.  I dunno...he just seemed like such a sweet, sensitive guy.  It's just sad.  I guess there's talk of an overdose...possibly ...
Posted by Kandi on Thu, 24 Jan 2008 04:59:00 PST

tests, tests & more tests...

I just got back from my first appointment at the endocrinologist.  Actually it was an appointment with the nurse practitioner, who was very nice & very thorough.  I've been sent home wit...
Posted by Kandi on Thu, 17 Jan 2008 12:35:00 PST

Germs suck. Pass the tissues.

I am sick. Terribly, miserably, incapacitated-ly sick. My head feels like it's full of cheese. It hurts to swallow, to eat or drink. I can barely talk. I'm trying not to cough because the pain is...
Posted by Kandi on Fri, 28 Dec 2007 09:16:00 PST

"youve got some perspiration on your puss there Billy boy..."

Some random thoughts from my scattered mommy brain...Zoe is turning 2 in 4 days. I believe all the experts call this the "oppositional" phase. Yeah, she's really learning how to voice her own opinio...
Posted by Kandi on Fri, 28 Dec 2007 06:53:00 PST

"do the puppet master..."

So much to say, so little time.  Bruce starts working from home on Friday...finally.  It's been a long time coming.  It's gonna be nice to save all the gas money & we're also thinki...
Posted by Kandi on Tue, 09 Oct 2007 11:14:00 PST

this little piggy smelled like vomit...

It's been a barely tolerable week. Zoe's been really sick. First Bruce had it, then she got it. I thought I was OK until Tues., then it got me too. It's a nasty sore throat & congestion kinda ...
Posted by Kandi on Fri, 17 Aug 2007 02:40:00 PST

OK, now you people have pissed me off...

It's only 7:30 in the morning & I'm pissed off already.  I just saw the obituary for the birth "mother".  They (whoever they are, I'm guessing her husband or sister) had the audacity to ...
Posted by Kandi on Thu, 09 Aug 2007 06:21:00 PST

Strange day...

I found out today that my birth "mother" died last night.  She was only 52.  All I know is that she had MS & supposedly had a bad reaction to some drug which left her in a semi-vegetativ...
Posted by Kandi on Wed, 08 Aug 2007 08:51:00 PST