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and i'm starting to smile in a way that i haven't for awhile

About Me

baby, you can have whatever you like... psyche!

"probably shoulda called it quits after the last stupid thing i did..." lol.
everyone always seems to think i'm all kinds of asian. but truth be told:
i'm filipino (cebuana to be exact), spanish & portugese.

first thing's first:

my private life is very private & i do a great job at keeping it that way
i know i'm not the prettiest girl in the world,
but i am one of the most sincere.
i gets down, but i ain't a gold digger.

theres nothing sexy goin on here

don't sugar coat shit. don't front. don't fake it.
just give it to me straight, i'm a grown woman.

just because you got the best ride...
don't mean you gotta let everybody test drive.


still very far from wrinkles, stretchmarks, & desensitized emotions.
yet, always skipping steps to my destiny while defining my self worth.
"and it struck me kinda funny, cause all they talked about was money...
like that could be the answer to my dreams. it got me thinking..."
the past 22 years, have taught me that those "haters" don't mean shit...
if you pay attention to all the people paying their attention to u, youll get to nowhere faster than they can [and that's definitely not worth the race].
keep loving yourself.
♥janet jade.

REINVENTED.

b r i l l i a n t. powerful. r e s i l i e n t. inspirational. o p e n minded.
c r e a t i v e. different. s o c i a b l e. respectable. m o t i v a t e d.
kind. c o n f i d e n t. not cocky. w e l l rounded. m a i n t a i n e d.
not h i g h-maintenance. s p o r t s fan. h o o d grown & b u r b livin'.
g r e a t friend. g o o d hearted. f a i t h f u l. intelligent. l o y a l. pure
the niggas say i'm "one hell of a woman".
but not a lot of guys are worth my time.
y o u can heal the world with your heart, if you just t r y.
my body is beautiful and sacred... and i'm gonna celebrate it.

i'm a good woman,
and i take pride in that.

bitches like those only hate on me because i work so hard at being a good person. but hey, if you want tricks... FOLLOW THEM. f.y.i. i have hella flaws. but i don't need to be perfect just to please you.
i'm happy with myself.
i'm pretty eclectic. if you wanna roll, try to keep up!
i am a helping hand. i am a hero.

i don't need no sugar daddy.
i "could be" a sugar mommy.
(if really i wanted to...)


i believe that one of the biggest mistakes that people make these days is working on their "image" before searching and developing their true character. take my advice: know yourself before creating an appearance.

there's about a million hoes like those...
yet, there is only ONE of me.

tell me: why is it that the people who are the MOST full of themselves,
have the worst grammatical skills out of everyone else?
janet is love. she is patient; she is kind;
she is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude.
she does not insist on her own way; she is not irritable or resentful;
she does not rejoice in wrong doing, but rejoices in the truth.
janet bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things and endures all things.you can't see my wings or my halo
cause it's all tangled in my hair.
always remember to keep faith in yourself and trust that there are greater things in the world for you to achieve. life is a continuous ladder; and each challenge represents another step, leading to more growth. ♥me

My Interests

i told you, keep my name out the press, so you've gotta hold it in and not say i'm the best. yes, you're the opposite of stress.. a whole lot more, but you damn sure ain't nothin less ;)

"a real man is made up of quality, integrity and the right amount of humility." -j.jade.

"it's not what she has, or even what she does that directly expresses the WORTH OF A WOMAN... but what she is."

"the seat of knowledge is the head, wisdom in the heart. the wise woman will purpose to pursue both knowledge and wisdom. she combines the best of what she knows with the depth of what she feels."

“i n t e g r i t y is not a conditional word. it doesn't blow in the wind or change with the weather. it is your inner image of yourself, and if you look in there and see a man who won't cheat, then you know he never will.”
-John D. MacDonald.

"a woman's heart should be so hidden in God; a man would have to seek Him, to find her."

"playing small does not serve the world. there is nothing enlightened about shrinking so other people won't feel insecure."-Nelson Mandela.

I'd like to meet:

friends come and friends go.
but i've got family. fam-ily.

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithlessand therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

-The Invitation
Oriah Mountain Dreamer

Music:

i used to have an outrageous artist list on here.. but i took it off, cause it went on for days. anyway, if you really wanna check my steez, click back here every now & again.. i'm always switching up the songs :D

Movies:

coming to america.
the crow.
classic disney movies.
how to lose a guy in 10 days.
the godfather.(1)(2)&(3)
lord of the rings.(1)(2)&(3)
karate kid.
willy wonka.
blood diamond.
borat. lol.
memoirs of a geisha.
breakfast at tiffany's.
gridiron gang
carlito's way.

...and i'm not finished.

Television:

i don't watch mtv.. or ANYtv
unless there's an NFL game on

Books:

-green eggs and ham.
-nine steps to financial freedom.
-purpose driven life.
-who moved my cheese?
-think and grow rich.
-young, fabulous, & broke.
-the road to wealth.
-drama kings; the men who drive strong women crazy.
-kiss and run; the indecisive, picky girl's guide to overcoming her fear of committment.
-the art of being a woman.
-it's called a breakup because it's broken.
-in the meantime.
-a fighter's heart.

i'm not finished yet.

Heroes:

my hero is anyone that can find succession out of failure. individuals who look for the positive qualities in negative situations. yet, always push themselves to learn, grow & attain more for themselves, as well as the greater good.

it's all love

My Blog

you cannot curse the blessed.

"happy birthday" my lovely friend =)although it may or may not be your bithday today, consider this...TODAY is a new day. yesterday is history. and this morning, when you woke up... you were born agai...
Posted by jj on Mon, 30 Jun 2008 03:42:00 PST